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Everybody always presents laundromats in tv shows and movies as this sexy place where you meet horny singles who aren't wearing underwear because it's in the wash.

But in real life, that just isn't true. The laundromat has angry people who don't want to be there, and nobody EVER has sex, or takes their clothes off.

So why are laundromats always presented like that?

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 4 days ago (5 children)

aren’t wearing underwear because it’s in the wash

??????? Do these people only have one paif of underwear??

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I have zero paifs of underwear.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Don't believe everything you see on TV. There's a reason it's called "the idiot box".

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (10 children)

It makes me wonder how many people don't own washing machines. I mean I consider that was essential as a fridge.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

Definitely more common in suburban areas with more single family homes or places with larger apartments.

That said, having to drag all your laundry down to the laundromat or building laundry is very inconvenient and sucks up a lot of time. I don't miss that at all.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I mean.....it's getting harder and harder to buy a house as an individual. Apartment living is very real. And if you rent in a duplex, you're not going to buy a washer/dryer.

So.....yeah. I'd say not owning washer/dryer starts becoming more common if you're under 45, and gets more common the younger you go.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do your landlords not have any requirements to provide even a communal washing machine? In Sweden, and probably most other countries, the law says you have to have it within reasonable distance, otherwise the apartment isn't considered "livable".

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I mean I get that, certainly within the context of the last five years, but laundromats were a staple of American tv since the eighties I feel (that's at least what American tv I've seen).

Then again I'm almost in that age bracket you mentioned. Laundromats aren't a common where I live, though. There's more nowadays, due to the changes you mentioned, but it's not nearly a common aspect of life.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

laundromats were a staple of American tv since the eighties I feel (that's at least what American tv I've seen).

A lot of American TV takes place in NYC, and there just isn’t room for lots of apartments to have washers and dryers in NYC. Buildings might have a laundry room, or you go to a laundromat.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago

I think it's because they are a setting where people are there for a separate purpose to meeting a partner, which allows for romance to be portrayed as spontaneous. Also, clothes (particularly underwear, pyjamas and towels) come into contact with the body and imply intimacy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Is this about My Beautiful Laundrette?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

I mean you can't have a rags to riches romance take place where all the riches are.

In all seriousness, it's probably the culture. A lot of countries/cities do have settings where laundromats are slightly less angry because it's the preferred norm for getting things done.

That, sadly, does not include my local laundromat, which I'm reluctant to tend to during late hours. One could say it's like the real Five Nights at Freddy's there.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 5 days ago (4 children)

The laundromat has angry people who don't want to be there,

I live in a college town. The laundromat nearest me has a bar.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

I've seen one laundromat/bar like that, and instantly thought it was genius.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago

Or maybe it's a bar with a laundromat as lots of stains happen in bars.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The scientific reason is that the 350 watt drum connected to the dryer motor vibrates at 55 hertz which stimulates the female solar plexus. This creates a chain reaction and urges males to assert dominance and proceed with a mating ritual. When you combine this with the enticingly large sums of cash at a typical laundromat, you can see this is a devastating combination. The scantily clad hot body people is a side effect, not the cause.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 5 days ago

That reads like something out of the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

See, movies and TV shows are so unrealistic. Dry Cleaning is where the action is.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

I go to the barber for my head.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

Ugh! No lube?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I have never seen a laundromat romanticized in a movie as far as I can recall.

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[–] [email protected] 142 points 5 days ago (3 children)

You must watch very different movies than I do. I immediately envision something dank and dark with flickering lights.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I see it mostly in anime.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago (1 children)

And a frustrated Mr Bean trying to do laundry.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

That one episode of Friends

[–] [email protected] 30 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Everything Everywhere All At Once

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

When they announced that movie won at the Oscars, I swear I thought what they were trying to say was that all the movies won.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Yeah, watched it with my wife and we both said roughly WTF was that after it ended

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

Sorta related, enjoy..

"Anything and everything all of the time"

Bo Burnham - Welcome to the Internet

https://youtube.com/watch?v=k1BneeJTDcU

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

I immediately thought of this sexy flight of the Conchords music video:

https://youtu.be/N5gZgGckJDo

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Seattle used to have a combination laundromat/bar that was called Sit and Spin.

Never had a chance to go. I imagine it was a very horny place. Also at the time median age in Seattle was like 23.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

Be the change you want to see. Strip naked in the laundromat, lead by example...

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

Well I mean people have to strip naked in the laundromat to wash their clothes. What, you guys don’t do that?

For real though, I’d guess it’s just because it’s sort of a meet-cute type of location since patrons may kill time there while their clothes wash and dry and might chat with other patrons while waiting.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Lol having sex in a laundromat is not going to go over well

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

You didn't see the movie "My Beautiful Laundrette".

[–] [email protected] 62 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Wow, what kind of lame laundromats have you been visiting?

[–] [email protected] 58 points 5 days ago (3 children)

My last three laundromat visits involved anal.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

You're supposed to remove your clothes from your anus before you go to the laundromat.

I won't make that mistake again.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Nah, it just felt like it because it costs so much to start the machine.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago

Just put a few quarters in her

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 5 days ago

Yeah I'm tired of all this laundromat sexy-washing.

[–] [email protected] 151 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Because some of those angry lonely people are writers, and they have a lot of time to think.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

Daydream, “lots of time to ‘daydream’”

Let’s be honest half the stuff a guy writes is about how to win a girl over and the other half is having sex with said girl.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 5 days ago

Correct answer.

The people there are mainly bored because they are waiting. And sometimes creativity arises out of boredom.

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