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[–] [email protected] 83 points 5 days ago (6 children)

Just last week, someone left a note for me saying I'm a "goddess among mortals" for making a carrot cake without raisins.

I'm an overweight 40-year-old man with a beard. She hadn't seen who made the cake, so she was just making a guess that the baker was a woman, but still. Funny experience.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Who the fuck puts raisins in a carrot cake?
I have honestly never experienced an abomination. Not that there is anything wrong with raisins, but in carrot cake?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Most carrot cakes I've had contained raisins. I don't think it's chiefly an American thing but it definitely seems common enough.

I hate it. Anything that dramatically breaks up the texture of a food like that is a culinary mistake.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

Raisins in cinnamon rolls is the true crime

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The recipe I used actually suggested raisins in the cake and walnuts in the frosting. While I don't mind either on their own or in other things, carrot cake is supposed to be creamy and smooth. If I wanted crunch or chew, I'd choose...I dunno, german chocolate or something.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Walnuts on the frosting is fine with me but a lot of the ones from the shops used to put them in the cake - not so good.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

I did also leave the walnuts out because my son is allergic, so there's that. But left to my own devices, I'd rather have the walnuts on the side.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

This is standard in US-style carrot cakes

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

She's right. Cooked raisins are an abomination. You're a hero.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

raisins are an abomination

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

Oh shit, you are a goddess among mortals! Carrot cake is one of my all time favorites so I keep trying it despite being disappointed every time that someone put raisins in it. It’s just mean.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

She is correct. You are absolutely divine for excluding raisins, you radiant goddess, you!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

I’m 38, male, chubby, can’t grow a beard for shit.

Raisins are wank. You’re “a goddess among mortals”.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago

Embrace the joy, Goddess.