SharkEatingBreakfast

joined 2 years ago
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This is a women-only discussion community. If you do not identify as a women or fall under the umbrella cited in the community sidebar, then please refrain from posting or replying.

We're fighting a losing battle. This is a space where we are very clearly not wanted, and we cannot discuss women's issues without hostility.

Keep it limited to makeup and fashion, I guess, unless you want to be brigaded!

I'm over it. Let the boys have their playground. Lemmy is not a space that is welcoming to women, and, because of that, unless sweeping changes are made, I just don't see myself ever recommending it to any women as a good place to make a community.

I'm not going to contribute to its growth or content any longer. "PROGRESSIVE" space. Garbage. Absolute fucking hypocrisy. I'm so sick of having to explain myself and be made to feel like I need to justify my existence here.

Good luck, sisters. I'm desperate for community, but this feels more like a battleground than it does a home.

We appreciate the sideline supporters who respect the community rules & expectations and are respectful enough to not interject. You are very much loved and respected, brothers. 🫢

EDIT: This community & its moderators have been nothing but kind & respectful to men who post here, and are constantly shit on & downvoted because of it.

I have resorted to being hostile! And I see very little difference in how this is being received compared to them.

My blood pressure too high rn.

EDIT 2: Mods.. I'm sorry for leaving you to find this dumpster fire of a thread! I gotta go to bed and I'm sick of trying to explain things to people who don't actually care or want to understand.

Women: attempt to foster & curate their own community to talk about women-centric issues and experiences without being drowned out by majority voices

The rest of Lemmy:

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago

I've literally heard someone say "You'll be discriminated against for being straight in the US!"

Nah, bruh. It's not your straightness that's the issueβ€” it's your stupid-ass views & shit-fuck opinions.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

it is like porn for them.

You think that seeing other women cheat on their partners is like porn for women?

 
 
 
[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"Conservatives I respect:

The ones that stay quiet about their true feelings about how they believe that various groups of people they don't like don't deserve human rights" 🀑

Nah. I've tried to stay friends with conservatives before. They eventually reveal their most inhumane thoughts sooner or later.

I don't want to be friends with someone who wants my trans friends "purged", believes that women are inferior, thinks that people protesting for their rights is "terrorism", etc.

No fucking thank you.

 

It's a bolt on the hinge of a folding chair. No idea what the actual proper name for it is, though.

Can it be removed without destroying it or any part of the chair itself?

Any advice is appreciated! Thank you!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

🎢 Ooooh, my PΔ…czki, you're so yellow!

And ridiculously mellow!

I must say, there's no fellow,

Quite as stinky as you are!

But my boy, there is no place

Where you could not show your dumb face

And the people wouldn't make haste

To say: "That guy stinky– take him hither, take him far!" 🎢

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

My da told me "God does not forgive people who curse his name."

I asked "But God forgives people who sexually abuse kids?"

"If they ask for forgiveness, yes."

wHy DoNt YoU aTtEnD cHuRcH aNyMoRe??? lmao shut up.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

I lightly play my bearded dragon as a drum and make up little songs about how yellow and smelly he is. (:

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That happens when you have a community blocked. Same thing for me, too.

If anyone can repost the text in this thread, it'd be very much appreciated!

 
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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

It's literally the most natural thing in the world to equate reproductive effectiveness to worth. All life is "worth" their reproductive effectiveness. So not having sex is very relevant to our entire existence as a species.

As such, our mental faculties put a heavy punishment in the form of mental pain, i.e. "self-worth attached to getting laid", on this whole thing.

This has very little to do with societal expectations. It's simple biology. Not getting laid is supposed to be one of the worst things for an organism.

You're rationally right with what you say, but it's simply not very relevant. Rationality does not help with our most deeply rooted biological desires. The only thing that helps is getting them fulfilled, i.e. having sex."

From the Blackpill incel thread

I can't tell I'm just too ace to comprehend this. Is this a thing? Do women feel this? I argued it's more of a "societal expectation" thing and was countered with.. this.

Not saying this user is wrong, I just am having a difficult time understanding this.

"Our most deeply rooted biological desires" has me squinting real hard. Do women feel this way, too? Idk I'm absolutely confused af

EDIT: Please do NOT brigade the blackpill thread. No touch. Seriously.

Realization achieved: it's not an incel discussion thread: it's now an incel defense thread. What a fuckin' waste ffs..

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/65419033

Trolley pruleblem

 

cross-posted from: https://lemm.ee/post/65395835

Time to pay up :3 rule

Got a lil' too silly

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The power of jizz (sopuli.xyz)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Excruciating period pain that would leave me fainting and vomiting every. Single. Time.

"Every girl goes through this" said the doctor, convincing my parents that I was just "dramatic".

Turns out I had huge polyps growing out of control! Left scarring in my uterus and high-risk when pregnant.

Dealt with that hell every fucking month since I was 11 until I got onto birth control in my 20s.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago

My teen started shaving at 11 and he still hates it!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

train conductor

furry enjoyer

That checks out. πŸ‘

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