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Implying I'm hated in real life? I try my best to be reasonably polite and mind my own business. I guess that is reason enough for some.

People hate me more irl but there's assholes everywhere. It's just that "outside" is where the professional assholes go once they turn pro, so there's always bigger assholes irl. The wannabe assholes have to practice their skills online first before they can make it in the big league.

bro its everywhere I go

This implies people are hating you irl. Bro you ok?

They hate me online more than irl. And I’m under the impression I’m generally well regarded online

I don't think that they hate me online, so much as they often misunderstand me.

I think people hate me more online than here, especially on Lemmy compared to Reddit. However, I find the people here who hate me are looking to hate in general.

Online hate is interactive entertainment, its an incredibly enjoyable videogame.

Yes. Fuck them, though.

Online experience if your name is Tony

Ha! I knew you love me !

I get a lot more hate online than I do offline. Im also way more political online, so I guess thats part of it.

I honestly dont know or care.

I'm just some guy, I do what makes me happy, I do my best to be considerate but if my happy fucks up your day I dont care. If that isnt good enough for you, I still dont care.

Everyone loves me

Yup

Probably. I don't care.

I'm pretty sure at this point I've made several people wish death on me, or at least significant misfortune.

Being a leftist who believes in the civic duty to reduce harm through voting for less right leaning politicians does not make you popular with very many people at all.

I hope I'm well liked, I generally try to make good comments and be helpful/positive if I can manage it. That being said, I also know I will not get along with everyone and that's ok too. You can't please everyone, it's just human nature that some people won't get along.

Probably not, but that won't stop my anxiety from making me think everyone hates me.

Online it depends entirely on what I'm talking about whether I'm loathed or not

I don't usually get hate offline though, because I don't talk or leave my house

I don't think anyone who knows me hates me. I'm pretty easy to get along with.

Online...

That largely depends on who you talk to. Lots of people dislike my opinions.

Christofascists, white supremacists, white nationalists, racists, anti-vaxers, neo-Nazis and Nazis, anti-choicers, anti-maskers, Covid deniers, vegan extremists, incels and incucks, Puritans, the US Taliban, magats and the anti-reality crowd, the convoyists, the Save-The-Children crowd and Queen Dildo and her ragtag band of morons, PETA, the rabid pro-gun I'm-terrified-of-everything-so-I-need-a-grenade-launcher-to-buy-donuts crowd, and others seem to dislike the things I say. Of course tankies, trans extremists, the anti-gun crowd, and others who hate the first group also dislike some of the things I say. Just about everyone who lives in an echo bunker dislikes the reality I speak.

I say things that many people dislike but they tend to be the controlling-what-other-people-do mob and people who live in evil bunkers but generally I think I'm a good person and the people around me seem to think so too no matter where they lie on the political, religious, or social spectrum.

People hate me everywhere :( Odd thing about that though, one consistent theme in my life is it's always the commoners who hate me while the authority figures don't mind me. With only one exception, the few times authority figures didn't like me, they were commoner fill-ins. As for why they hate me, it has been traced to both marginalization and gossip.

No, but I'm not everyone's cup of tea, either.

People especially hate me online.