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I'm from Mexico, and the most used chat application is WhatsApp. It's used for EVERYTHING. I use Telegram only for contacting my family members (both my parents and my brother). They also use it only for this family chat. All my (and their) contacts use WhatsApp instead.

Now with the news that Telegram will collaborate with Twitter, I feel that I should delete it. Not that Zuck is any better than Musk, but still...

Also I don't think it's worth the effort to teach my parents yet another messaging app, like signal.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Telegram was developed by Russians and HQ is in United Arab Emirates. They have always been sketchy af.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Also I don’t think it’s worth the effort to teach my parents yet another messaging app, like signal.

My friend, just set up Signal on their phones, put it in place of the Telegram app and watch them not even notice anything changed.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago

I've heard good things about Signal, maybe try that?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

If you care about these things best would be to use a chat application like Jami which won't end up like WhatsApp.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

SimpleX is another alternative. There are so many popping up that I can't keep track anymore.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Unless you wrote it yourself, never assume that an app won't inevitably enshittify itself. People thought that about Firefox, too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

In what way do you consider Firefox to have enshittified itself?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

They've been adding AI chatbot integrations into the browser lately.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Ah yes. Very much a feature "no one" asked for, I imagine. At least not I.

But luckily, I've been largely unaffected by that addition. It's been easy to ignore so far.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I'd take Telegram over WhatsApp as I find Telegram, ignoring privacy concerns, is an excellent messenger. Much better than WhatsApp

But, Signal's pretty great.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (2 children)

You could use Delta Chat if you wanted...

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

It’s actually easier to switch over if you’re using a specific app just for family chats. Imagine trying to convince them to switch if they used telegram to communicate with everyone else as well. I’d say take the chance and switch over to Signal while you still can. I moved my family over from viber to signal a long time ago and the transition wasn’t as hard as I expected.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Despite being in the hands of the zuck, whatsapp is more private and secure than telegram, and not because of any collaboration with X/twitter, it's been that way forever... so go ahead and use it (but if you can, signal is even better on that front).

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (2 children)

WhatsApp is more secure by design, but one suspects that Meta is up to something. But I suppose to whatever extent it's possible to trust Meta, they are nonetheless likely a better guarantor of your security than Telegram is

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[–] [email protected] 95 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Collaborating with Xitter is not the most distasteful thing Telegram has done. Its marketing model has been to consistently lie to people about being encrypted when that's only true in very limited cases. It has also catered to criminals by attempting to make it difficult to comply with legal demands for information, while holding that information for its own purposes.

Signal, on the other hand is always encrypted and does its best to hold as little information about users as possible.

Also I don’t think it’s worth the effort to teach my parents yet another messaging app, like signal.

What is there to learn? Every popular messaging app has pretty much the same UI.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Isn't it good for a communication company to be noncompliant with people's conversations?

[–] [email protected] 36 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Being unable to comply (signal) and selectively refusing to comply while still having access to the data (telegram) is not equivalent

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago

If you get rid of Telegran, at least you'd only have one shitty messenger instead of two.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 5 days ago

Can you use signal?

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