Find a purple voting district, move there and vote blue - the republicans need more social services to use regularly while they complain about people expecting "handouts"
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Snow? Realllllyyyy depends on where in the state
Western Washington gets almost none, and you’ve got the whole I5 corridor to move to. Vancouver is the biggest city with the most affordable housing ratio. Not that it’s an oddly deep red district which is counter intuitive considering its size and proximity to Portland.
Bellingham up near the border is next in line, but it’s smaller and further from city activities.
Tacoma and Olympia are both cities that Seattleites are starting to move to despite the commute due to more affordable housing.
Then there’s Everett, the home of Boeing and about 25 miles north of Seattle. Cheaper than Seattle and has reasonable access to Seattle or to head north to the border. Still expect to pay 600k plus for a house though.
Lastly there’s everything between. It’s all small towns, rural areas, trees, and hills. The spot about smack dab between Tacoma and Portland gets more snow than most of the west side of the state, so maybe not for you. But the rest is good. And these places will all be cheap as hell to buy in. You just won’t have city amenities.
Just live where other people don't want to live. Living in desirable places drives the prices up.
Is the East Coast out of the question?
I know this will be unpopular, but if you're ok with heat and traveling out of state if you need an abortion, Texas may be an option. Yes, our governor is terrible, but day to day life is not the horror that you see on tv. Our big cities are blue and populationwise we're not as red as you think (52-46% in 2020). Snow and ice are pretty minimal. The topography varies tremendously across the state - mountains, desert, coastal, etc. - and each big city has it's own vibe, so there are lots of opportunities for weekend getaways. We have great food, good airports, and colleges and universities of every size and focus. Housing prices have increased since COVID but are still much lower that the east or west Coast. I'm in Dallas and i like it here. San Antonio is a very fun city and a little cheaper.
Nah, Texas is way worse than you say.
Just having a baby is dangerous. Pregnancy complications can quickly lead to a death of both. Doctors are leaving the state. A miscarriage could be prosecuted as murder.
Abbott is really pushing the school vouchers because private schools can set "standards" so specific as to keep certain people out of getting an education.
If you ever need unemployment, Medicaid, or social security, Texas does everything possible to refuse money from the federal government to fund these programs.
Non-cis people are losing rights. The DPS for driver licenses is a mess because not having a driver license makes people think they can't vote
Voter rolls have been purged.
Many places receiving state money have closed their diversity programs. Abbott doesn't understand that wheelchair ramps and wide doors are "inclusion."
And if you think DE&I isn't important, imagine trying to wash your hands at an automatic sink, only to find out the faucet sensor was only trained on a different skin color so it doesn't see you.
City Nerd has a few great videos on affordable places to live that have urban amenities, for example: https://youtu.be/1qzePci2N6E?si=dWq43GmzH5ObF1q8
Raleigh/Durham in NC. it's a little bubble of progressive in a red state. Houses aren't crazy yet. Lots of tech work. No snow.
Been in this area for almost 35 years. Had to move further south (Johnston Co… like 30 min from downtown Raleigh) to find a house we could afford. Lived in Cary in a townhouse that more than doubled in rent in 10 years.
Can confirm there are quite a few IT jobs. Been in IT since mid 90s.
All in all would recommend this area.
How is the tech pay there? Right now my jobs average between $120k to $200k base.
Same as Austin, but housing is not really affordable right now, unless you're willing to live out in the burbs.
I'm told Seattle isn't bad. And you're close to Vancouver.
What's in Vancouver? Genuine question, I moved away from the Vancouver area last year and don't miss anything.
Are you working remotely or would you depend on the local economy for a job?
Because the big catch is, the places you can afford have no work.
Or even with remote work, you need broadband access, so no DSL, no Hughesnet.
This is why I moved to rural Oregon, paid mid-5 figures for a one-off trenched fiber line, and still came out on top.
Upstate NY, VT, ME, NH, basically new england, some snow, but pretty nice places
NE is nice but it has also been hit hard with housing cost increases. I have family there and it sounds really rough ATM
You can get a lovely former meth lab in Providence for $350k. It might need some structural work. Also it doesn't snow here anymore.
I would recommend somewhere in Europe. You will have paid vacation and heathcare insurance and (almost) free school and … :)
I've looked into relocating there, but citizenship seems difficult?
I also think I read somewhere that there are stricter labor laws so I wouldn't be able to freelance as heavily (~30 hours a week) alongside having full-time employment?
One citizenship please!
Split the difference. Go somewhere in northern CA or southern OR (Portland is pricy too).
I’ve lived in Washington State (western) for 4 years total and have seen exactly 10 days of snow the entire time I’ve been here. Houses are still 3-400k. I want to move either closer to SeaTac or down to Vancouver because I bought a house in an area with a lot of flags on trucks if you catch my drift. We have more cloudy days than anything. We get lots of rain but it’s mostly just clouds and drizzles.
That's my ideal weather. But, yeah, I need to be near a metro area to be happy
I’d personally recommend Vancouver then. Lived there in an apartment for a year and it was a nice mix of urban, suburban and rural. Basically drive 15 minutes in any direction and you’re in a new biome. Personally looking to move back there once I get a new job and sell the house.
Tennessee still has some affordable housing in rural areas. Very little snow as well.
Are you prepared for no-flouride water, septic tanks, an awful education system, a sub-tropical climate that seems to get less "sub" every year, more types of pollen than you've ever dreamed of, more guns than people, and rampant meth/opioid abuse?
Don't forget the discrimination and frequent unreported assaults on queer folks and people of color!
Tennessee: The volunteer (to give up any reasonable expectation at a decent quality of life) state!
Or consider Rural PA, all the same problems, but with the climate of early 2000s Tennessee!
I think New Mexico is where it’s at for low/no snow and affordable housing. Not coastal vibes at all, but neither is it anywhere close to Texas feeling. They just kind of have their own thing. Almost anywhere on the I-25 between Albuquerque and Las Cruces might suit your desire.
What's your issue with snow?
I've never lived in it, so I wouldn't want to be a menace on the icy roads
Icy roads are generally ok if you have a front or 4 wheel drive and you know they're icy so are on high alert and ready to deal with other motorists doing reckless shit which is 99% of the issues you'll face (like driving their rear wheel drive car round a corner up a hill, then spinning out as they accelerated too hard and ending up sliding back down the road towards you, which happened to me but as I was driving reasonably I just pulled over to the side)
What you've gotta watch out for is wet leaves though... Sounds innocent enough but in the wrong conditions they're as slippy as if not more than ice and because usually they're fine your brain just dismisses them until the day you slide/spin on them
Don't worry, loads of people that live in a snowy climate also are a menace on the road.
I have lived in a snow area for decades after moving from California.
Nobody knows how to drive in the snow here. They forget every year, so you will fit right in. Get a car with AWD, leave room to stop, accelerate slowly, no throttle when sliding to regain traction(don't put your foot to the floor), and keep your tires where others have driven. Snow tires are amazing, but not necessary and are a hassle. Keep a small snow shovel in the trunk and non-folding traction mats if you can. You should also keep a charged jumper pack in your car because the cold don't give a shit about you needing to start your car.
Get a car with AWD
Be prepared to pay 4x as much when you need a replacement tire (you have to replace all 4)
Depends on how much wear is on the existing set, 5/32nds difference is where you need to do all four to avoid damaging something.
I've never heard of replacing 1 tire. it's usually in pairs. never been told to replace all 4 with my awd either.
Guess Les Schwab ripped me off then
not an issue if you live in a city centre where you won't need to drive, or on the outskirts of somewhere that has good public transit. hard to say what your requirements are though; if you're planning to have to commute or otherwise.
Can't be any worse than most of the people who have lived in it their whole lives.
Seriously, I'd take someone new to driving in snowy/icy conditions over someone who has a bunch of misplaced confidence in their driving skills because they've "been driving in worse than this for decades!" in a heartbeat.
The newbie is much more likely to actually adapt to the conditions and drive more cautiously.
A friend of mine just moved to California. San Diego. Couldn’t afford a house so he bought a boat and he now lives on the boat. He said the boat is much better than any house. It’s much larger than any house he could maybe afford there and if he doesn’t like San Diego, he could just float away to somewhere else.
How does electricity and sewage work for this? Does their slip have hookups?
Dock slip fees gonna get ya
Just anchor off shore and row in like a pirate. Good exercise too.
This honestly sounds really appealing