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reddit is shit and makes me annoyed, twitter is shit and makes me annoyed, tiktok is shit and makes me annoyed, pure news sites are boring, cracked is dead, google doesn't work anymore, lemmy is only memes and news and fairly slow

i feel like i used to be able to sink into an activity on this machine, but now i just spend 5 minutes somewhere, the algorithm runs out of content, i get annoyed and go somewhere else, same process happens. i feel like i have amnesia, i used to enjoy this but i have no idea how.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm listening to a 44 hour audio book on YouTube.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I have limits set. 30 mins for Lemmy, 30 mins for YouTube, 30 mins for news and 30 mins for hacker news

I try to not just hang online, but instead game and watch shows

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I am on lemmy most of the time but i also watch ton of movies and shows

[–] [email protected] 25 points 8 months ago

Used to be reddit. I'm here now because I can't be on reddit anymore, but this place (maybe thankfully) just isn't the abyss to suck me into, so now, my online time is mostly on discord

I'm not counting videogames. Though I do play some online stuff, I don't consider it the same as something like browsing a website. It's a different activity. If you do count it, then yeah, it's games. My computer time is largely games

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago (5 children)

I'm reading more and watching movies way more. I LOVE movies. Sometimes in the 2010s I completely lost the ability to watch movie without being on my phone. My goal is to change that

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I'm movie and tv junkie too .

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I watch YouTube and twitch(without log-in). I mostly watch penguinz0 videos and valorant esports on twitch.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

I mostly don't. I write, program, play a game, catch up on work, spend time with family, etc. instead. I'm kind of glad because I've noticed life has genuinely improved since taking a step back from the Internet's toxicity.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Low effort stuff: Lemmy, rock paper shotgun, ars technica.

Slightly more effort: Bandcamp

High effort: video games, reading

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

If I am not browsing lemmy or forums that I have used for 20+ years, I follow a few patreon creators to catch their new releases as well as a few other content creators who livestream on twitch and youtube.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I'm here. Or in a game. Or watching YouTube. Sometimes I am here while in a game watching YouTube. It's actually funny that I have been in VRChat, scrolling my phone using scrcpy while watching stuff on a screen on the virtual wall. Like I'm just doing what I would do without VR, but as my fursona in a sick space station.

It has the same vibe of watching a sim of yourself watching TV.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Lemmy, YouTube. There's so many good videos on YouTube that I don't have time to watch. Searching up how to do something online. There's always some Linux programs I don't know to use. Currently I am also watching The Computer Chronicles on archive.org. There's also some sort of hidden parts of online you may not be realizing are there, though I haven't spent basically any time there yet. For example Gopherspace. Gopher is an old protocol that used to compete with HTTP. It still has some people using it, just for fun. Of course, you won't just find those gopher holes as the protocol isn't supported by modern browsers. You can use Lynx.
You can use Veronica 2 search engine here: gopher://gopher.floodgap.com/1/

[–] [email protected] 51 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Download and distribute Nintendo emulators and roms.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

I understand the reference.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Other than reading webcomics and webserials, I don't spend a lot of time online these days. I check lemmy and reddit for about ten minutes each two or three times a day.

But increasingly I play local multiplayer games with my kids and read ebooks offline.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Same, I kinda like it. I'm rediscovering what I did before I got addicted to social sites without realizing that's what happened. Turns out I still enjoy movies and books!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Well, first the obvious, Lemmy, YouTube, learn a language, learn a skill. Do you have any creative outlets?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

YouTube

Lemmy

NPR

Discord

I spend more time sorting my weapons and gear and creating loadouts on a 3rd party app for Destiny 2 than I actually spend playing the game

Pinterest

Recipe hunting on various websites

Still browse Reddit but less and less every day

Never look at Twitter unless something else linked to it, and I don't have an account

Never look at Instagram, I don't have an account

Facebook once a week at best, though only on my PC, I deleted the app from my phone ages ago

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Lemmy and Discord mostly. I watch a lot of YouTube. I also spend days going down Wikipedia rabbit holes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Ultimate guitar .com + a few choice youtube videos and you could be playing amateurish but satisfying guitar songs in a few weeks. Take it from there and who knows how far you’d go.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

Reading, discord, mastodon, crocheting are my main things at this point. Lemmy occasionally.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I tutor, lead a dumb mobile game clan of around 100 people, read, listen to music and watch youtube videos.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 8 months ago

Discord communities, youtube for content I enjoy, lemmy, checking tumblr and mastodon.

I used to say that "Once I leave Reddit I'll have more time for my hobbies instead of looking at a screen about my hobbies" but I realized that:

  • One website's existence doesn't solve or prevent a problem of my brain chemistry
  • I already have a lot of hobbies and reddit introduced me to some, and most of those are offline.

I think the fact that Reddit imploded is good, it gave me an excuse to leave a site that I hated more than I enjoyed being part of it, for lots of reasons.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Facebook, Voyager, Google News with a daily 30 minute limit for each.

YouTube with no limit but usually multitasking.

Email, whatsapp, other work stuff.

Podcasts sometimes while driving / working.

ABC listen sometimes while driving / working.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (1 children)

If you have that lying around, play that freaking game you left on your steam library for later. While playing this game, limit/cut all your accesses to these social platforms that makes you turn in circles.

Also do invite old friends or loved ones, at least on discord, talking with real humans sometimes could help you disconnect from these ragebait worlds.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I recently put together a small discord server (maybe a dozen or so people) with some internet friends I met on IRC and Slack back in the day. It's been lovely getting the gang back together after most of a decade of silence, I'm enjoying catching up with everyone very very much. Highly recommend, it's been great for my recent mental health, and reportedly so for a couple other folks in the group as well.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I mostly just read things on Mastodon, Lemmy and Bluesky, even though I didn't really do much social media in the before times. Actually got in touch with a side of myself I've been neglecting for a while, I guess. However, I've also learned that I'm not the kind of person that can deal with people online being sad, which is a problem on leftist social media where everyone is suffering. I should really touch grass or something.

Other than that, I've been gaming and trying to talk with friends over Discord (nobody is online much nowadays. ;_;).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I never spent much time on Twitter or on Reddit - I have an old Reddit account, but it has 15 karma or something like that. Likewise I have a very old Twitter account, but I never posted anything to it nor did I use it to follow people. I just never had any interest.

For some reason, the social web sucks me in in the same way PhpBB forums did when I was in my early teens. Not quite as bad of course, but it's still striking.

Other than Mastodon and this place, I read news and sometimes tinker with my personal website. I rarely struggle to waste time if I want to.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

Podcasts mostly. Lemmy is ok, but it lacks the content Reddit once had.

[–] [email protected] 70 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like you need to go outside m8. Try doing something new. Maybe do something good for yourself, like exercising or reading a book.

Also you can block the meme comms and the news comms that don't interest you and then your feed might have some more interesting posts.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 8 months ago (8 children)

While this is good advice in theory the unfortunate truth is if you block all the memes and news you're going to get like 1 new post a day. Lemmy is mostly memes and politics and Linux right now. We just don't have the population density such that the 28 English-speaking turtle breeders in the world can find each other in a community (or whatever else your hobby is). We're already struggling to fill content for relatively popular video games, for example, I've been subbed to the Deep Rock Galactic communities since day one but I've only ever seen like, two posts in those communities, ever, and both of them were within the past week. (I am well aware of the irony of myself, who has never posted content a day in his life, complaining about a lack of content - I'm more of a comments kind of guy, always have been. I won't go against my nature to post trash memes to communities that I want to see flourish. But I will vote up your trash memes if you want to post some.)

Point being, long story short, et al, etc. - Lemmy needs more users interested in posting more things than just memes and politics and Linux if we want to have an environment containing more than memes and politics and Linux. The future starts with YOU - and if not you then the next guy down the line, and so on until we run out of people with anything to say.

Anyway, I am quite stoned and must be on my way; my people need me. Adiós, amigo, until next time.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

you're going to get like 1 new post a day.

Huh, I hardly disagree, I barely follow news communities, no meme communities at all and still get a fairly fresh feed daily.

I follow 893, communities though.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Unfortunately/Fortunately that's the audience that lemmy appeals most to. Personally, that's (more or less) what I want from a community

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I've embraced this and started reading more books and taking my health and passions more seriously. I've even ditched my Apple Watch and have found other ways to declutter and minimize my digital lifestyle. It's genuinely freeing and feels fantastic.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Me too, when I left reddit I took up ebooks and hadn't seriously read things since I was in high school. It's been great!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Same here! Been reading/listening to audiobooks since I left reddit. Found any new favorites?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Discord, Mastodon, games. That's really it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

YouTube and video game lore. Warhammer lore is extensive.

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