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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

That's one of the reasons I use Lemmy. I see links to major news stories, those I'm likely to care about and nothing else news related. I think there are celebrity news and sports communities. I'd also be surprised if there isn't a Eurovision community out there. But if the things you've described are "pop culture" then seemingly I have no interest in it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nah I'm with you on this. I have this weird set of interests that align me well with Lemmy, but also as a dirtbag couch goblin who binges reality TV like my life depends on it. I feel like Lemmy can get a little uh... holier than thou about it and I don't feel like I have any trashy echo chambers anymore. I miss Instagram reality and all the snark subs tbh.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

You get it. People are already dismissing Kendrick as "some rapper". Imagine trying to talk about Single's Inferno here. 💀

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

There are bajillion other sites where you can wallow in mainstream pop culture and consume whatever slop that has been deemed as sufficently advertiser friendly. I am here to fly my freak flag high.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

I dunno I barely know what people are talking about anyways even when using reddit or twitter because most of my interests are aren't that mainstream

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

DAE died a violent death on reddit years ago. I was there. I remember the backlash.

Let's not revive it here. This place is special.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

'there is no posts related to my interests' 'go to domains specific to your interests!' domain specific to your interests: last post is a reddit screenshot from 3 months ago, 0 comments

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

If [email protected] can do it, your interest can too

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thank fucking god. The next person to say Kendrick Lamar will get hands laid on them 'stat

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Because I'm fucking tired of it, why do you think

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

You can just scroll away? There is no Kendrick Lamar content on Lemmy, and if you're talking about seeing it on other corporate social media, you can filter/block it out quite easily.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

You can always create posts in appropriate communities to start conversations on topics you're interested in. Be the change you wish to see in the world.

I don't care much for most pop culture stuff and get enough by happenstance from other sources/people.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

That's why I'm here. This week, I learned who Kendrick Lamar and Drake are, and I feel stupider for it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Kendrick Lamar has a Pulitzer, why would you feel stupid for learning about him?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not him, per se, but the realization that I'm part of the same species with people who care about foreign royalty, what some actor was wearing, or a rap feud. Cripes, there's even a separate Wikipedia entry about it, which somehow meets the notability requirement.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

It’s a particularly notable rap feud though.

Kendrick Lamar is fucking brilliant. To Pimp a Butterfly and Good Kid, M.A.A.D. City are absolute brilliant albums that examine blackness in America, alcoholism, family dynamics… he’s a god tier lyricist.

And he basically dropped diss after diss on Drake - musically brilliant, while also airing out the fact that Drake is a sexual predator, involved with Diddy parties - like Kendrick was doing some shit akin to exposing an Epstein through music so fucking good and catchy that it took over TikTok and the world.

It’s probably the biggest feud since the West Coast/East Coast rivalry of the 90’s - which ended up with several people dead. Kendrick won with the power of his writing. Like people genuinely are expecting Drake to possibly kill himself, because you can’t beat the fact that every teen in America was singing along to “tryna strike a chord - probably A minor.”

I get being dismissive of pop culture in general, but I would strongly advise anyone who hasn’t listened to Kendrick to have an open mind. The show was also brilliant and layered - he brought out Serena William to crip walk to further own Drake - he had stalked and harassed her for years.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Tbf, Kendrick Lamar is an unbelievably talented musician. Drake is just a lame ass celebrity, you can easily ignore him and be better off.

But Kendrick has made some really fantastic albums. If you're not into rap than you might not care too much anyway, but he doesn't belong in the same conversation as Drake, despite their dumb ass feud.

I don't even like hip-hop that much but Section 80 and Good Kid, M.A.A.D. City are easily among my favorite albums of all time.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

Yes and I love it.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Go on asklemmy and ask what people think of the situation. Go on casualconversation and talk about your opinions.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I used to interact with people from my country on reddit

Because of that, along with me not watching/reading romanian news, i miss big events like the country being invited to schengen

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Yes, it was. It was all over lemmy for several days.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

No. I make my own pop culture.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Gonna be honest, pop culture is the thing about Reddit I miss the least. I couldn't care less what drama some rich people are getting into, unless that drama is their yachts being sunk by killer whales.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

The place was truly dead when the front page became indistinguishable from supermarket tabloids.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Yeah, but every time I hear about celebrity shit it's fucking stupid and it pisses me off so I consider missing it a good thing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I specifically came here because I was uninterested in the pop culture chat that I was seeing in my socials. I want to talk to more people in less mainstream nerd culture

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Hmm.. maybe? But I'm ok with it. All those things in your second paragraph are things I'd never care about anyways.

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