Lennnny

Olives with beer taste just like toast! Fosters is the best for testing this theory.

One can hope

A really good distilling setup, or an embroidery machine, or a hen house upgrade, or a sublimation printer and T-shirt press, or a fancy wine fridge (stocked)... I have a lot of favorite hobbies.

Yeah. And I spent a while posting prolifically to them, but without comments, and without new posts, it's kinda pointless. I want to see OTHER people's content.

I'm glad you've got your routine and cat! Cats are amazing partners in sad. Make sure you allow yourself just to exist in the complexity of your grief for a while though, there's no timeline you have to stick to to 'get over it'.

I'm sorry, that's awful. How are you doing with it all?

We need a word that we can tag onto our posts that basically means "yes outdoor cats harm the environment and is bad for the cat, yes you should spay and neuter, yes I will register the stray with the county, check for a chip, and monitor lost posters to make sure the cat is not pre-owned before I adopt it, yes a cat is for life and I made this decision with sound mind, yes I know X food is not good for the cat, yes I know to get vaccines and regular cat care, etc etc etc". Or, perhaps people can just assume good will from other humans and not throw unsolicited advice their way every time they post a simple photo of a cat.

We think she belongs to the house behind us, so I'm gonna put a collar on her with a note tomorrow and see if we get confirmation.

Ok I'm going to level with you now. I posted three things to a somewhat slow community. So far you've found issue with two of them, despite neither of the things you've suggested being rules in the side bar. As I said on my other post, this makes me not want to contribute - fuck me for helping, right?