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I know there was some schism and moving of instances, but beyond that I can’t deduce what happened/is happening.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I block most meme based communities because they overpower the rest of what I like, but I've been picking up bits of the events from context.

Does this center around the one individual using, shall we say, a very distinct set of pronouns that a lot of people took issue with?

I kind of enjoyed that person in a social commentary way, but I can see why people more directly effected by pronoun usage may have taken issue and blahaj changing their rules due to it, but if that is what is causing this big schism, that's a pretty wild thing that all is this is the result. I'm interested in the opinions on both sides, but it's one of these things I'm afraid to ask due to polarization like this. I have genuine curiosity but I can totally see how someone could trollishly go after the same info.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

sounds like me. I don't specifically hate memes but like new ones pop up constantly and some seem to be generated just so an individual can throw things up. dank ass, memeorama, funny home of the fun, just all over the place. I actually just blocked 196 a bit ago because I was loathe since I consider it a bit more historically legit but man I want like less than 1% to be memes.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

It's a broader disagreement that's been simmering for a while. The 196 mods say that the Drag controversy is unrelated, as Dragonfucker had been banned from 196 long before for unrelated reasons.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The 196 mods say that the Drag controversy is unrelated, as Dragonfucker had been banned from 196 long before for unrelated reasons.

Although...this is some sort of spat relating to pronouns, and as I recall, isn't that guy's thing referring to himself using the third person?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

The spat is unrelated to pronouns or neopronouns, according to the 196 mods. It has to do with the Blahaj admins and the 196 mods disagreeing on moderation behavior for the community, and the 196 mods not wanting to have their own moderation decisions reversed or second-guessed by admins if there wasn't a rule violation in how the 196 mods handled moderation.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Thanks for these responses. I hope everyone reaches a satisfactory resolution to this. I don't like to see communities or instances infighting, but I suppose it's just part of us growing as a platform.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Home brew drama is driving genuine engagement...

Let them fight, bring some popcorn!

At the end of the day, they ain't leaving fedi so it is win win

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I mean, it has drug me into it despite me having them hidden in my feed, so it's effective.

Not the type of things I usually look for, but I know many do enjoy it.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

The really quick summary is that the mods of the 196 community on blahaj.zone wanted to move the community to lemmy.world, but did not announce it publicly to the users or seek their input, and so when the announcement came out, users of the instance felt blindsided by the announcement, and that lemmy.world was a fairly unpopular choice of instance. The resulting discussion from the thread largely did not dissuade skeptical users and contributed to the feelings that the mods were making a unilateral decision based on their desire and ignoring what the users of 196 wanted, and the decision to keep the original community on lemmy.blahaj.zone locked meant that users who did not want to post on lemmy.world were losing out their community.

This resulted in another 196 clone being created on blahaj, the original 196 becoming unlocked, and so now there are 3 196 communities. The newest one, [email protected], has a particularly high posting rate right now, as users are attempting to assert that community's support as opposed to the ones run by the mods of the original and the lemmy.world communities.

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[–] [email protected] 231 points 2 weeks ago (17 children)

Back in December, the instance hosting 196 (lemmy.blahaj.zone) announced that, as part of its mission as a trans-friendly space, harassment based on gender or neopronouns would remain prohibited—even if the user in question was suspected of being a troll. Users were asked to disengage, block, and report suspected trolling behavior rather than bring harassment into a community already vulnerable to that kind of bullying.

There was a small backlash to the policy from some users. This led to a number of “toe the line” posts that weren’t outright gender-based harassment but strongly signaled an intent to misgender or harass in the future. Blahaj admins promptly removed all offending comments during this wave of dissent.

Important to note: The majority of the Blahaj and 196 users supported the policy, upvoting and praising the admins for creating a safe space for trans individuals.

By January, the backlash had mostly subsided, and the trolls causing issues had moved on. However, 196 moderator @moss and their team remained unhappy with the policy. They cited “personal differences” and felt Blahaj admins had overstepped by removing comments themselves rather than allowing 196 mods to address users who openly expressed intent to harass others.

Yesterday, @moss and the 196 moderation team enacted a major decision without consulting the community. They locked [email protected] and instructed users to move to [email protected].

This move was extremely unpopular. Many users strongly dislike lemmy.world for various reasons (a complicated topic better unpacked elsewhere). The announcement post was met with widespread backlash, and @moss eventually locked it. In response, a few users created a new community on Blahaj: [email protected]. The new community quickly grew in size and activity, with most users opting to stay on Blahaj rather than migrate to lemmy.world.

It’s clear @moss and the 196 moderators underestimated the community’s attachment to its home on Blahaj. By attempting to uproot the group without input, they alienated much of the community. As a result, most users have moved to the new Blahaj-hosted community, which has already become the more active space.

TL;DR:
@Moss and the 196 mod team tried to move the community to lemmy.world without consulting anyone. The decision was extremely unpopular, leading to backlash and the creation of a new Blahaj-hosted community that most users now prefer.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

They stated pretty directly it wasn't about the Dragonfucker incident, nor did it involve policies on neopronouns. Drag wasn't even banned for anything to do with neopronouns.

I think the move to lemmy.world was a mistake, but I believe them when they say it has nothing to do with the neopronouns policy.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Correct. Nevertheless the neopronouns incident was something of a catalyst; all the “differences” had to do with trans issues in some way, and it would be amiss of me not to point out the biggest moment that made 196 come out in support of Ada and Blahaj.

Their other “differences” are also bogus in my opinion.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I wonder if Blahaj admins will kick out all the mods who locked 196 and replace them with the mods who created oneninetysix.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

No and no. Ada stated that she will not oust the mod team, and she is currently the mod of onehundredninetysix, though is trying to find someone else to take it over as she has no interest in being mod.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thanks for the writeup ... there should be some kind of news service for stuff like this. Everyone notices weird changes on lemmy but not everyone is in tune to every detail, every personality, every major user or mod, every instance, every community and everything they're doing.

All I saw were the changes and activities but I had no clue who, what, where or why .... which meant you didn't know who supports what or for what reason.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I was watching that community over the past day or two and didn't see any news about any of this until now .... things were happening on Lemmy, lots of new posts from 196 everywhere and noise about a controversy there and no info for those who don't know until this post was made

fediverselore is good .... it's just a bit slow in the uptake

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Anyone who is angry they can't whip out queerphobia when they're annoyed at someone who uses neopronouns doesn't understand why it's not OK to say racist shit about Clarance Thomas, misogynistic shit about JK Rowling, or transphobic shit about Keffals.

Just a huge red flag that respecting other people's humanity is contingent on benefiting them.

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[–] [email protected] 70 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This comment would probably make for a good crosspost to [email protected]

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

on it!

edit: https://lemmy.cafe/post/12094663 thanks again for the suggestion

[–] [email protected] 57 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Great write-up, thanks. I love a good shit-show. 🍿

Sounds to me like the OG mods could have said “we don’t like how the admin runs things here, we are leaving as mods and starting a new 196 on .world with hookers and blackjack, you guys do what you want here.”

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I guess they decided to forget the hookers ...... and the blackjack.

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 weeks ago

I genuinely would have had no problem with that, and I think most others would agree with me.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I too was confused so read the post the mod wrote. Admins were banning users without telling mods. Admin said they were banning because mods weren't doing their job. Mods talked to admin and they agreed moving to world would be better. Users got angry because no one told them.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 weeks ago

Imagine an apartment building. The landlord decides the local city council is too overbearing, and decides to move to a different city. They expect the tenants to move with them.

Problem 1: The local city is known for inclusivity, and the new city is known for being overpopulated and having an overbearing city council. Either the landlord has sinister motives or didn't do their research.

Problem 2: The tenants weren't told of the move before the moving van came, and were given no opportunity to weigh in on the decision. The landlord was calling all the shots.

Problem 3: The landlord sealed the building as they moved, making it impossible for someone else to take over as landlord and keep the building running. There was really no reason to do that.

This went about as smoothly as you'd expect. While the landlords did eventually unseal the building, a lot of people completely lost faith in them and moved into a new apartment building in the same city, but with a new landlord ( [email protected] ).

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

Semi-related question: What the fuck is 196? I've never understood what it was, just that it was a carry-over from Reddit. Me browsing it is like Homer Simpson reading a Far Side calendar: "I don't get it. I don't get it. I don't get it. LOL....I don't get it."

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Edit: seems my memory of the quantity was wrong.

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I think in Rainman, when the 200 toothpicks fell to the ground, Ray counted 196 instantly. There were four left in the box.

The sub name is unrelated, but that's how I think of it :)

Time to go counting cards...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Well in Rain Man, he counted 246 toothpicks ("82, 82, 82.") out of 250

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

The continuation of /r/196.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=r%2F196

r/196

A subreddit that gained popularity due to only having one rule, which is to post before leaving. The sub started after it's predecessor, r/195, was shut down by the moderators.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Some guy made a subreddit called 195 (named after their dorm room number IIRC) where the only rule was that you had to post something before leaving. They later closed the subreddit because it had gotten too large to operate by one person. 196 was created by the community as a successor with the same one rule. Just post. Simple as.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

Missing a real chance to continue adding up here. The current one should be 198

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

For me, a place where people post dumb and entertaining memes. I guess the origin was “rule 196” which says that you have to post something before you leave or log off. But whatever, dumb meme, me press up button.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Mods made a dictator decree to move the community to world, and blocking the old one. People did not agree and made their own new one. On the original instance. Spam in the new community ensued.

Either way, old one was blocked for me. New one too.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Mod team wanted to move to another instance due to oddities and frustration with modding on a difference instance to their accounts(with a light amount of disagreement with instance admins, though not really drama worthy), and they elected to do so without any warning or community input. Many people were displeased by this, which was compounded by the decision to lock the old community rather than simply abandon it and let someone else take over.

You then get a mix of opportunists, drama vampires, the standard fare “all change is bad”, and people that were just unhappy that the decision was made suddenly and opaquely, all working to try to make a new community on .blahaj, with varying levels of smugness, bickering, and some level of actual reasonable discourse hidden beneath it all.

We’ll see “which” 196 ends up being the de facto, but my money’s on .world just due to user numbers and the fact that the old 196 was basically the only community anybody outside of .blahaj ever saw from the instance in my experience.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

We’ll see “which” 196 ends up being the de facto, but my money’s on .world just due to user numbers

investigates

As of this writing, it looks like the userbase on each is:

Community Subscriber Count
[email protected] 270
[email protected] 4490

EDIT: [email protected] has 16,800 subscribers, but if you figure that it's been around for a while and probably some of those accounts aren't active or are duplicates from people changing home instance or the like, active users might be a better metric. It's had 1.46k users active in the last day, 5.38k users in the last week, 9.8k users in the last month, and 19.4k users in the last 6 months.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

I wouldn’t wanna call it for a few weeks at the very least, and sub numbers feel like an odd metric to me since I barely sub to anything on lemmy. The blahaj instance seems to have a lot more activity at the moment for instance, but a lot of that was just frantically reposting old content from the other instance so 🤷🏻‍♂️

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