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Smaller community, so the power users (like myself, FlyingSquid, The Picard Maneuver and others) will undoubtedly be more prevalent than the many, many other users that barely post at all.
Yeah, you are very recognisable, but people like me, who lurk most of the time, comment maybe once a month.
Not very memorable.
I literally scrolled through looking for your comment.
I see you everywhere and I enjoy it. Thanks for contributing to all the conversations. O7
Non respect
some of those are also the same kind of power tripping neckbeard discord mods we fled from by leaving reddit. (fragile ego ban incoming in 3...2...1...)
I'll never understand the intense and visceral anger some people on the internet have towards facial hair. Also really leaning into the 4chan-esque Everyone Online Is Dudes trope.
Because a neck beard isn't facial hair. It's neck hair. Neckbeards are usually indications of poor hygiene rather than some appreciation of facial hair
I can't believe I'm defending neckbeards but...hey if Ringo Starr can rock the neckbeard, it's not all bad!
And I'm sure loads of people with neckbeards have overall poor grooming and hygiene, but I'm also sure plenty have good hygiene.
Lol, Ringo does not look great in that photo and it's partly due to the neck beard.
Ringo is a king, my friend ✌🏻
Why is it whenever I see a comment like this, the modlog always shows the person bitching about the mods having several sexist/racist/homophobic/misinformative comments that have been removed...? 🤔
because that's the excuse mods use to get rid of differing viewpoints. Anything they disagree with is suddenly 'bigotry'.
You know we can see what you posted that was removed and not just the reason the mods gave, right?
And most of it was rooted in facts
Also the claim that immigrant workers are "uneducated rapists," and weird nonsense comparing trans people and how "they mutilate their genitals" to circumcizing a baby.
"Facts."
All of this is accurate information. Covid vaccines were widely adopted at the same time as spikes in lung related hospitalization, in covid-negative people. Refugees were advertised to us in europe as being the well-educated middle class of their respective countries, which turned out to be a lie and the offiacial, government issued statistics on violent crime and spicifically sexual crimes showed massive increase since we let millions of them into our country. Also, the fact that mtf trans people need to insert stretching devices to prevent their mutilation wound from closing is true as well. Reality isn't always comfortable.
I don't understand what neck beard means. I see it used, but I still can't really figure out what it means. The other thing I don't understand is incel, not that you used that word but it's another one that I see used frequently that I don't understand. Are the two related? Also, I'm old In case you couldn't tell
Neckbeards: having "facial" hair that basically only covers the neck. It's the idea that these guys who don't have the facial hair to grow a full beard have poor hygiene.
Incel: Involuntary Celibate, shortened to incel. Someone who can't get laid for one reason or another. The propblem being the people who generally self-identity as incel, who are usually toxic and sexist.
These aren't necessarily linked, but incels are usually the type to have such poor hygiene as to have a neckbeard.
Ohhhh. Thank you!
I thought neckbeard referred to a hipster beard. That makes more sense now.
Weirdly, sex has changed in the last couple of decades. When i was young (back in my day 🤦) women could get laid anytime they wanted and men had to put in a little effort. So when i hear involuntarily celibate, i just think 'don't be a dick. You're gonna have to work a little for it,' but i guess they're not getting any because they're misogynistic?
Lots of people just can't or don't get laid for plenty of reasons, shyness or some kind of disinterest does not an incel make. An incel is mostly synonymous with what you probably think of when you hear basement dweller, but inverse the elitism and with an added sexual element. extreme misogyny, extreme entitlement towards women, extreme resentment towards the sexually active, occasionally fixated on the idea of masculinity, and overwhelming self hatred.
From Wikipedia:
And incels are described as:
Certainly not related communities but could conceivably overlap. Not surprising that a lot of Internet trolls fall into one of those categories.
Thank you. Yeah, i guess i could have googled. Makes more sense to me now.
You wanna mod instead, go do it.
He has a point so do you lol
I do in fact recognize all those users including you
But do you recognize me!?
I don't remember you, but i remember that post about google maps
I think it’s good that you don’t remember me. I always obey the rules of good grammar.