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[–] [email protected] 179 points 5 months ago (11 children)

That you need to wash your hands after going to the bathroom. I’ve seen too many grown men walk straight out of the restroom after urinating.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Trans woman here, I've seen both sides.

A small percentage of the men's room washes their hands and a small percentage of the women's room DOESN'T wash their hands. It's a night and day difference.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

A small percentage of the men's room washes their hands

Not my experience. Where have you seen this?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I mean, decades of using one? And the mockery I received by men I got for washing my own hands? I have had family members and numerous classmates tell me that washing your hands is just admitting you peed on them.

Of course my experiences are anctedotal, but for me, it was a quite noticeable difference when I started using the ladies room. I'm not trying to make a definitive statement, absolutely there are men who do reguarly wash their hands, but there is also a very large majority of men who don't. From my experience, that's not the case with people in the women's room.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I mean, decades of using one?

I said where. What part of the world do you live in? I’ve lived mostly in the USA, and most of the public bathrooms I’ve used have been at restaurants, museums, bars, and gyms.

In those places, it’s rare to see a man leave the bathroom without washing his hands.

So where did you see that?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

US, lived mostly up and down the west coast.

restaurants, museums, bars, and gyms.

And these are literally the examples I would've given. To be fair, it's been years since I've been in a mens room. But, I know it's common for most guys to walk straight out.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

That's wild. Maybe I'm not observant but I haven't ever seen someone leave the bathroom without washing their hands

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Is this the real reason why we have longer lines in the bathroom? In addition to having to finagle several layers just to pee?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Eh i know people who drink their own urine, I'm not that worried about pee. I don't want to drink my own pee, let alone a stranger's pee, but I'm more concerned about the shit in shit when taking about hand washing.

What % of kitchen sponges in the US were found to contain fecal matter? I don't remember, but it was high enough for me to switch to Swedish dish clothes immediately. Eurgh.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Eh i know people who drink their own urine,

Who are these people?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

A whole bunch of friends from the town I used to live in. One started peeing on his skin as an eczema treatment, which seemed to work, and somehow this progressed to drinking it. It spread, and became a thing in town. Last I heard there were about 10 pee drinkers, but obviously it's not something people talk about openly.

Apparently morning pee is relaxing because of the melatonin content?

Edit: Apparently it's a very old and widespread practice. Here's a Healthline article on it: https://www.healthline.com/health/drinking-urine

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Same here. Was out with my mother and brother once, went to a fast food restaurant, grabbed some shakes. Well, we happened to go inside and use the restroom, and so did an employee.

My brother witnessed that the employee did not wash his hands, annnnnd they made our shakes.

We didn't want to make a scene, we just didn't drink them, fuck that shit.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 5 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I mean… I’m not totally against this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Imagine non sexual genital touching.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

After COVID this is the only way I greet anyone.

Family gatherings get a little awkward.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

This grosses me out so much. Some men claim they don’t want to get germs on their penis, and that’s their justification. Just walk straight from the urinal snd leave, or they laughably just splash some water on their hands and leave calling it a day. So fucking gross.

I’d love to tell those men just how many droplets of urine bounce from the urinal and directly onto the front of their pants, lower shirt, on their arms, and all over their hands and penis. That shit ain’t clean, and you’re putting urine droplets on your face, eyes, and mouth less than 30 minutes later.

Fucking disgusting.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Some men claim they don’t want to get germs on their penis

How does that make any sense? What... how... I just... ?! Do they believe one washes their hands BEFORE peeing? Well OK, let's imagine that, then then would have... cleaner hands so... less germs? Do they imagine that one "reverse wash" theirs hands before? Like... rubbing their hands on the floor itself THEN pee? It makes absolutely 0 sense. I don't get any of it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

they must keep a pair of tongs handy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Im thinking they unzip, pull underwear out of the way, amd piss hands free?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Ohhh... that actually makes sense, thanks!

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago

Every time I see one of those "employees must wash hands" signs, I think about getting some custom made "and everyone else should too" signs made up to start posting below them in public bathrooms everywhere I go.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Don King had an alternative thesis:

https://youtu.be/o4qo161MRNE?feature=shared

You should probably do it twice, before and after. Just to be on the safe side.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 months ago

I'm not interested in getting your 'pickle juice' on my hands. I don't care if you washed your hands before. 'Pickle juice' splashback happens when you've got your hand down there. So wash after the fact, Jack.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 months ago

In the very first episode of House M.D. we establish that House washes both before and after.

We then watch him go to the bathroom at least a dozen times throughout the series, and not once does he wash before. Worst. Series. Ever.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Do you really wash your hands, or, do your hands wash each other while you watch?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 months ago

Listen, 'Stoner Rick'... not everything you think and say is mindblown, earth-shaking facts or perspectives. And this is coming for a dude who used to get high and once thought that I and my friends (who were not high,) were in an atom accelerator going down the highway. My mind was blown away but everyone in the car thought It was a dumb thing to say.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago

I wish it was only after urinating that I'd seen my fellow man just walk straight out of the toilet, beyond disgusting.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

That is so fucking cursed, hell naw 💀