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Edit: thank you for sharing your suggestions, everyone. I’ll try to check out the ones I haven’t read. Hopefully the responses in this thread were helpful for you too. <3

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

in no particular order:

  • Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
  • Swallows and Amazons
  • How to Lose Friends and Infuriate People
  • The Wizard of Earthsea
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

in no particular order

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance

Not sure if intentional but made me chuckle.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's worth a read.

I think it's often frowned upon for being somewhat of a naive juvenile pocket philosophical rambling, or the dairy of a madman, but I'd say that it introduces some valid points about the concept of quality that you can then think about yourself.

It's definitely on my top 10 list of books. Not because it's great, but because I can often relate to it in miscellaneous situations even 30 years after reading it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Same here, top 10 but lower half. I used to re-read it every 4 or 5 years, but I reached an apex point where it held up less and less well, and even abandoned the last read.

That might also be a result of having kids and realising that, while he went through something horrifying in the end, his behaviour before that was rather obnoxious. That said, he could have chosen not to have painted himself in that light, I just never figured out whether he realised it himself or was oblivious / felt it was justified.

Still, some magnificent prose pieces about quality and perception that are highly quotable, and broadly useful as tools to interact with the world around you.

Lila I never quite got to grips with, but my old man said I should try it "when you're older, much older"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I feel the same way about Charles Bukowski. I can read, understand and appreciate the books without liking the guy. He also paints himself in a negative picture, but the thoughts are still worth considering or just knowing of. Whether or not it's intended, I think it's okay for litterature to provoke the reader to think that the author is wrong or plain crazy, because at least it makes me think about stuff instead of just entertaining my existing views.

I did read Lila 25 yeas ago, but I hardly remember it. It's been a long time since I last read any books at all. Perhaps I ought to give it a second chance.