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Edit: thank you for sharing your suggestions, everyone. I’ll try to check out the ones I haven’t read. Hopefully the responses in this thread were helpful for you too. <3

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

This was a short story, but I Have No Mouth and I Must Scream left me in a depressive state for a few days. Based purely on the feelings I got involved I wouldn't recommend it. It's not necessarily bad though. It's just... Intense I guess.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago
  • The Bell Jar
  • Between Two Fires
  • The Troop (I just not over Newton 😭)
  • N0S4A2
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

Tigana

A book about loss. Loss of family. Loss of country. Loss of culture. Loss of all things. It's beautifully written, and the theme of loss doesn't mean a somber tone throughout, the found family is strong.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

"80,000 Hours", because not only does it teach you something about wealth, humanism and fulfilling careers, it also highlights imminent dangers that receive little (scientific/regulatory) attention and points out that everyone can do something without being rich or a genius.

Although I somewhat dislike their frequent measure of 'impact' in terms of money, the book puts quite a few things into perspective, and I can accept that you need to quantify things to do so. I particularly like that they encourage you to think about problems from different angles, and them pointing out that you can have a very real impact on the overall wellbeing of any living creature, pretty no matter what you do.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago (2 children)
  • A Canticle for Leibowitz
  • Cloud Atlas
  • 1984
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I have loved all of David Mitchell's books but Cloud Atlas was the perfect one that I started with that made me want to see everything else he read. I just love the structure of it so so much.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Absolutely. Since I'm not really into the music scene, I thought I wouldn't enjoy Utopia avenue, but I honestly think it's my second-favorite of his works. I am about to start Ghostwritten, though will probably stop there, because I really don't think number9dream is for me. I'm really not a fan of unsatisfying stories or bildungsroman, and I've read that n9d is both. What's your take?

I enjoyed Black Swan Green, in spite of its bildungsroman plot, but It wasn't my favourite (though it wasn't my least-favourite, because that dubious honour has to go to Slade House, which I read before the Bone Clocks, and which I expected to have a MUCH better puzzlebox feel. I felt betrayed when I realized that the alchemical symbology and map of the house on the inside cover of my first-edition copy was all meaningless, especially when the climax was just a deus-ex-horologia before I knew who Marinus was)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Alll those, yes.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago

... "does the gentleman want his head smashed?"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 hours ago

Dragons of Autumn Twilight was one that set me on quite the Dragonlance collection and reading journey

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 hours ago

The ending of the last night angel books really follows you around.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

The Southern Reach Trilogy by Jeff Vandermeer

It isn't just sci-fi, there's a lot of coming to terms with your limited amount of human influence on your environment and life, that there unknowns that will always be unknown, and that's ok, we're no different than the gains of sand by the lighthouse, as subject to nature as the grass, or birds.

There are also clones of people that have to come to terms with their identity as to what they are, even if they themselves don't fully understand it, and can't.

The universe is bigger than you, and your scope is limited, but that's ok. Find wherever you fit and try to find purpose in the chaos.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Slaughterhouse Five by Kurt Vonnegut. Grew up seeing it on the bookshelf and thought it was a horror book. Like Texas Chainsaw Massacre in book form.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I'd say it contains some existential horror...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

I won't disagree but I was under the impression the guy wrote at least 4 other Slaughterhouse books. With a title like Slaughterhouse I believed the book series was packed to the gills with blood and guts.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 20 hours ago

The Lord of The Rings. This book changed reading for me. I always enjoyed fantastical themes, but this one really got me. Then, I found out there was more. More background, more world building, more why.

I've never turned back. I re read it occasionally and I've read much of Tolkien's other works. Next on the list is to begin working through The History of Middle Earth. I will be starting this in the fall. It may take me quite some time to get through.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Enders game a it was the only novel I had finished in my life. Took me 3 years but disabilities like ADHD is horrible for me. I can read pretty well but any books like novels just can't do it. Also with aphantasia it gets even worse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

This was my answer as well. It's an amazing book amd I always recommend it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Oh it was not a good book. Made by someone who's donated actively to organization that want to make me dead for existing. It was a shit book but the only novel.i ever read.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Fear of Small Numbers, by Arjun Appadurai

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

Witness.

(Not the book name, but if you've read the book, good on you).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago

There's therapy for that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Foundation by Isaac Asimov. Gave me fresh perspective on the state of America

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Foundation is great, have you also read the Empire trilogy? Also after reading Empire + Foundation you should read The end of Eternity, it's an amazing book whose impact is only felt if you've read the other books.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

How to seize the means of computation By cory Doctorow.

Great author love all of his books. Love his its free to read any of his books on craphound. But i ended up buying physical copys because i just needed to own them.

The book talks about how things were with betamax and VHS. And how modern day tech is crap and how to fix it!

Its diffently the most influential books ive read.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago

The Scar, China Meiville - It's an epic journey and the clear best, in my opinion, of the Bas Lag novels. It has such weight and magic to the journey. Mystery too. It's a book that leaves you feeling like you want to feel more.

The Wild Girls, Ursula K Le Guin - a tale so emotional that I was broken for two days after reading it. Couldn't bring myself to read, or really do much except think about what I'd read.
Its about a slaving raid on a village near a city state, family, love, and gender.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago

How to solve it by Polya.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

All Quiet on the Western Front

Tells you everything you need to know about war. First book which made me cry. Everybody should read it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

That book is partly why I oppose all war. The film Netflix produced of it a few years ago is pretty amazing too. The cinematography is almost too beautiful given the subject matter.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

Anna Karenina. There's no better pshychological character study of upper class Russian culture (but at the same time, about people in general).

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