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Conteplating a move and have always lived in the Eastern time zone

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Tonight I couldn't find any decent fireworks live streams for our midnight. Anyone have any suggestions for next year? Though there's the slimmest chance I'll remember

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People here keep saying folks are more chill on the West Coast, but I've lived in NYC for two years and around California for 8 (mostly the bay area), and this hasn't been my experience at all. If anything, I've noticed the opposite of the stereotype. The California folks tend to be very un-"chill" when I deviate from some social norm by accident, while New Yorkers are generally pretty accepting. I also find when I ask folks out west to be direct because I really need that they way my mind works, they still often don't, but New Yorkers will. I'm not sure what others mean when they say the West Coast is more chill since it was so much harder for me to get by there-- maybe they're talking about something else.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I don’t know if NY’ers are more accepting, but they certainly have more DGAF or are hardened against non-normal things because of exposure to a lot of different things as part of metro life.

I do find people out west to appear to brush off non-normal behavior but start talking about the faux pas as soon as the perpetrator is out of earshot and get judgy. NY’ers might make eye contact, shrug, and/or have a short laugh, then move on.

CA “chill” is just the result of that brush off. Things are NBD because of that appearance, nobody really invests anything in interaction.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

I don't live there yet but the states are better

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

PST is a big place with a lot of variation. I have lived in CA & WA and found that in both things are way more chill than out east. However the biggest disadvantage of this is when you try to hire tradespeople to fix things at your home. Both states I’ve had lots of bad experiences with people who couldn’t give a shit. I know this can happen anywhere but I’m talking about a larger tend I’ve observed after living both places. Out west I’ve really struggled with finding someone to do a good job fixing anything at my home so I ended up learning to do a lot more stuff than I wanted just to get it done halfway decently.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I think this is an anywhere problem. I don’t live on the west coast and have decided to learn everything myself for the same reason.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

The Pacific is pretty big to have one time zone.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Pacific time zone has In-n-Out, Eastern timezone has White Castle.

That's the only significant difference I can think of.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I have no white castles near me. In Georgia we have Kystral.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

If you live in the Pacific time zone, there are no advantages or disadvantages to living in the Eastern time zone.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In the streaming world of TV/movies everything is available "sooner". Shows that air at 9pm EST are available at 6pm PST. Shows that are available at midnight are actually available at midnight PST and not 3AM EST.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

This is a double-edged sword! I find online events will often be scheduled to coincide with 3-6 PM EST as people get off work, meanwhile that's 12-3 for me and I am still working dang it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Sunday night football would be done about 9:30pm

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

West Coast is best coast! People are generally a lot more chill than east coast. If you're of a particular age, just consider Tupac vs. Biggie. Their personalities sum it up nicely.

Work-wise, business in the US will already be underway when you get to work, and starts dying down after your lunch. If you interact with people on the east coast, mornings are busier and afternoons are much quieter.

West Coast is generally more racially/ethnically diverse, depending on where you're comparing. It's also a lot more liberally aligned. Conservativism hits differently too. There's less evangelical "Jesus is my personality" types and more "get off my property and leave me alone" conservatives. It's how legal weed was passed in CO first; conservatives joined in on the yes vote because what you do in your own home isn't the government's business.

The weather is generally better, IMO. It's drier and sunnier year-round, except for the PNW region. That means less vegetation though. The dense deciduous forests of the south/east have their own appeal, and you just won't get that out west. The land is a lot more open and sparse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Lots of west coast is in EST. Look at South America

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Feel free to crosspost to [email protected]

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh god, the stock market. Trying to trade open at 6:30am as a night owl is the worst.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

As an early bird I love it. Get everything done before heading out to work.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Work culture is earlier to accommodate east coast offices. Weather is WAY better due to lack of humidity. And if you are in the PNW, a noticable lack of bugs. I once heard someone say if the west cost was discovered first, no one would live on the east coast. Worth a visit to see if it is right for you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I once heard someone say if the west cost was discovered first, no one would live on the east coast.

Well, not exactly. The natives would've still been there, and somehow I don't believe the early americans would have allowed for that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

It was said tongue in cheek.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Americans are bad at geography but shit are people from the east Coast some of the worst. They have "center of the universe syndrome" and have no idea about the rest of the country. I was looking to relocate to the East Coast about 10 years ago and had 3 interviews with different companies in NY, DC and PHL where the company failed to call me at the correct time, sometimes multiple instances, as they couldn't understand the time difference.

Doesn't everyone fucking learn about the 4 continental time zones in school? Why is it confusing?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Wait. So you knew you were applying to companies on ET, they said they wanted to set up an interview at some arbitrary time without specifying a time zone, and you just rolled with the assumption that it was PT instead of asking to clarify? That kind of feels like it’s on you. If I was living in ET, I applied to a job with a company located in SF, and I missed the interview bc I assumed it was ET instead of PT that would totally be on me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No, we agreed on PT. They just didn't know what the time difference was and couldn't be bothered to look it up. I finally just started scheduling in ET and then realized I didn't want to work with people who couldn't count to 4 and decided not to relocate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Well then yeah they sound ridiculous.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

I'm the opposite, lived most of my life on the West coast and then moved to the East coast. Some time zone related things that I've noticed:

  • I love to start work early and end work early, so there was a period of time where I could work 6am to 3pm and still be online later than many of my east coast coworkers. This schedule was ideal for me. Now I have to work until 5 or 6pm every day and I don't like that very much.

  • I could get up and trade stocks early in the morning, which is convenient for me because I don't do a lot of stock trading and don't need to stay on top of it throughout the day. Now I get up and think, "I need to make that transaction later today", then 4pm rolls around and I realize I've forgotten to do it yet again.

  • Not a time zone thing, but I've been to Hawaii once and would love to go back. When I was in California, it was a 5-6 hour flight, now its more like 12 hours. I'm not willing to make that trip. I do have the option to go to the Caribbean or Europe instead, which is nice though (if I ever get around to it).

  • I don't watch sports, but I always thought of the Super Bowl being an afternoon game. Then I moved East and realized people were staying up past midnight to watch the game (and party) and then trying to go to work or school Monday morning. No impact for me, but for my lifestyle, afternoon games would be preferable.

  • I used to do a lot of online gaming with people from all over the US and Europe. Lots of my friends would stay up very late or even all night gaming. I could keep up with them when it meant staying up until 10-12pm (my time). Staying up until 2 or 3am would not work for me. I don't play online games anymore, but that would be a challenge for me now.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

You can know Japan, South Korea, Australia, new Zealand or many Pacific islands. They have a very diverse culture, you should look it up.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

if you come to California your power bill will be fucking high. me and my roomates don't even really use that much power and just sit on our phones all day in the dark. bill still usually totals in the 300s.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

If you have four roommates and use AC, that's really not too bad. Montana with AC (solo occupancy) was $60 for 806 sqft in summer.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

You don’t need to stay up until 3am if something is launching at midnight.

Most of the Formula 1 races fall on a Sunday starting between 7-9am, perfect to finish watching the race and to get on with your day.

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