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I have fully transitioned to using Lemmy and Mastodon right when third party apps weren't allowed on Spez's place anymore, so I don't know how it is over there anymore.

What do you use? Are you still switching between the two, essentially dualbooting?

What other social media do you use? How do you feel about Fediverse social media platforms in general?

(I'm sorry if I'm the 100th person to ask this on here...)

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Started on lemmy today after reddit perma banned my 14 year old account for breaking the first rule of reddit. I may have told some to kill themselves. I'm definitely in the wrong but I don't care I'm taking the ban personally and never using it again.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Mostly on Lemmy. I'm on Mastadon too. I don't know if YouTube counts but I'm on there as well and is the only corporate social media I use consistently.

I find myself using Instagram more but only following a handful of creators, I don't post or check on my feed. I deleted my Twitter and LinkedIn but can't get myself to delete my Meta accounts because of the people that I have contact with on there. I hardly contact ppl but the sentimentally of the connections is something

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Mostly Lemmy, but still appending reddit to my Google searches. Just started with Bluesky, seems promising.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

s/main/only/

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is the only thing i post to occasionally. On Reddit and Instagram i just lurk

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Lemmy and matrix, I still use Discord though because the communities are more active

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I pretty much only use Lemmy (and loops but it's not really finished yet) but I have mastodon too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Just lemmy in a browser for me. Never used facebag or twatter or others besides reddit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I am so sorry, but several of my favorite journalists are still on Twitter.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

newsboat is a gem.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I primarily use Lemmy. It's the only place to really find intelligent conversation. I hop over to reddit on occasion for topics that just aren't here yet. But almost every comment thread is either full of bots or those with little reading comprehension.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Lemmy and Discord.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I've got a private chat with a small group of friends. That's my primary social media. We share news and discuss ideas.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I was never much of a social media guy, especially after moonlighting one summer as a social media marketer on Twitter and Instagram (really, really kills it for ya), but I was a redditor for a while.

I swapped over to Lemmy exclusively during the API fees, but to be fair I was already getting frustrated by the service. The karma farming was just too much, so many stupid reposts of the same stupid made up wholesome stories and crap. I think I only miss r/comics and r/idiotsincars, the later requiring a critical mass of people to actually be worthwhile.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Do you use other social media? If yes, which services? What are your screennames and handles? What street did you grow up on? What was your Elementary School's maiden name?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Lemmy and Mastodon for me. I don’t get a lot of engagement on Mastodon but I never did on twitter either. So Lemmy is probably 90% of my interaction and mastodon is basically an reader for certain hashtags and people on the fedi

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Lemmy. For more niche communities that don't exist on Lemmy I use RSS feeds on specific subreddits. Discord for chatting with friend and other niche communities. LinkedIn because I'm in academia.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Never used Facebook much. Nor Myspace before it. Seemed like it had some obvious pitfalls that everyone else was ignoring.

Used Twitter for a little while, but it was just making me mad. Then horrible guy bought it, so I deleted the already abandoned account.

Instagram also seemed like a source of feeling bad, so I never used it much.

I left reddit recently. It had some good content but the ownership sucks. With general Internet search getting bad, losing reddit sucks. Like, I searched yesterday for how to disable a setting in some app, and landed on some AI slop website that told me to write a letter to my local news station.

So this is all that's left for me. It's frustrating that most people don't give a shit and will just move on to the next private platform. I had a friend who was generally smart and successful, but she just didn't give a shit about this kind of thing. She wanted her easy entertainment, so she was on all the major platforms. Mastodon "didn't have good content" so she didn't use it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Lemmy and Facebook

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

My main social media app is Mastodon (technically Firefish which I will soon migrate to Iceshrimp... but those details are less relevant)

I consider Lemmy less so of a "social media" and more of a link aggregator/discussion forum... but yeah otherwise I try to use Lemmy a bit too. I still browse Reddit quite a lot, but only for individual communities that don't have equivalents on Lemmy, and I no longer post there

I never used much social media to begin with tbh... I feel pretty decent about the Fediverse. Despite all the drawbacks (blocklists, fedi drama, etc), I think people collectively managed to make an objectively better social media platforms compared to the previous corporation-dominated ones (at least by my personal metrics)

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

hey, I know this funi! I've seen this guy on 196 before!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I use Lemmy and Mastodon about equally. I find I like Lemmy for discussions, while Mastodon is good for news just because there are a lot more users overall, and you can follow different news feeds on it.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

If Lemmy is social media, then Lemmy is my only social media app. I have Mastadon installed but I never use it.

I think it has been a decade since I used Facebook or Twitter and I never tried any of the later generation of networks like Snap or TikTok.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yes. For over a year, from Reddit. Although I like Bluesky more than I expected. Also Discuit is awesome.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I stopped using Reddit a few years before the whole stupidity, because the culture was fucking with my head.

Then I did the Mastodons for two years or so, with Lemmy eventually entering the mix. And then as Lemmy got more users and content, it took over as my preferred platform.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I went full Lemmy for a while but have to admit I'm reading reddit again, but without their dumb app. Just the web browser.

Looking through a few subreddits, see what's new for five minutes. I don't post anymore, don't have an account.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I don't post anymore, don't have an account.

Yap, I nuked it too

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm on Lemmy essentially 99% of the time. When I'm on Reddit it's because of niche hobbies that have more presence there. It's very rare. (Or search index results.)

I never use Mastodon. I was only on Twitter for very niche and interactive hobbies that do not have enough people to engage with on Mastodon. I mostly use BlueSky now but still use Twitter on occasion. It's like 50/50 at the moment, but that's a lot considering my BlueSky account is only like two weeks old.

Lemmy has enough content to keep me entertained for general browsing and most of my hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Lemmy and youtube are my mains. Which is used more really depends on my mood and how active is lemmy that day.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Nothing has replaced what Reddit was. I use Lemmy for the nostalgic feeling but it does not compare.

I followed news, politics and science, mostly. The community on Reddit used every tool available to create credibility. Then profiteering tore it asunder.

The only other social media app I ever use is Facebook. But it's purely for connections to friends, family and local hobby groups.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

In an ever-evolving digital landscape, I am thrilled to immerse myself in the liberating experience of using decentralized platforms like Mastodon, Lemmy, and Pixelfed. Freed from the constraints of centralized social media, I have embarked on a transformative journey. Recognizing the excessive time once consumed by my phoneβ€”nearly ten hours a dayβ€”I have successfully halved this to around five hours daily, allowing for a healthier balance, with a slight indulgence during weekends.

My commitment to this shift is further evidenced by my conscious decision over the past two years to bid farewell to major platforms such as Twitter and Tumblr. More recently, I have cut ties with Instagram, Facebook, BlueSky, Reddit, and even Snapchat.

In an effort to further champion these alternative platforms and their communities, I am proud to contribute by donating to Mastodon. This initiative not only represents a personal commitment but also an investment in the growth and resilience of decentralized social networks, encouraging more people to explore the boundless opportunities they offer.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Thanks ☺️

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This sounds like an apology video written by an AI and thus I am not sure if you're being sarcastic.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m a blog writer, and sometimes I take things a bit too seriously. I am not being sarcastic, nor am I using AI. πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thank you for using clear language with proper spelling and grammar. It is a rare thing to see these days.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I have never really considered Lemmy or Reddit to be "social media." They're entirely anonymous, and you're not being exposed to posts where a apecific person is talking about themselves (at least for the most part). I think a modern equivalent to a PhpBB forum or (if you're old) a BBS is more accurate.

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