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For me, it was that the Internet never forgets and that you should never enter your real name. In my opinion, both of these rules are now completely ignored.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

All of them.

[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 day ago (4 children)

When you share something cool, link back to the original creator or where you found it from.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago

I'm old enough to remember reading about netiquette.

[–] [email protected] 70 points 1 day ago

When reading a long text, disconnect from the internet as soon as it has loaded so you don't pay for the time you spend reading.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 day ago (21 children)

I'm a faithful follower of never using your real name in social parts of the internet. We don't need to know and we don't want to know. The only ones who would want to know are scammers or people wanting to give you a shitty time. I only use my real name online for people and places in where it's required like talking to agents from my bank, insurance .etc And very few friends know my real name through FB and the circle anyways.

Don't send nudes online to anybody. I know of some communities where people happily are flaunting it one moment then they make a post later whining about them being exploited or that they thought they were crafty hiding the nudes from someone they're married with. They delete it but they're too naive to think that what's already out there, has most likely been saved by hundreds by now, so you're fucked either way.

Another is, is that if you want to be understood, then you need to use proper spelling and grammar. I miss the days when you got kicked at because you used 'u' in replacement of 'you'. It's just two fucking extra letters you lazy asshole. These days saying stupid shit like; 'yah fr u tha fam' is somehow a complete sentence. No, I'm going to give you shit for it and if you want me to bother caring with what you have to say, fucking make some sense. I don't even get offended by insults when they're poorly spelled, it just tells me what kind of an inept moron you are.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I'm with you on the no real names, no nudes. "Don't dox yourself" was the norm pre-Myspace. Facebook made it almost fashionable to do so.

I'm fine with shorthand and colloquialisms, especially in the era of the smartphone and their lack of physical keyboards.

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[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nah, u wrong fo dat last part homie. Maybe if u tryna have an intellectual discussion then u can write in full n shi. But if it's just a casual convo, then write casual

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

20 years ago, if someone said 'u' for 'you' then I assumed they were young. These days if I see someone use 'u' for 'you' I assume they are 60+.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I don't think people really do that anymore, people got faster typing and autocorrect got good

I do use my real name in voice chats provided I've known the person for a few days at least, I hate being called by my username in voice

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

you really think someone would do that? go on the internet and tell lies?

[–] [email protected] 98 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Don't feed the trolls.

Of course nowadays its nearly impossible to tell whos spouting racial slurs to get folks mad and whos doing it because they're just an asshole.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 day ago

Don't feed the AI

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Just assume almost everybody is an asshole online and you can't be wrong. Because anonymity has granted them that capability.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Don't feed the trolls

sicko-yes but then I post on lemmy.world and get so so many replies

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Stick with the gopher protocol, http is too poorly implemented.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Never disclose any real personal info.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Don't get into stranger's cars, and don't give out your real name or number or address on the internet.

Now you do most of these things when you call an uber. πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Technically so did you when calling a cab. Name, number and location

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

"Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory" was both a lie (typically invoked to defend/justify bigotry, bullying, and such) and it also served to normalize people being assholes on the internet. "Perfectly well adjusted wholesome ordinary people chant nazi slogans when they log onto the internet, for real guys! It says nothing about their character as people because for some magical reason the internet totally has no connections to lived human experiences!"

I'm glad that the so-called rule fell out of use and the excuse rings very hollow for most people now. Also, I noticed that many "ironic asshole" comedians and entertainers from the "le epic trolling" era wound up being actual assholes that hurt people outside of the act. "Million Dollar Extreme" and Justin Roiland come to mind.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Huh. I never saw that used as an excuse. I always took it as, "normal" people show their true colors when they feel divorced from consequences for their actions/speech

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I was taught to cite websites by using the date the page was updated. Now I'm lucky if web pages even have a date on them.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago

Oh, that one's easy! Just use the internet archivenevermind.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago

Either that, or the page says that it's been updated in the last month, but the content is about how to connect to the World Wide Web '(WWW)' with a free AOL floppy disc

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

only 1 hour a day! And if you accidentally click on a wrong link, the hackers can backtrace you or send the internet police.

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[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Social media killed online aliases and I have a hard time deciding if we're all worse for it.

Instinctively I still stick by that, though, as you can tell by my anonymous profile with no bio, but when I volunteer any amount of personal info these days people are often confused that I'm not sharing openly who I am or where I'm from. Every time someone does that it weirds me out because in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 day ago (2 children)

in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

a/s/l?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We were all 18/f/cal come on man…

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Aight, I put on my robe and wizard's hat.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

RIP bloodninja.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Facebook tried that shit with me. Ban until I sent verification of my ID so I sent a paystub photoshopped (badly) with my alias, it was accepted and it's still there even though I left FB years ago.

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 day ago

I remember being taught in school to apply source criticism, and that seems to have largely died as a concept.

This was back in the early 2000s...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nothing that happens on the internet matters.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I mean... I feel like this could still apply πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

Play Team Fortress on weekends. It's cheaper.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Internet is a proper noun and should always be capitalized.

[–] [email protected] 114 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Don’t pick up the phone if someone is online… I’m old

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I’m a millennial, I learned this, and now I just don’t pick up the phone.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I'm a gen z and I can't put down the phone

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

It’s weird when someone calls me and it’s actually a live one.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I can’t remember. Did it make pterodactyl noises or is that just faxes?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (4 children)

The modem made noises when connecting, but if someone picked up the phone, your internet would just stop working and they’d get their dial tone.

Now dot matrix printers, those were real pterodactyl sounds.

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[–] [email protected] 120 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Dont believe anyone on the internet.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

That's my favorite Charlemagne quote

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