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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (3 children)

High quality recorded audio everywhere I go

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

Having my own home - I mean I have to pay off the loan for it but still, I never thought I would be able to call a house my own.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

I cook myself a New York steak roughly once a week.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I have a lot of kids and I work hard at being a good dad so I get a lot of hugs and occasional unprompted "love you". That is the truest luxury to me.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My ABCC11 gene is in it's recessive AA form.

Which is more common in Asians, but I am European. This means my earwax is almost white and completely dry, which makes it just crumble/flake out. But more importantly, my sweat is almost odourless. I am a bigger dude and sweat a lot as it is. When I used to take a certain medication that made me sweat insane amounts I would literally be wet above the belt when I walked a minute. No stank. I check regularly and have my partner check my smell but I legit have to shower more often because my hair is greasy than because of body odour. When I had super short hair the thing that made me want to shower is when my skin gets oily, which happens after about five days. I still shower every other day because hygiene, but it's a really nice perk.

Don't be too jealous though, nature balanced that out with heaps of mental health issues.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Fun, I never heard about these before ! here's all my good vibes for your mental health

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Thanks, it's well under control now, but I had some shit years, not gonna lie.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

I eat as many lobsters and crabs as I want, and it's a lot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I generally get to eat meat twice a week...

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My dog spoons me every night and it's the best sleep.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Wake up at 11:30am - 12:00 every day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

I HATE when I sleep in that late, ugh.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

After everything I've been through, existence.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

bidet with warm water hookup. the toilet seat kind, I don’t have the space for a whole extra thing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

how the warm work? does it have heating built in? or does it blend some mix from hot and cold water pipes? do you have to run it for a half minute to get the temperature right?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

heating built in. They make the kind that have mixing but as you said the hot water is contingent on your homes supply. In my house that’s like 90-120 seconds and that is a lot of time and wasted water for bidet usage. Plus I have a vanity instead of a pedestal sink so running the hot water line would’ve meant I had to cut a hole in the vanity and get a pretty long line.

this one was a decent bit more expensive but circumvents those issues. It also adds some features like a heated seated, a blow dryer to dry you when you’re done, and nozzle adjustment to make sure you get the right spot. Downside of this is that it needs electricity but I was much more comfortable running a new gfi outlet to the toilet than I was tapping the hot water line of the sink and cutting the vanity (or running a more permanent hot water line). Outside of the outlet the install is simple, install the mount the same way would any toilet seat, slide the seat into the mount (the seat can pop out of the mount with a button so you can clean it easier, which is nice), turn the water off and drain the lines, install a t adapter, reconnect the lines to tank and seat, turn on water, check for leaks, plug into power, done

It’s definitely some bougie shit but I don’t care, I love it. I got an open box and saved about $225 (mine is a toto washlet, I paid about $275). I’ve had it for about 5 years and it’s been perfect, reviews suggest they’re bulletproof and I plan to use it basically forever. there are more brands now though that are significantly cheaper with the same exact features though but not as clear as to whether they will last as long. toto is built super solid but I don’t know if it’s worth the price premium over some of the chinese brands that have popped up on ebay and amazon

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I live next to a large open field in the middle of my city. I'd guess its about 15 acres. It's beautifully undeveloped with a few paths through it. Lots of people use it to walk their dogs and stuff.

Why is it empty?

The land is contaminated. It used to be a rail yard about 50 years ago. A company in a major city hundreds of kilometers away owns it and as far as we know has no intention on scraping the top few feet off it so it can be rehabilitated.

Sucks to know that the land is poison but nobody's growing stuff there. Many people enjoy it, including me and my wife. The view off my back deck is about 750m of green right smack in the middle of the city. Love it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

I'd love to go see that on google earth or something but would understand if you'd rather not divulge your location

[–] [email protected] 41 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Air conditioning, indoor and safe plumbing/water supply, Internet to name a few

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Growing up in the Midwest of America I took AC for granted. Pretty much every home and shop had AC, and if it didn't there were at least window units. Moving to the Pacific Northwest with a more mild climate almost no one had AC, and it's just normal not to have it.

Until the heatwave a few years ago that melted power lines I didn't care, but I realized it was a safety issue and had a heat pump installed. That's when I realized it's a luxury. Almost $10,000 to get it integrated with my existing HVAC.

It's wild, it's definitely a luxury that most people just assume is normal. You have to go somewhere that doesn't have it to truly appreciate what it does and how much it costs.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

Native midwesterner living in SoCal, and these shithole window A/C units have me at my wit’s end. This is the technology state?

Also, natives here have no concept of closing doors after themselves when entering a place with heat or A/C. I get it that we grew up with this but is it hard to figure out later on in life or something?

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I have a genetic predisposition to be a night owl. I proved it with a DNA test, comparing my results with actual scientific research on various genetic-related conditions. Plus, my mother's side of the family always stays up super late every night.

Unfortunately, I signed up for the US military when I was 17 and they require you to get an early start every day. So I spent 20 years going to bed when I'm not tired and getting up at godawful early hours of the morning. I would basically get a lack of sleep for a few days until I was so tired, I'd pass out early and get a solid night's sleep, then start the cycle over again. My days off were the only days I got to sleep in.

Now I'm fully retired and have nothing important going on each day, so I can finally let my body adjust to its preferred sleep schedule. I'm wide awake until 2-4 AM (sometimes later), then I sleep until 10 AM to 1 PM. It's so nice not having to set an alarm anymore and naturally wake each day. I've never felt so rested!

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Son you're fully retired at 37? Good for you mate! Enjoy!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

Lol!

Or they just got a better or non-military job that didn't require strict bed- and wakeup-times, but still didn't let them sleep in.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

Got an Inada massage chair (~$6k) on FB marketplace for $50. Used massage chairs are easy to get ahold of for cheap, if you have the space

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Unfortunately I’m not young enough to pull this off anymore, but back in my early 20’s I would engage in some light identity theft for the purposes of free luxury golfing. I have two rich uncles who are both avid golfers and both members of a ridiculously expensive country club in the city where we live. They also both have sons, and the club benefits extend to all minor children. So, I’d pretend to be my 17yo cousin and with my other cousin (who was only lying about his age, not who he was), we’d regularly hit the links. For non-members, the typical price for a round of golf was like $200

[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Work from home and live near a very nice park. When I am stressed or bored, I just put a fake meeting on my calendar or set my Teams status to busy and go for a walk to clear my head.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Living next to a park is great. I do the same, except I've got my phone with me connected to teams. I can get back home on my computer in under 2 minutes if I need to.

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