"Never give up".
Sometimes you're wasting your time and should give up. Better advice would be "decide how much you're willing to give to this before you start".
this post was submitted on 31 Mar 2024
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"Ground yourself to be safe with electricity".
Some people out there seem to treat grounding as a magical means for controlling electricity. Even in so far as it's true at all, you have to consider the situation and how it might move across your body.
Telling a teenager "enjoy these years, they're the best ones of your life".
First, tell that to a teenager undergoing severe depression is the opposite of helpful. Second, you just admitted to leading a shitty life. You got to 20 and the next 50 years were garbage?
Other older years aren't garbage, you just realize the older you get the more the difficulty is turned up. More responsibilities, slower metabolism, less grace for making mistakes or general stupid behavior, and of course sleep injuries. The best thing about getting old is having kids, being exhausted, and sleeping in a weird way one night that causes pain for 7 to 10 days.
I miss when I could eat a box of donuts every day, bench press a cow, and try to flirt with like 10 different girls in the same day. I wouldn't trade those days for days with my kids and my wife now, but they were objectively great.
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USE LINUX.
But you should do that one. Just don't expect it to be windows with a different coat of paint and you will be fine.
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There’s a lot of people I n here who read things way to literal just so they can make a point
Agreed. All this stuff is highly context dependent or at least technically true but not wholly true
The Venn diagram for "advice" and "bad advice" is almost a perfect circle. In general, advice is only good if three conditions are met:
- it was requested or at least clearly implied to be welcome.
- it's given under a solid grasp of the situation, or after some serious thought.
- it's not assumptive in nature. And, if generalising, it takes into account that generalisations fail.
Those sayings - like in the OP - almost always violate #2 and #3. And usually #1, as it's that sort of thing that people vomit on your face when they're really, really eager to treat you like cattle to be herded.
Okay... example. Right. Acquaintance of mine saying that I should work with computers - because I use Linux, because I can recover a password, because I can spend ten minutes (I'm not exaggerating) trying to parse what he's asking help with. Under that "if u like it than make it you're job! lol" approach.
Yeah... nah.
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"Treat others the way you want to be treated".
Why's that bad advice?
Spank me harder, Daddy!
You should treat people as they want to be treated.
Disagree only in that people are idiots and using work as an example someone would happily hit themselves in the face with a hammer because "this is how we do things". I'm not going to hit you in the face with a hammer because you're a moron and don't know better.
Right, by listening to your desires and only hitting with consent.
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