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i think we need Cracked-style articles back. desperately. or like, a guy doing a weird thing and writing a piece on it. sites like those are declining faster than the glaciers.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We had rules that we pretty much all agreed on because we knew things would go badly if we didn't.

  • Don't feed the trolls
  • Don't talk about internet memes in real life
  • Stay anonymous, there's a bunch of freaks on the internet! Also, you're one of them.
  • On the internet no one knows if you're a dog

There was a whole self-deprecating nature to it. We knew posting on the internet wasn't really a positive activity. It was just a guilty pleasure. We knew it was all nonsense and nothing posted on the internet should be taken seriously.

I remember when it first started cropping up where people were saying internet meme type things in public. Someone said "The internet is leaking, this won't end well."

Didn't realize how prophetic this was. Now not only do people feed the trolls, the trolls get paid really well through monetization. People have T-shirts with dumb internet memes, and awkwardly say them out loud thinking it's cool. It's so cringey.

People shitpost under their own name and get super upset about being "cancelled". Maybe you shoulda done that anonymously, dumbass?

Identity is the most important thing to people on the internet now. Your identity matters more than your ideas now. It was better when we assumed everyone was a dog mashing on a keyboard and you had to explain out your ideas rather than ending discussion with sentiments around "you just can't understand my experiences" rather than making an effort to explain them so others can understand.

When it went from "we're all losers trying to explain things to each other as best we can" to "we're all wannabe celebrities that don't have time to explain anything to the losers who aren't good enough to understand our experiences" it all went to shit.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

This something we cannot bring back: when we were all new to this, it felt so unbelievable. Suddenly we were casually chatting with people thousands of kilometers away, who were of a completely different background. I'll never forget when I (living in Germany with a turkish migration background) was talking to a US based Neonazi who said that he had nothing against turks, but he heard turks where the nxxxers of Germany. I mean, that was not a pleasant conversation, but it was just so unbelievable that this was actually happening. It felt like everything was possible now. I mean back in 2001 I thought "Hey, let's hear the other side" and just went on the talibans website. Just a few years earlier that kind of insight was simply impossible. The internet just felt borderless.

A lot of things were terrible though, like "asl" or when any wrong click could easily land you on a disgusting and deservedly illegal website. Crazy times.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Forums. I found forums the most engaging, interesting structure for "social media" that has ever been invented. I actually tended to get to know the people on them over time.

I have no idea why we ditched that structure in favor of "platforms".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Here in Germany forums are still quite active. I have several forums I actively use.

The thing with forums though, is that they oftentimes end in drama. People really do get to know one another over time on forums and that often leads to meltdowns on a scale you don't have on lemmy or similar pages.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Forums were great but the friction to find and join new ones was very high.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The internet felt alive back then. Now...it feels like the dead internet theory is real. Please don't let this wonderful federated site become dead :'(

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago

Working on it!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

The ease of piracy. Literally type whatever you want into any search engine.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

I miss when web communities were more disparate, and each community had their own inside jokes, memes, and jargon.

Now every web community just uses the exact same mishmash of memes from Reddit/Twitter/4chan, and most web communities end up being indistinguishable from each other.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

People understanding the horrible sound I consistently make in public

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait, what. Someone misses proprietary software that was rightfully killed in favor of open standards?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think it's moreso the things that came from flash lol

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This is my favorite part of the old web.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I miss the appreciation that was shown to developers and content creators not so long ago. I just get the impression that people take everything for granted these days, even when it comes to extraordinary things that are created by just a few people without the support of multi-million dollar companies. Maybe that's just a misperception on my part. But anyway: Support Lemmy, FOSS and all those awesome content creators!

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (4 children)

People having their own sites. I'm sick of everything happening on platforms (yes including this one). I want to visit someone's place, not meet at the bar.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Technically lemmy is like people or groups having their own platform which can communicate with each other.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I miss when most people didnt have access to internet 😀

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah, back when there was a small barrier of effort to get to the internet. It didn't really keep anyone out, but it meant that if you were here it was because you wanted to be, not because it had been made as easy as possible to access in an attempt to lure you in and extract data through every pore of your being. Lemmy feels similar, in that you have to make an account on an instance and thats slightly harder than clicking a single button to sign in with FB or Google.

I miss being able to share the cool things I find IRL. I made the mistake of doing that once with a beautiful little grove in a state park. The post went viral on insta and within a week the spot had been trampled flat and the rangers had to put up chain link to keep people out. Just awful.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

1900HOTDOG from two of the Cracked diaspora, TVs Seanbaby from the internet and Beef Digests runner up for Salami Slab of 2014, Robert Brockway!

And the associated podcast, The Dogg Zzone 9000.

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