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Location: CA, USA

I have some neighbors who regularly have a huge bash lasting all night long - it's happened every Cinco de Mayo for nearly a decade.

This year - nothing.

The whole town is quiet. This used to be one of the noisiest days of the year. Is anyone else noticing this in their community?

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[–] [email protected] -2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I think a lot of people in general are kind of busy worrying about other shit than getting all wrapped up in celebratory practices/traditions. kthx

[–] [email protected] 3 points 36 minutes ago

Yeah I’m sure ICE has absolutely nothing to do with it….

Also people who say “kthnks” are so lame

[–] [email protected] 30 points 3 hours ago

Yeah. Because the usa is now ran by goddamn fucking Nazis

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Nah, the Mexican Catholic Church up the road from me threw another huge party today, and I'm in one of the shit hole southern states.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

If the cause for muted celebration persists, for next year I'd suggest reviving International Workers' Day and/or Beltane, possibly with Cinco de Mayo influences. Nothing like solidarity marches, or bonfires, pagan magic and feasting.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I'm in California too. Every year I forget it's Cinco and think "Damn, Mexicans are feeling super patriotic! There's two meter Mexican flags attached to half the vehicles on the road today! Oh....... it is the 5th of May isn't it..." Not one this year.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 hours ago

My Mexican neighbor was just sitting on the steps looking depressed as fuck earlier. :(

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 hours ago

Yep, people usually go pretty hard in Redwood City but not this year. It is Monday but even for a Monday it's quiet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago

ICE aside, ain't nobody got money for dat.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

But whats the history of cinco de mayo?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP. 🍻🎺

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

I DONT WANNA DRINK ANYMORE

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Battle of Pueblo

Celebrated more in the US than in Mexico

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

When my ex studied abroad in Germany, he made a group of Mexican, American and French friends, and they had parties on Cinco de Mayo and on the Seventeenth of May, the former held by the Mexican and American students and the latter by the French after learning about Cinco de Mayo.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 24 minutes ago

And where is your ex from?

[–] [email protected] 100 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

They probably also went easy on the Yom Kippur celebrations in 1933 Germany

[–] [email protected] 52 points 5 hours ago

This was hilarious for a second then fucking terrifying.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 7 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

Username checks out I guess?

(Timezones are such great fun)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

It's been Tuesday for nearly 14 hours mate, catch up.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 minutes ago

May 5th was a Monday regardless of time zones, dumbass.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

The towel:

^sawce:^ ^tacotron2000^ ^on^ ^deviantart^

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Therefore, you are a towel. o7

[–] [email protected] 127 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (3 children)

With ICE being given carte blanche to do whatever they want with no oversight; would you be having a gathering? Even if you were 110% legal, would you risk getting someone who isn't snatched up?

I tried to be festive and have been blasting Mexican music for the neighborhood; but it's like 10pm and I'm old, gotta shut it down.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 hours ago

Even if you were 110% legal, would you risk getting ~~someone who isn't~~ snatched up?

It clearly doesn’t matter to ICE or the regime generally if a person is a citizen

[–] [email protected] 31 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

The why (ICE) is pretty clear. I was really more interested in where - how widespread is this?

Because honestly, the silence is chilling. It feels like the day is being smothered in this blanket of lukewarm fear.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly all the holidays were a bit muted for 45 so it makes sense they're even quieter for 47. There's even more fear, anxiety, anger, etc. Not the things that really drive a party atmosphere.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

45th and 47th presidents of the United States. Which in this case are the same person

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

You know I seriously considered trying to find a more accurate word. I should have.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 minutes ago

"Which in this case is the same shit."

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I believe you. It's okay. It isn't worth it. 🫂

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Trump as 45th and 47th president

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 minutes ago

I understood what you meant.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I see, that's probably something only Americans would generally understand :D

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Ahh yeah I probably getting deported. I wasn’t suppose to tell a non American 😁

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

That's the last civics lesson you'll be teaching around here, pal.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago

OK, USA. Meant to add that. Definitely quieter overall.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Right. ICE is a bunch of thugs who would love to round up brown people celebrating Cinco de Mayo.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 36 minutes ago

Yeah, they are.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 hours ago

There was a time when that would have been recognized as sarcasm.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, same. Previous years it was cars driving around with flags, posters for events, etc. This year I saw absolutely nothing. Feels a bit glum tbh.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 7 hours ago

El Salvador