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When scrolling Lemmy (compared to reddit in the past), all I see is doom and gloom / news. I don't see interesting conversations or comments to read.

Occasionally I'll find something, and I've been contributing more, but there's just so much doom that it fills my feed.

I've had to unsubscribe from many communities bc it's just doom news reposts..

Is it just me?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

I'm tired of the "DAE" posts that got banned in reddit, and I understand why. There's usually a better way to express this opinion.

To entertain this though, this is an internet wise concept, we're aware of "doomscrolling" for a reason. There's not really a reason to think Lemmy or some other platform would be wildly different.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

No because I'm already stuck in my own delusio bubble that makes me not care. Couldn't tell you whether it's my personality, autism, or a combination of things.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 8 months ago

Not just you at all. I read the Top 6-Hour usually, so I have been blocking communities and filtering out keywords left and right to try and reduce the constant deluge of doom. (Yes it is working)

It's like, yeah I know we are totally hosed, I don't need reminders every 10 milliseconds. All it leads to is learned helplessness and depression.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

Yes, me too. I've unsubscribed from the political and news communities, several weeks ago. That helps. And I don't think it's specifically a Lemmy problem. It's everywhere. And since lots of people use Lemmy as a news feed, we get all the doom posts in our timelines.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Kind of feels like a side effect of a US election year. But I don't disagree.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

The beauty of kbin/lemmy is how easy it is to block content you don't want to see, so either block the users who mostly post doom, or the news/politics communities as a whole. If you then still want to scroll news for a limited time, browse in incognito or from a secondary account ¯\(ツ)

[–] [email protected] 87 points 8 months ago (17 children)

Where are the creators? The cosplayers? The rube goldberg machines made out of post it's and shot glasses? The "I draw pictures by playing notes on a piano" people? The people porting Doom to a yoga mat? The "I made a car out of thrown out Crocs" people? The "I built a treadmill for my friend's overweight insects" people?

This is the stupidest shit I could think of but people are out there making and doing weirder/amazing-er things... Where are those people in Lemmy? I browse All and it's just politics, linux, and shit posts.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago (4 children)

I'm still okay with a bit of politics discussion, but seeing US politics on timeline everyday?? I am NOT a US citizen and I DO NOT CARE about their politics at all. And the doomerism posting, so so tired of them.

That's why I tend to follow casual community like !artshare, music related stuff, etc. I also made a community for japanese trains, though it's my first time running a community so I'm kinda confused how to run the community.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Where are those people in Lemmy?

Also, for those few posts of creative stuff around here, where are the people to upvote and comment on them?

[–] [email protected] 44 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

You've gotta start somewhere.

Consider that with both Reddit and Digg, their initial communities where mostly technical, and with time, the creative people slowly and gradually got in.

However IMO finding an active community within the diaspora of finicky servers and empty channels, makes it less alluring than a centralized service.

I simply hope that at some point, finding out communities will become easier.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (1 children)

What makes me irritated is when I go to any kinda uplifting news places it's usually low key abelism or sexism or somethings people don't understand can harm people which is weird

Aka inspiration porn

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago

Or straight down "orphan crushing machine".

[–] [email protected] 23 points 8 months ago

Yes. This place is relentlessly negative, and I'm no sunny optimist myself.

I aggressively block communities and on some occasions, people who are obvious agenda pushers. It takes a mildly annoying amount of work to clear away the mess and keep it cleared, but it can be done. It's okay to block shit.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I say there's not enough Doom posting. RIP AND TEAR

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

A lot of them are either bots or are working for some clickbait farm. You will eventually come to realize that you need to block the worse offenders.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 months ago (6 children)

The bubble has burst, none of the fun communities I subbed to when I came over have any active users left anymore. It's all the same 3-4 people posting news and rhetoric.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Be the change, become the active user

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

Always plenty to be gloomy about, I tend to block those communities though, not because I'm in denial about it, I already know to vote Green or Democratic for like my whole life, you don't need to convince or sway me.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

How am I supposed to doom scroll without doom posts?

; )

[–] [email protected] 130 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It's not just you, but it's not just Lemmy either. Anywhere I go, I need to prune subs or else my feed becomes more and more pessimistic.

I think as a species we have a mental bias that focuses on what needs changing and not what's okay as it is.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 8 months ago (14 children)

I’m convinced that we can address needs for changes while not being doomsday cultists either; I’m pretty much doing it as much as I can while not being a drama queen about it and generally shutting the fuck up.

But it doesn’t get me much attention which I guess is what the cultists are after.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago (2 children)

People are tiring of the shouting, though. The cultists will find out eventually that people can't be mad all the time if you want your shit to work.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I hope so… we need more discussing to help everyone find what they can do and that requires more listening and less shouting indeed.

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[–] [email protected] 48 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Yeah, times are kinda rough right now

I recommend [email protected] but it's not super active, about a post a day

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (3 children)

That community is also guilty tbh. Sorry for bringing this up, but I saw the other day about "Children school food debt" or something like that on that community, and I was like, what? How is that uplifting at all?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Subscribed!

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

It probably reflects the minds of the people. With good reason. It will take proactive curation of your feed to avoid it. Good luck

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