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For me Ireland and Taiwan, how about some others

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Japan. The cavet? Know some Japanese.

Most people in Japan grow up learning some English. But they almost never use it in their day to day after highschool. So it's a point of issue, maybe even a little embarrassment, for them to "start" a conversation. I've found that the better you are at Japanese, the more willing the Japanese are to want to connect with you.

Unless they're drunk. In my experience, social drinking some how blows away the shyness barrier. Go to a pub, especially in a rural town, and you will be bombarded with questions. You're a novelty, maybe? Not sure. But booze does makes things easier it seems.

Keep going back for some reason. Not sure why. :)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I did a short stay in Sri Lanka as a young adult, it was a formidable experience. I remember a different, more considerate sort of kindness in people compared to my home town/country

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Taiwan. Clerk at the shoe store didn't have what I wanted in my size. She went to the other shoe stores nearby searching for me without telling us. We found out when we asked why it was taking so long.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Iceland and nowhere even comes close. I heard newfoundland will beat it though, one day I'll visit.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Mongolia.

Every single people I met were nice and friendly. Even when they don't speak english, they will try anything to help you, or find someone that speak english.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

south africa, really just a great group of people. hell, even when i got robbed, they were super nice about it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I found the people in Jordan were incredibly friendly.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Same. I did a summer study abroad program in Amman when I was in college, and everyone I interacted with was very nice.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

China, Taiwan, and just EA Chinese people in general are beyond nice. This past trip made me see how straight forward and warm hearted they really are and such strong family values.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm a white American.

Most friendly: Portugal. They seem to be a happy bunch in general, and they all seemed excited to have visitors. Lisbon, Cascais, Lagos, and all the little towns in between.

Least friendly: Iceland. They could just be less open and emotionally expressive with strangers, but unless it was a business transaction I was frequently ignored when I said hello and people seemed uninterested in having a conversation.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

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Iceland and nowhere even comes close

This is interesting.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

Least friendly: Iceland. They could just be less open and emotionally expressive with strangers, but unless it was a business transaction I was frequently ignored when I said hello and people seemed uninterested in having a conversation.

Sounds wonderful

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Ireland is probably the friendliest I've been too. The Irish are great people.

Rome (I know, not a country, but I can't comment on the rest of Italy) is probably the least friendly place I've been to. Romans are assholes. It's a very cool city, but the people, especially outside of tourist traps suck.

The Japanese are very polite, respectful, and helpful (almost to a fault) but I'm not sure if I'd generally describe them as friendly.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Romans are assholes.

First time I've heard this. People in Rome are like people in NYC: busy with their own lives, unwilling to take any BS, but generally helpful if you really need it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I've only met one person from France in my life. It was at a music festival here in the states. I asked him if he knew where a specific stage was and through that thick French accent he said "go fuck yourself" and then walked away.

Obviously a sample size of one doesn't represent a whole country but yeah.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

My experience is they're roughly as polite as Parisians

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Australia, they are all just Koala friendly.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Australia was really fun because man do they know how to properly roast someone. They'd come up with some of the most creative ways to call me a fuck ass yank and then buy my next beer haha

(Although, I absolutely whooped everyone down there in darts and I'm not even that good haha)

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