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A couple weeks ago, I deleted social media off my phone. Insta and reddit was all that was left, but I noticed how much of a useless time sink they were becoming. My daily mood has also improved.

Now, I've been reading manga and playing chess online to fill the gap. But I'm still looking for suggestions on what else there is to do besides doom scroll. It's not like I'm outlawing the internet entirely, I still have interests and hobbies etc, but I'm open to just about anything.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

There's always some number of browser tabs, old apps, or miscellaneous files that accumulate on my phone. I like to clean those up during otherwise wasted time like waiting in line or while on public transport.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I have anki decks that i don't use on everyday basis especially for that. You can spend from 2 seconds to hours on this.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Wikipedia. Ballz game.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Various solitaires via LÖVE Solitaire.

Simon Tantham puzzles

And, due to a Lemmy post I saw the other day, a game called Slice and Dice.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes slice and dice! I would hate to know how many hours I've played on that game over three different phones.
If you haven't tried them yet, slay the spire and balatro are also brilliant.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Slay the spire has so many hours on my PC. I absolutely adore that game. For some reason I bounce off of Balatro, it doesn't hook me in the same ways and I'm not sure why. I don't feel smart enough for it lol

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I read comics/manga, browse Lemmy and read news mostly, and not in any particular order. Otherwise I do games like Wordle or just look up how to do home projects on YouTube.
So go into learning more about your hobbies?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Find the lesser posted contributors to your field/s of interest, read them, post them, share your thoughts.

This means you are actively using social media, actively considering different texts in subjects you already have an interest in, and actively using your brain to make considered contributions.

This is my go to. Take a look at my post history in aussie-enviro. I continually go out of my way to find environmental or conservation organisations themselves instead of waiting only for a news site like Guardian to do a write up themselves.

I'm finding my reading speed and attentiveness has improved, and i've better knowledge recall, especially on key details. Its of course fun as well.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I mean, people were fine without social media before, I dont think we need those. :) At least not the big tech ones.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Duolingo. My whole family has caught the bug. I hear the little ba-ding! noise from all corners of the house all evening long.

Y todavía no puedo hablar bien español 😕

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I wish there was a foss option that was so good for, for lack of a better description, mindless learning

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Don't replace social media with something else on your phone.

Put the phone down and walk away.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Probably less addictive.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Have to play in moderation , bcus balatro's hell of a battery drainer

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I see you too replaced heroine with meth

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I can quit anytime. Right after I see what's after the next blind.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I only technically have smartphone. its either not on me or turned off in a foil pouch.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The pouch also lets people know that you’re totally sane.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

not only my phone case but my wallet. Not sure how someone could tell at a glance though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

wait does this mean your head/brain are unprotected?? risky

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No its not made to do wireless communication.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

guys he doesn’t know

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Physical Games

Not sure what your personal in-person social circle looks like but playing physical games (board/card, etc) with people is great. Spent 2 weeks with family and we had a blast playing some games every night.

A few I really enjoyed:

  • 5 Crowns
  • Phase 10
  • Cribbage (good grief the rules are nuts)
  • Hues and Cues
  • Organ Attack

3D Printing

A time sink hobby is 3D Printing. It’s a challenge enough, and can be so low cost per part, that it’s fun. Starting with a lower cost 3D printer means the cost of entry is not much. Once you get a printer dialed printing things for people and functional prints for home is great. You can also learn 3D Modeling enough to design your own prints. Definitely gonna take some time to do so.

Retro Gaming

If you like retro games setting up a retro handheld is a ton of fun and then playing the games is great too. Handhelds from Anbernic, Retroid, or Powkiddy is a low cost of entry and much higher quality than you think, and they can run up to PS1/N64/Dreamcast. Took me ~1 month to go from never having done one to having a great OS with a tailored UI (Anbernic RG40XXV running Knulli OS). Going over guides from Retro Game Corps (YouTube and website) was easy but took long enough to teach me a ton.

Gardening

Obviously depends on your personal circumstances but even if you’re in a city/apartment a lot of cities/towns have community gardens. Setting up a raised garden is pretty easy and doesn’t have to cost a ton. Maintaining it is a challenge based on your location and takes learning many different skills. We grow Lettuce, Cucumbers, Zucchini, Green Beans. We had no success with Tomatoes in our climate (although a lot of people have no issue growing them). We’ve had limited success with potatoes (another really easy to grow crop, that we suck at, lol).

Canning

My wife LOVES canning. That’s a massive rabbit hole in its own right. Cost of entry is decently mid due to having to buy canning supplies like the glass jars (called cans), lids, rings, canning pots, pressure cooker, etc. You’ll get incredible quality vegetables and fruits out of it and can can meats and other things. My wife has been canning for 5 years now and we don’t buy store bought vegetables anymore. You wont really save any costs but you will know exactly what you’re eating. Does take having access to fresh produce at local markets to make it as cheap as the grocery store.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Organ attacks a good one.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I actually made a great setup for retro gaming at home. I have my Linux PC connected to a KVM over LAN to the living room TV. Hyprland lets me set keybinds to run scripts to turn off my computer monitors, turn on the TV, switch audio (still working out a few kinda with audio actually), and then launch emulationstation-DE which is a front end for launching the games on each emulator.

It's great running everything on a PC with decent specs, I have a 5800x and 6700 XT. It can do all the old games obviously, and up to PS3 and switch games, upscaled to 4K and with a bangin audio system.

Surprisingly, there's very little latency issues or lag over the kvm. Or if there are I can't notice them.

It might be worth a go to play the handheld ones on my phone however. Playing GBA and DS games on my big living room TV seems a bit silly haha

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

A few reasons I prefer the exclusive handheld game route.

  1. Gets you away from your internet connected device. No distracting notifications coming in
  2. It’s dedicated to it so it’s really good at it.
  3. No battery life hit to your phone.
  4. Higher learning curve (this goes to time filler which is what you wanted).
  5. Sitting on the couch, playing it outside/while traveling is great with it.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Haha cribbage is great. And I think it's a good math game for kids too

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

The Wikipedia app or Wikireader

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Reading, honestly. Though I don't read on my phone, too many distractions. I read whenever I'm out and about and waiting, which isn't much these days.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Tighrope most days https://www.britannica.com/quiz/tightrope

Other than that just Lemmy.

Keep meaning to try learning Chess so I can play it online a little.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

NYT Games: Wordle, Spelling Bee, Connections, Mini crossword puzzles. They refresh every day

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Post on Lemmy between meetings

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I play 20questions, and then get upset at the contradictions in my answers to others'

http://www.20q.net/

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Read using REadEra, play Forge of Empires - plus Lemmy via Voyager.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I do solitaire, cryprograms, crossword and mahjong, and sometimes I'll read creepypastas from the archive like I used to do in highschool

Other than that if I know I'll have to wait somewhere and occupy myself I bring a book with me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I also just got back on the creepypasta archive!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Very nostalgic and some of them are, earnestly, very good!!

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