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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

A bubble bastard. It sounds like a double standard, but it most certainly is not.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Four lefts aren't a right, but three lefts are.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If I get to my dentist on time, he makes me wait 20 min.

If I get to my dentist 10 min late he refuses to see me.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 48 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not giving both sides of an argument your platform to opine on if one of the sides is plainly bigoted and/or anti-scientific

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 day ago (27 children)

Exclusive spaces for women and minorities while requiring male spaces to accept women and minorities. Like women or black only colleges and associations.

Sorry fellow white dudes, we still have so many comparative advantages and there is too much systemic racism and misogyny left to address before a white or men only club is in any way comparable.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (7 children)

Asking as a brown person, can you tell me what advantages white people are receiving that I'm not?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

I can talk back to the police in a non-violent setting without getting shot.

As a white male, there is zero chance of deing discriminated against when applying for 95% of jobs.

I can walk into most buildings without being questioned. Nobody has ever told me that I don't belong somewhere because of who I am.

While whites that live in poverty can face some discrimination compared to middle class whites, $100 in clothing is enough to fit in most public spaces without drawing any attention. Minorities can't do that.

Those are the most obvious things, but they also mean that my economic and social standing basically went up my entire life by just being polite and working. That builds on itself, and while not all white men are successful. Being white isn't one of their hurdles.

All of those things are advantages compared to people who are not white males.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (4 children)

There are people out there that would not hire you based on the only thing I know about you. I've met enough of them that I have to assume there are more.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Add to this the previously white fictional characters being replaced with actors of color and I couldn't care less. The market will decide if it was a good idea with ratings. Sometimes it's a smashing success other times a complete disaster.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

I remember seeing some neckbeard-ass post on Reddit when the live-action Little Mermaid trailer came out, saying how it wouldn't make sense for somebody living in that region of the ocean to have dark skin because of the longitude and depth of the water, etc...

Like... You're really trying to argue the scientific accuracy of... [checks notes] ... a fucking MERMAID? Spare everybody the mental gymnastics and just say you don't like black people.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago

This actually is still helpful for us white dudes, if you meet another white guy that gets pissy about exclusive spaces you know that person isn’t worth talking to anymore!

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago

Some people can be trusted with some responsibility, and others can't.

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