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Looking to make a throwaway to ask a question in Lemmygrad, because discuss.online defederates away from it.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I feel like they've probably all got pros and cons and probably require a little research. I recently signed up here on lemm.ee and the sign up process seemed pretty quick and simple. And they seem to do minimal de-federating. But the flip side to that is you can't upload any images for your first 4 weeks on the server. 4 fkn weeks.

And if I'd read that first, I might have reconsidered joining here. I think I'd rather be inconvenienced by sightly more in depth questions and a 1 day wait time for signing up than a 4 fkn week wait before I can even upload a profile pic and banner image.

Edit: in fact I'm gonna go as far as saying that it's false advertising. They advertise as general purpose instance but seemingly can't even handle a thing that about 50% if this type of social media entails. They should change their blurb on join-lemmy to "We would like to be a general purpose reddit-like instance but our servers catch on fire every time someone uploads a meme, so we should actually be doing something smaller scale instead of pretending that we can hang with lemmy.world".