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[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

Yeah, also forcing it to sit or stay somewhere. And getting angry at retaliation and that sort of thing.

Obviously there's exceptions like children or people who maybe just genuinely don't know how to handle animals but I think a lot show their true colours when it comes to something that can't really fight back or speak for itself like a pet.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Some people are very forceful with animals and disrespectful of boundaries with them. I think that cats especially are good at making it clear what they would like or not like you to do.

Maybe it's an unfair criteria to judge people on but people forcing animals to do things or otherwise treating them like objects is a red flag to me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

Manulsphere

[–] [email protected] 8 points 14 hours ago (4 children)

Pretty sad that this is even needed tbh but it's all very well put.

I think a good indicator of how people really are with the idea of consent and boundaries (even if they charm their way with other social conventions) is to watch them with pets, especially cats.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)
  • Stardew Valley
  • Skyrim
  • ADOM
  • Burnout Paradise
  • Vegas Solitaire (or I think a decent Solitaire collection is a fair exception to that one rule because you can get many games out of a pack of cards)

Stardew Valley, Skyrim and ADOM for games that you can keep going back to over years and playing in different ways and still discovering new things. Vegas Solitaire for more of a mindless time passer when you don't want something immersive and involved. Burnout Paradise for something in between complex and mindless and something different once in a while.

Edit: I hope I eventually get rescued though because there's a LOT of shorter titles that I'd miss.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

The Fox and the Hound!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah it's definitely a right wing christian agenda in this whole thing. Same as with the 'manosphere', which started out telling people to be tough and 'manly' and has ended up with something like purity culture where they evaluate women to carry their babies for them and vote against women's rights. I even saw a stat that these same young men that follow the manosphere are starting to turn religious, surprise surprise.

This TERF shit is the same agenda but for women. And the terminology is slightly more sophisticated because it's aimed at people that actually read and won't believe just any story about George Soros or whatever. So their version of "woke agenda" is "trans ideology". But they're both the same, both fighting to preserve and enforce white christian patriarchal culture onto everyone and push down and eradicate anyone who breaks norms.

And the sad part is that I think a lot genuinely think they're trailblazing rebels or something. But they're doing exactly what the conservative religious right wants. The same people that want to see them reduced to kitchen appliances and baby incubators.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago

Tracksuit pants and hoodies for me. If it's particularly cold, I'll wear a jersey over my hoodie. I also have a fairly sizeable collection of bathrobes that I practically live in sometimes.

I'll wear the same hoodies out but that's about it. Although I've got a pair of plaid tracksuit pants that I'd love a more wearable out and about version of.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I kinda think Witchy Memes and WitchesvsPatriarchy should be merged.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

You pretty much answered this for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Absolute favourite:

Kiki's Delivery Service. Character and story that I relate with most of our of all of the movies. I wish I'd watched it when I was a kid.

Other favourites:

  • Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind
  • Pom Poko
  • Whisper of the Heart
  • Howl's Moving Castle
  • The Tale of Princess Kaguya
  • When Marnie Was There

Almost favourites:

  • Princess Mononoke (I don't like Ashitaka that much by the end)
  • Spirited Away (only because this is the only Ghibli that I ever came across in the wild before watching all of them, I'm over exposed to it)
  • Earwig and the Witch (love the concept and general story, not a fan of the animation style and a lot of specifics)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I have not and I'll definitely add that to my things to watch.

 

I hope this is a suitable place to ask about this. I've noticed now after 3 account migrations that no matter which instance you import settings into, all of your subscriptions end up stuck listed as "Subscribe pending". Functionally, everything works as it should though, and all of those communities still show up in your Subscribed feed. It's just an eyesore / annoyance.

You can get them to properly say "Subscribed" again by unsubbing and resubbing but eventually I might end up with a huge list of communities to do this with any time I try another instance. Is there any way to resolve this besides unsubbing and resubbing one by one?

 

Hi Blåhaj. I've been wondering if it's a good idea posting here seeing as only Blåhaj users have made posts here before. I don't see a rule that others can't welcome themselves to this instance though, so forgive me if I'm doing a bad.

I'm not actually sure new here, so I also feel obligated to post this for anyone that might have seen my other account around, as well as the sake of admins and moderators around here. My Blåhaj account is @[email protected]. Not running away from anything here, just exploring. I'll probably be mainly using this lemm.ee account from now for the next few months at least, even when I post here in Blåhaj communities.

I'm planning on eventually settling on Piefed or mbin once there's decent app support for either (preferably Piefed) and hopefully by then I'll have finally settled on a new online handle that I'll be happy with for the foreseeable future.

I decided on a new instance for now because I haven't seen much of what Lemmy really looks like outside of Blåhaj yet since I got here. But I'll still be at the very least lurking and upvoting around here.

So I hope this post is ok here from a non Blåhaj account. Blåhaj is my Fediverse homeland, I'm just using a foreign passport with a temp name right now.

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