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I feel like things on Lemmy were pretty chill several months ago, and that’s started to change.

People used to talk each other like they would talk to a neighbor. Now I get the sense that people have become quick to be negative, attack, and not be constructive.

Am I crazy in feeling like the vibe has changed?

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[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

Worth noting, the number of people who come here "to escape authoritarian moderators". Nearly all of them were moderated for good reason.

I also don't think the presence of places like hexbear are doing us any favors.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (3 children)

The thing that actually worried me a little bit more was people upvoting the aggressive comments to be top comments.

I was reading some thread over at [email protected] today, and a lot of stuff advocating for political violence were the top comments. Mods yanked it, but nevertheless, people were vibing with some comments about dragging people through the street. I felt like I was on X/Twitter.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I was reading some thread over at !politics

There you go, that's your problem. Political topics always gets heated and brings out the worst in people, no matter the platform. The first thing I did is block all politics (and general news + sports) communities, and it's been a fairly pleasant experience so far for me, except for the odd troll or fanboy that shows up every now and then.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

You didn't block all politics. Everything is political.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

People like to fetishize revolution.

Even offline I have friends that talk that kind of way and just reveal themselves as being poor students of history.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, I think it's a legitimate and growing problem. I think a lot of folks don't realize, but since growth has slowed from Reddit more broadly, the people who feel they have been "unfairly silenced" are the fastest growing subpopulation around here. If I'm honest, I think the only real antidote is to reestablish growth from communities with kinder dispositions.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

We don't need to take from nicer communities, we need to build nicer communities. Right now there aren't any left wing instances, which is a big problem. It was nicer back when lib.lgbt existed.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

You can see them jumping from Lemmy server to Lemmy server as they get banned from each.

Eventually, they'll just set up their own instances so they can bother people with impunity.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

And then we block that instance! Or it gets defederated.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

It would be super nice if users could block instances.

Like, I have no desire to see anything from the furry instance.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It became a thing in Lemmy 0.19 - as long as you're on an instance that has updated to that, it should be available to you. At the bottom of the settings page in the web ui, but if you use an app they might not expose that to you yet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I think that came with version 0.19.1 specifically.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I think that's coming (or is it implemented already!?)?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I totally thought that was in 0.19 but I haven't actually seen that yet.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

the 0.19 implementation is so half-assed I genuinely think the Lemmy devs just don't want that functionality but expected quite a lot of backlash if they outright said as much, so they decided to implement something that ticks the box in the "wanted features" list without having any effect

afaik it only blocks communities and explicitly lets users from blocked instances through

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Feel free to make open an issue to improve instance blocking. Or better yet a pull request. We are only a few devs with limited time, and hundreds of issues to work on.