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[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

I knew Blahaj was never 'for' me, but I always felt comfortable here. Guess that's over. Ada and the admins have the right to cultivate the community they want to see on Blahaj, and I wish them the best of luck going forward.

I'm going to miss 196 and Femcelmemes, but... well, Blahaj isn't for me, since I don't acknowledge 'dragonfucker' as a gender.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You can just leave, we could care less

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I care that he bothered to make a whole post about it yeah, but not that he's leaving

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

I hate these word crimes!

[–] [email protected] 36 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm sad that one user has caused so much trouble for so many people on here. I don't get the current situation at all, as it's small potatoes compared to the myriad of transphobes and tankies from other instances. I don't often block users, but I don't see how this issue isn't just tied to a single one who would be better off blocked.

I don't get how wider political discussions get roped into personal problems. If a person was a really nice "dragonfucker," I don't know if we'd be having this conversation. It's fine to dislike a person without seeing them as immoral or a political enemy.

I'll be sad to see you go, especially over this 😞

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

honestly the dragonfucker problem would've come up one way or another, dragonfucker is the direct cause that pulled the trigger but the shell and propellant was already in place

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don’t often block users, but I don’t see how this issue isn’t just tied to a single one who would be better off blocked.

That's the problem with precedents. Especially when the precedent is established with a user whose behavior is already quite... non-ideal.

I’ll be sad to see you go, especially over this 😞

Yeah, I'm not thrilled either. I enjoyed Femcelmemes very much. I hope your community continues thriving!

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The comment defending "drag" as a pronoun (and banning people over it) even uses "they" twice. Apparently admins don't have to follow the ridiculous, made up rule. They can just ban anyone who calls it ridiculous.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

drag explicitly doesnt mind people using they/them

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

It goes back and forth.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I haven't spoken about a specific user in any of this...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Wait I just saw some femcel posts like 2 hours ago, was it actually banned?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

fyi, dragonfucker is banned from 196 too. I think the moderators are pretty fair in yeeting people for being rude, regardless of opinions on gender and the like

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

That's why I seem so lost on this whole thing

I don't think I've ever seen their posts or comments

Edit: I also apparently had them blocked as well.