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submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Everyone has their own emotional Labor to do, why should anyone else (who's not a therapist) be expected to do yours?

Because part of a healthy relationship involves sharing with your partner and helping them through their struggles, emotional or otherwise?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Sharing and expressing feelings is a normal part of a relationship, but expecting your SO to also be your own personal therapist is completely unhealthy

I literally said that. The difference is sharing your own progress in a healthy way compared to expecting your SO to do the progress for you