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Not my note.

It's so easy to rip people down. Pump someone's tires. It means way more than you can imagine.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago
[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This guy wrote a note to himself as a self love exercise.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

c/nothingeverhappens

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 months ago

I've personally lost all sense of masculinity. There's no positive feature I would think men should have and women not, or vice versa.

To me gender norms feel weird and toxic, except there are folk in our trans community that get a lot out of representing as their gender.

But telling people they rock is a good thing I think. 2025 is expected to a lot of bad days.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I think I would remember this for 5 years if it happened to me, which means I should do it to others

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Make sure you confuse them though, give notes calling old grannies great fathers and fathers letters about the joy of child birth.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Yes, many don't know this but you can give out appreciation and compliment for free.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Absolutely. And I'd remember it forever.

I once had someone tell me on discord that they stopped cutting themselves because of me just being nice to them, when they had trouble making any friends. I'll never forget that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Like 10 years ago I had a stranger come up to us in a restaurant and compliment how well behaved our kids were and I still remember it.

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