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To make sweet sweet music. By which I literally mean music, not sex, to be clear.
Just to stop feeling, sometimes just to die already, short longevity.
Personally: to live in nice midrise in a walkable European city with a remote job I enjoy and two friends to hang out with.
Globally: for people to stop actively seeking ways to harm each other and just be cool already.
Extreme longevity (healthy longevity ofc).
There are so many things and people and places to discover.
A stable, sustainable, peaceful world
To see that people actually learn during my lifetime. I won't see the solution to all problems, but just signs that it'll change some day.
My heart's desire is to stand immovable like a rock at a punk show. Feet planted.
That seems pretty achievable
Done it. Watched somebody do it almost every punk rock show I've played or worked.
It seems you've got like-minded collaborators in the world.
An end to communism.
Where does communism exist? Not Russia. Not China. Oligarchs and despots.
What do you expect would replace it?
Comitalism
To cry in someone's arms and for them to say "Let it all out. I'll always be here for you."
I am an idiot. I have been thinking about throwing that away.
The only thing my heart wants is to continue beating.
It's myogenic like that
You and your fancy words. I like you.
Mental state fixed, society fixed, and a house.
I'm a greedy man, I know
:-(
My heart desires to always be healthy, beating regularly without issues, failure, or undue stress
I want my wife's suicidal depression and anxiety to get better. She has had both since she was 6 years old, and no medication has ever worked, and her anxiety is so bad that she can't get anything worthwhile out of therapy.
Thank you for your love for her.
to live healthy in a healthy society on a healthy planet with a healthy biosphere in peace and equitably.
Sing the songs!
I'd love to see healthy societies globally, care & tending of the Earth.
Healthy Forests of food & animals like the old growth forest (of northwest America), the Amazon increased across the globe. Food, better air, better connections with the Earth.
World Wealth, as we had before capital, was in the health of the land & the people. Hoarding imaginary paper replacements for gold hasn't been good for World Health or Wealth.
I just wanna enjoy things again, at least for more than a fleeting moment before the anhedonia sets back in. Working on it!
A state of harmony and bliss within myself and my many loved ones that we all share with each other.
To know my heart's desire.
Koan
My wife. I want her to get better, though. Depression is a cunt. So is her abusive ex husband.
To be flexible enough to suck my own dick
Been there sucked that. It's not as good as you might think.
You can train that, you just gonna keep at it. In two years you'll be able to suck your own dick.
This is highly depending on certain factors.
I'd like to believe my brother there has a long dick
Social democracy!
I do not wish to be horny anymore
I just want to be happy
Some people can be both.
Not me apparently
Someone who accepts me unconditionally and who I can trust fully. Someone who I can be my true self around and not worry about judgement.
An end to capitalism. An end to companies destroying the world because of greed.
I'd be happy, for now, to just see capitalism take a distant back seat to the driving of intentions around the globe.
Companies have been milking the land, the people (employees & consumers), producing nothing but toxic tinge to everything created by the Earth & her people, declaring the creations "theirs"
I dream of the people of the planet looking back on capitalism as bad times in history. Educational & not remotely desirable to repeat.
Peace of mind
Honestly? Dating peacefully in my sleep. Like, tonight or something will do.
I usually date when I’m awake but I’ll have to give it a try!