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[–] [email protected] -5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (7 children)

I'd not surprised if women had a much lower percentage

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TRIGGER WARNING: this image contains scientifically correct data, which might cause some of you discomfort

[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The most virgin thing you could possibly say to seeing this

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

I think that's the one I tried to watch 3 separate times and fell asleep at the same exact spot each time. I've only ever actually seen the first and last quarter of the film.

[–] [email protected] 63 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (4 children)

"Young male virgins" equals "men under age 30 who report zero female sex partners since they turned 18"?

Good thing no male has sex before 18 or with anyone who isn't female.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

It's confirmed.

The Bourne Ultimatum turned men gay.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Yeah some of these virgins are bi guys who had sex with a girl in their teens and met the man they’d marry in high school.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

Fuck Putin. Wait, not THAT.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

What if you're 38? Asking for a friend.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago

If your friend can hold it for 2 more years then they can get a movie made about them.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I bet young people today are more honest.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

So Jason Bourne turned everyone gay?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Or did he turn women into lesbians?

[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Also the year Persona 4 came out.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Every day is great at your Junes!

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[–] [email protected] 125 points 6 months ago (3 children)

2008 was the beginning of the recession, and in many ways things never really recovered. Cost of college never went down. Housing remains unattainable for most young people. And the job market is becoming more exploitative than ever.

Financial uncertainty creates anxiety. People with too much anxiety don't have the time or energy for relationships and family. As it happens, countries where this is felt even more, like Korea and Japan, have it far worse.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 6 months ago (3 children)

And it's a hard sell to get a girl at a bar/club to come back to your mom's house.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

We call it the great sex recession in some circles

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It was so traumatic that it left many of us with a very sexy learning disorder.

What do I call it again, Kiff?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

Sigh ... sexlexia

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I like the Bourne Ultimatum theory better. We peaked there and will never achieve that high again!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Okay but what happened in 1989 when it was 1% lower?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UHF_(film)

Weird Al Yankovic's first movie released in 1989. That clearly explains it.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago

I mean, I guess millennials were right in the middle period between having a healthy sex life prior to 18 and then various life clusterfucks hit the generation. I can only assume ppl gave up, secluded, moisturised, in their lane, flourishing in their shituation as best they can.

[–] [email protected] 50 points 6 months ago (5 children)

That’s when social media started earnestly taking a foothold. I am guessing maybe this has to do with depressed females (there are studies which indicate social media use affects females more and also depresses them). Depressed females likely have different preferences and standards than those who are not, perhaps. If you don’t like yourself, you’re unlikely to pursue and welcome relationships.

Alternatively, that was the time of the Great Recession. Perhaps some young adults in general are too economically stressed to do normal activities?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 6 months ago (3 children)

ugh i hate the word "females". why not just say "women"

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago (3 children)

In the context of this discussion, the chart title is "young male virginity on the rise", so it doesn't seem too far off the mark.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 months ago

Because the study is clearly talking about goats. You only use the word "women" when you're talking about humans.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago

Also, social media is a major contributor to the isolation epidemic going on, as is the economic situation and the work culture of countries like the US.

So what I'm saying is, you're probably right on all accounts.

I saw a great video once that went into how the economic situation is largely responsible for the cultural shift from "adult" as a thing you are to "adulting" - a thing you do. That from Millenials onwards, generations don't feel economically secure enough to partake in traditional cultural norms of middle-class adulthood. Things like buying a house and popping out 2.5 kids.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm trying to understand your post. Do you mean that the number of young men who are virgins has risen because women are depressed, thus implying that all of these young men are involuntarily celebite?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Not all, it’s hard to say

Note that I am not “blaming” women for the lack of sex these men are getting. I am saying that if you’re comparing yourself to the best female in your group and her outcomes, then you’re constantly going to feel like you’re not doing good enough for yourself. You’re going to get depressed, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re not coupling. But you’re restricting yourself and constraining your choices.

It’s an untested hypothesis, but here’s some prelim evidence: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/08/20/key-takeaways-on-americans-views-of-and-experiences-with-dating-and-relationships/

More women say dating is emotionally and physically risky now. What’s changed necessarily? I don’t know, I think it’s the hyper awareness induced by social media and also the increased economic pressures.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 months ago

My hypothesis is that mankind unconciously sorted out that earth its not gonna hold much longer with the size of our population and decided to apply the sex breaks.

Whatever the cause is, it's good to know that our best scientists are doing their best to make a better world both developing AIs and robots. Sex robots are on the next corner. And luckly, microplastics are making us dumber, so we will have a higher and faster acceptance of them too.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 months ago (2 children)

This is also around the time smartphones came out. Wait, were the boomers right?

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Pornhub was launched on 25 May 2007. Just saying...

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Just one more year until Pornhub is 18!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago

Well broken clock, etc. etc.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Even in the late 1900s that number is still way higher than I thought it would be.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago (1 children)

"late 1900s" is something I'm not sure I'll ever get used to hearing.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

I never know if 1900s means 1900-1909 or 1900-1999.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 6 months ago

Emphasis on "female".

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