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i used to just say the millimeters i want and tell them to only use clippers. no blades. no scissors.
but i switched to one length overall and since covid i got my own clipper and do it myself. if the clipper is good it takes like 5 minutes.
it takes 5 minutes
And doesn't require a trip out. And eliminates the ongoing cost of haircuts.
I used to have the same problem. Then I realized my hair is thinning, and any style haircut I wanted would never look how I expected due to thin spots. So I just have them shave my head. #0 or 1/8th inch. Go back 2-3 months later and repeat. Try it. If nothing else, it'll grow our to about the length you want on top, then just have them trim the sides down.
Sounds like you want a flattop? In my limited exp. with the style, barbers expect you back you every 2-3 weeks.
So per other comments. "Hi, I'm overdue by a month, can you give me a flattop, # 2 / 1.5 on the sides, not skin?
Also, flattop is an old style, if they ask "crew cut"? They mean short, same length all over (maybe with a taper or fade on the sides (gradual length from stubble low to desired length up high) but not the cigar butt. So be firm :)
Bring a picture of the cut you want.
Ask for a number 2 on the back and sides, and a number 6 or 7 on top. 6 is 19mm and 7 is 22mm, at least in the UK. I believe that these are standard lengths, but it might be worth double checking.
I got the information from this site:
If they're not trimming enough - tell them to keep going. Until they hit the length you want. The job is done when you're happy with it, not when they think they're done.
The problem is he is explaining what he wants. They aren't listening.they are basically doing the opposite of what he wants,
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#2 back and sides, finger length on top
I think hairdressing is probably really difficult. The surface you’re cutting on is roundish, but not uniform, and the texture of hair changes drastically based on how long since the hair has been washed for some, not at all for others. I say this because I also can’t figure out the input to get the haircut I want back. I have had two-three haircuts in my life that were exactly what I wanted and everything else has been pretty different from what I requested (even with pictures of the good haircuts for comparison, even from the same hairdresser).
I donate my hair every couple years, so I essentially get a pixie cut that I let grow out 40 cm before getting another. I’ve got a pretty high tolerance for unflattering hair, so unless it’s really mullet-y or I have an interview, I’ll just wait for it to get better. I do think it’s more difficult to cut hair in a much different style/length from what the hair currently is, so you’re right that that could be a contributing factor.
The most recent haircut I got, I asked for it to look like this, but I left looking like Eric from boy meets world. I have very fine, pretty thick, completely straight hair, which should make it easier, but I guess not.
I guess I’m mostly ranting and trying to reassure you that it’s not just you.
Does anyone speak hairdresser?
No. Not even hairdressers speak hairdresserese. Like drummers, hairdressers/stylists/barbers will all appear as if all their attention is 100% on your description but they are thinking about something within their social circle (hence the real concern on their face). Like drummers, if there isn't some kind of natural affinity between you and who cuts your hair, you will never get what you're looking for.
That said, many clients haven't the proverbial "faintest idea" of what actually works for their face shape and stylists, if they're not suffering too strong of a hangover 🤣, do try to work within those confines.
You can only go in with your remarkably clear and detailed description —still open to interpretation as your hairstyle is not an airplane fuselage, with precise measurements and tolerances—in hand and still hope for the best. Apologies for the length of this reply.
DISCLAIMER: my ex-wife was and still is a fine hair stylist.
How is it possible to go from
"I want only want this much left on the top of my head "
And have them think
"oh he only wants that much cut off and leave the rest"
They just straight aren't listening
Interesting, I've always had the opposite problem - whatever I say they cut way too much off the top. Perhaps we should go together and order each other's cuts?
I'm not sure I have anything helpful to say other than to suggest keep trying different places until you find one that listens?
I've avoided the conversation entirely. Ever since the pandemic I've done my own hair with clippers. Made a good enough job of it, even if I've sometimes needed to do a small adjustment the next day.
For a simple style it's not that difficult if you take your time.
Same. I like it all around, and it saves some money too. Though I will admit I'm a little slow at it, especially at first
Show them a picture of what you want and let them know for how long it's been since your last visit so they get a better understanding of how long it's been growing out. It's understandable that they rather take off too little because it's easier to cut more than to put an inch back on.
Fair, but I'm still curious where the glitchup is occurring...
Let them know you really do want it short and don't even mind if they cut it too short because it'll grow back. They're just trying to cover their asses because there are people who tell them to cut off 2 inches and when they do it's too much despite it being literally what they asked for and now they're unhappy and blame the hairdresser for it.
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You may just have a bad hairdresser. I put up with "ok" haircuts for months when I moved into a new area, then one month I decided to try a 2nd shop instead. I brought the same pictures to both places but the 2nd place was immediately better and fixed the problems. She even remarked that my issue was something the 1st shop should have recognized immediately because it was a) obvious and b) not hard to remedy. Don't be afraid to visit another place if you have one available.
The thing you're missing is that other people come in and say the same thing as you, and when they listened to them once, they absolutely freaked the hell out, left bad reviews, maybe threatened to sue or something. So you just have to live with that unfortunately.
Nah they just need to keep going to different people and different places until they find someone that does what he wants. When they find one that listens then always go back to that person.
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