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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Nice try fed, won't get my organs that easily

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Due to my own medical reasons, I'm not.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Healthcare in the US is run for profit. From 2020 estimates, they charge $1.6 million for a heart transplant. $1.3 million to transplant a pair of lungs, $880 thousand for a liver, and $440 thousand for a kidney. This is what for profit hospitals charge patients while giving your next of kin nothing for the organs that made it possible.

They don't pay you for your organs. They will still bill your estate for any care other than the organ removal despite your generosity.

I would happily be an organ donor in a country with a non-profit healthcare system. But because of how heathcare is run in this country, I would rather my organs be left to rot.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

I agree it's horrible, but also I don't see it as a large enough reason to not donate. The person receiving the organs is probably not the cause of this. It's like not working because your labor mostly goes to the elites. It's not a great plan, even if it does feel good.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Yep. Although I'm pretty sure no one would want them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Yes. In fact, I just registered for this a few weeks ago.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

Yes, it just feels like the right thing to do. Why let them go to waste if they can help someone else live.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

No.

  1. It's opt-in in my country.
  2. I fear that medical personnel will give up on me way too easily and early if they know that I am a donor. Or that it's even rooted in malicious intent.
[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yes, though my lifestyle may mean some are no good.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Please don't bury me down in the cold cold ground

In all seriousness I'd rather they cut me up and pass me all around.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No need to register in Brazil, you just have to tell your family members, as they're asked whether or not they're ok with your organs being donated. I've already told my family to, once I die, donate all of my organs that might still be in good shape

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

I read this and assumed it was going to have a dark twist i.e. people just take them when you walk into the wrong favela.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 10 months ago

Yes I am. As for why, my organs will save peoples lives,

I was already a donor before my sister died but it really solidified my stance when she saved three people's lives with her kidneys and liver. They needed it more than the crematorium needed them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 25 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Twin.

I wish I could properly state the right of first sale he has, given it's his DNA (well, he has mine, anyway).

Fun fact: organs donated between perfect twins have no short- or long-term rejection issues. So unlike a regular donation that prolongs life for a decade or two, if he can drug me and steal my kidneys in sleazy Mexican motel, it's a permanent fix.

Hell, when I go, maybe he'll take a spare kidney or pancreas or something, and just, you know, hook them up. Totally fine with me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (3 children)

That went unexpectedly dark.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago

Imagine taking everything. Splice both kidneys in there and get that ultra pure blood. Climb Mount Everest with no supplemental oxygen using a second set of lungs. Four nuts.

If I had a twin, he'd have to watch his back

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Same, not like I'm gonna need them.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yes. And I volunteer plasma every 2 weeks. Up to 25 donations in a weeks time.

Organ donation is the last honorable / good thing you can do for the world after you've left. You'll be forgotten soon after dying, so might as well make it worth something

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

For everyone who says they're not comfortable with the idea of receiving, when you're in a desperate situation thinking of mortality, I'm sure you'll suddenly change your mind.

Even small things like when I was in Nepal, I've seen people turn desperate. When it comes down life or death, what choice do you have?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No. I used to do that. I stopped doing that after I registered for be the match and had gangs subsequently stalk and harass me. I had people threatening to shoot me over the past several years, which may or may not be tied to registering, but many of their threats were motivated by my blood type. I’m the universal blood type donor. I’ve had several people, throughout my life, make comments about having me killed for my organs since I’m everybody’s type. I know it was just people being cruel, but I really feel more at ease by not being a listed organ donor.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

That's more about you than about organ donation. Your experience is not anywhere near normal.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I am, but I probably shouldn't be. My organs are...not in the best shape.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Good news, we have a match for you!

Somewhat good news, your new lungs are little dinged up and have mileage on them.

Bad news, we're still charging you full price for these lungs. Enjoy your medical debt.

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