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Personally: Hiking, biking, photography, DnD, and fixing things.

It sounds like a lot (because it is lol) but with ADHD having a group of hobbies I can orbit around (especially if they can overlap (like these ones))can help me avoid diving into too many new hobbies.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Writing poems, stories, playing games, singing, listening to any kinds of music, or just basically anything that would kill time

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Before kid: Reading, astronomy, cross-fit, nail polish, coloring, playing the Sims, cross-stitching, DnD.

After kid: Sleeping, DnD, cross-stitching, and a little tiny bit of astronomy (involves bargaining with spouse).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Writing and developing original characters. Usually I have 0 motivation to write short stories for them, but I have endless inspiration that I jot down in my notes. I also like rewatching my favourite shows and movies (lately that has been The Office US and Breaking Bad).

Edit: maybe it doesn’t count as a hobby, but lately I’ve been finding myself trying to be more outward and daring. Carefully testing my limits socially and stuff like that. And I do feel good about how more straightforward and confident I’ve become.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

My main hobby is critical listening (aka listening to music like a pseudo-audiophile)

Some other hobbies I have include watching cartoons, music production (still really bad at it), and collecting old electronics.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

I have two jobs so some reading is all I can manage time wise. I'm jealous of your hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Flying airplanes. It's a great community and I've made life-long friends, gone to some amazing places and seen awesome things. My daughter just got me back into SCUBA diving also because she wanted to get certified.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

ADHD kept me from being able to engage. I don’t get a reward out of it so basically don’t have hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

So sorry to hear that, for me before I actually got diagnosed I was basically bouncing from interest to interest like a pinball

But actually getting diagnosed and then addressing my ADHD allowed me to lock in some hobbies which has been amazing so far

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I used to get that years ago but I think life's traumas kinda broke my ability to experience pleasure, so I no longer seek it out. I don't experience pleasure or joy from activities or people and basically don't engage in either.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Solo game developer (and fellow ADHD-haver) here. I do the coding, 3d modelling, animations, and even a little bit of sound design. It's all incredibly time-consuming though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Ooh what are you on with atm? I'm embroiled in a minimalist city builder thing and just got to the part where I need to learn to animate things, which I have been full-on dreading.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

I use Blender for most of my animating needs. And using Houdini Indie has helped me to start thinking about asset creation in a more procedural way, which helped when I needed to make my own building generator.

This week I've been trying to figure out a way to load user-created characters and skins in a multiplayer game. My character setup scripts seem to work, but still a ton of hurtles to get over.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Knitting, rowing, beekeeping, walking, photography, computers (tinkering, running websites for other people), reading. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with activities, and lately I've not done as much photography as I'd like. But I really enjoy everything I do - I have a great bunch of friends with overlapping interests.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

i write, short stories mostly existential horror, and "essays" about anything i find interesting (that really just means i ramble about things i find interesting for several hundred-1000+ words on tumblr); also i made and maintain a personal website, i make mods and themes for things other people make cuz i don't code enough to make anything of my own; sometimes i make videos but i'm generally too shy to do that regularly; i play video games; i collect plushies; and i recentlyish picked up making pixel art

i also want to get into crochet, cooking, and gardening but my time with those has so far mostly just been using social media to see what other people do. i mean i cook but wouldn't classify how i do cooking as a hobby lol

i have adhd too, also i'm agoraphobic, and in addition to ideally being able to orbit around several hobbies i also just need things to fill in my time since i don't get outside very often

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Fermentation! (sourdough, beer, cider, veggies, used to yogurt, some day cheese)

3d printing (mostly functional, but some fun parts. I'm really trying to understand the boundaries so I can push them.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

I've taken up crochet for a while now and it seems to be a keeper (I tend to flit between hobbies a lot). I guess what makes this different is that a lot of the things I make are for others. My daughter loves the bracelets I make for her (the ones I'm not keeping for myself :) And recently I made a little bunny as a going away present. Having a goal like that is a great motivator.
I hope it'll stick, because I do love it as a hobby. There's still so much to learn.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago
  • ethical philosophy

  • artisanal videogame design

  • poetry

  • cycling

  • home improvement

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (2 children)

16h of videogames a day... I'm learning to crochet but I'm not doing as much as I should

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

How the hell do you have time for 16 hours of video games a day?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

16h‽ Damn I can't even stay awake for 16 hours straight

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

Oh im taking a nap too xD

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Hiking, video games, reading, climbing, manga/manhwa

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Same as yours, but instead of cultivating them, I spend my time doomscrolling.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

Avoiding the doomscroll is so hard a lot of days

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Synthesizers/sound design, music from extreme metal to baroque to pop, learning about anything that interests me (e.g. geography, geopolitics, world history, pop science level physics/astrophysics/paleoanthropology, religions and philosophy), the Godzilla franchise, terrible horror movies, Pathfinder 1E, and a voyeuristic curiosity surrounding conspiracy theories/the paranormal/the occult

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Do you have any recommendations for starting with synths/sound design? I have just recently gotten into it and have be playing with VCV rack & watching YouTubes (been enjoying Omari Cohen’s)…but I still feel completely lost. I’m eventually hoping to get towards the generative patchs but I don’t even confident in building basic synth voices yet

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Sure thing. There's a lot to take in, I know. Just keep in mind, as with anything, the more you do it everything will begin to make more and more sense. It's important to get through the process though. When you're able to move through synthesis with intentionality it's like opening up a new world with endless possibilities only bounded by your imagination and the capabilities of the synth you're using.

This isn't a bad video for a beginner. It covers a lot of fundamental concepts. He speaks a bit fast, so slow speed by 10% if you're having trouble following. It's a long video because it covers so much ground, so be ready for that. I hope it helps in your process!

https://youtu.be/jWorjBDcty4?si=hcXsI0_vOge2gEas

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Much appreciated! Yeah I have need a better understanding of the workflow before jumping into hardware. Cheers!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

https://piped.video/jWorjBDcty4?si=hcXsI0_vOge2gEas

Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

I do sports shooting and I cycle a lot on my road bike

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

All the things you mentioned, except while replacing biking with what amounts to cryptography.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 7 months ago (2 children)

My hobbies are making things, growing things, and learning things.

It's the only way I can keep it to only 3 hobbies.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

what kinds of things do you like to make, grow, and learn?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 months ago

Everything, pretty much.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Lol I feel this

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

chess

reading

watching tv shows

is the gym and running a hobby? Idk, I also do that

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

For years my main hobby was guitar but in the last year I started cross stitching and I am now hopelessly addicted to it lol! I never would have guessed that would be a hobby I'd take up but I saw a pattern I liked and decided to try it once and have been doing it ever since!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Making things, mostly.

Lots of crafts like knitting, crochet, cross stitch, sewing, felting, origami, faffing about with clay, etc etc. And gamedev which I basically think of as the same sort of hobby because it's just making a different sort of thing.

Making YouTube videos about all of the above, in defiance of the algorithm gods.

Reading any and all scifi I can get my hands on, plus the Discworld series just over and over again endlessly on a loop.

Also the amount of time I spend on Mastodon and Lemmy probably means it counts as a rather lame hobby at this point...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I start a lot of knit and crochet things but never finish anything. Excitedly start something, work on it diligently for the first half, begin to hate it, rip it, decide it was the yarn that i hated, buy more yarn, start over on another project. How do you avoid that cycle?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

I think we all do that a bit, tbh. But when I get to the "rip it" stage I just put it in a timeout box instead, work on a new thing, then usually the desire to get back to the original thing will return eventually! If it really doesn't I'll also frog but that's relatively rare.

Bonus of having so many craft hobbies I guess, there's always some other WIP to switch focus to!

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