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[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago

I think the bigger lie is you can live in New York City and almost never interact with a person of color, but ok.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 23 hours ago

What they don't mention here is that these guys get up at 6:00 AM, have lunch at 7 and leave at 8

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

This actually used to happen when I was younger. I miss having friends and being able to just hang out in our free time. I miss having some usable amount of free time. Adult life sucks and sometimes I just feel like I want to jump of the Balcony and end it all since I'll never get the good times back and I'll never have anymore in the future.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Sorry you’re feeling like this mate, hope you catch a break soon. Wish I could go back to my late twenties too sometimes.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

Sucks to think about, especially since relative to the past we are in the most prosperous times, but people used to be happier in generations prior because they had cheap third places to go to, had a purpose and community.

And now our lives are surrounded by substitute and vicarious experiences that will never afford us true fulfillment. And like a drug, it saps us of the motivation to actually change any of it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 22 hours ago

Convenience at an all time high, wealth inequality at astronomical levels.

Times are different, complaints are valid

[–] [email protected] 6 points 23 hours ago

Fight for the future you want everyone to have

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Interesting. I have friends eating breakfeast at my place before work one or two times a week.

You may hate on me now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

what time do you get up, and what time do you all head for work?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

We get up at 6 and we head to work between 7 and 9.

So depending on the day and person its just a quick coffee. But on other days we have time for bread and croissants.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I hate the damn french with their stupid labor laws that let's you have somewhat of a life.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Oh, we hate the french too! So we made even more even more laborate labor laws to outdo them!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

🥐 = french

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I loved Friends, but yeah, the whole show was a big fat lie and I hate I dont live in that world

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I know it is popular to shit on Friends these years, but I think that it captures the growing up part of life pretty well as the show is basically about capturing a snapshot in time of a group of friends when they were the closest before adult life tore them apart. Because that is how the show ends. They all grow up, have adult responsibilities, different priorities and they all leave the apartment complex to start new lives away from one another.

In my 20s I had a group of friends for awhile and we would hang out in each other's apartments all the time, sometimes we would sleep over at each other's places and have breakfast together before heading to school. We would go on picnics and excursions together. All pile into the old, rusty car that one of us owned and drive somewhere.

We had a pub we liked to visit semi-regularly and we were pretty 50/50 men and women.

When we got our degrees, most of us packed up and left. We are now in our 30s and some have had kids in the meantime while most of us have grown apart. Some of us still keep in contact and hang out when our schedules permits it, but it isn't like it was when we were in our 20s.

To me, Friends is an idealized version of the friends group stuff in your 20s. To me it isn't as unrealistic as it's being made out to be nowadays, but it is idealized.

I treasure the few years I got to have good friends and classmates that I loved to hang out with and treat as family. No matter how much time passes, whenever we get to meet up again, it is almost like no time has passed at all, and that is such a great feeling, even if we only get to see each other like once a year.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, you can still live like that if you want to, for your whole life if you want to. Move into or start a housing co-op. Even kids don't get in the way of this. We're supposed to raise kids in a village. That's how children are meant to be raised.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Nah, I'm good. My comment wasn't meant to be this sad woe is me rant. It was a critique of the meme since I did have friendships like that in my youth and just like in Friends, my friendgroup(s) split up when that period of our lives ended and we went on to start our adult lives.

It is a completely normal part of life. I don't see it as a terrible thing.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Reading that first paragraph makes me physically sick to my stomach. The impermanence of everything is killing me. There is no point. I cannot find a point of my own. It's legitimately driving me insane.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 18 hours ago

It's not how human beings are supposed to live. We're supposed to have that close-knit friend community our entire lives. People had this up until only 100-200 years ago or so. People in little farming villages were able to have a stable friend group for their entire lives and have time to interact with them. Kids didn't serve as a substantial barrier, as the friend group helped raise the children. This is how children are supposed to be raised. It's supposed to take a village.

It's only our hyper capitalist economy that atomizes us and forces us to scatter to the winds, endlessly chasing job after job in far flung cities, never able to settle down and form real community anywhere.

The way we live is deeply unnatural and fundamentally at odds with human nature. It's no wonder we're all mentally ill.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago

Life has permanence in the long term not the long long long term. We're fighting to make lives for our children and fighting the rules to make sure that other people's children can live, survive, and prosper.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I think the impermanence of life is one of the most difficult things to accept, but once you do, there is some beauty to it too.

I think it is or at least should be one of the biggest motivators to try and live in the now. I have been the most happy, when I try to live in the now and appreciate what I have right now. It takes a bit of practice but it is doable and it a great antidote to anxiety and depressive thoughts in my experience. You cannot live in the now all the time, but aiming toward it, is a good way to spend the limited time you have in this life.

Big hugs to you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I used to live in a condo with some friends, and there were others in our friend group that would randomly show up throughout the day. The doors were always unlocked, so friends would just walk in. Sometimes it would be early in the morning and would hang out while I made myself breakfast. Sometimes it was late at night after they partied and needed a place to crash.

Seems similar to what you mentioned, I relate. Like you said, Friends was idealized, but not unrealistic.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Yeah, I think those memories are to be cherished. Your apartment setup back then genuinely sounds like a setup for a wholesome sitcom xD

It's stuff like that, that makes me have very few regret from my 20s because I full on just wanted to make friends and throw myself into a bunch of scenarios with them while I had the chance and was still young.

When I hit 30, I was like "I'm ready to move forward".

Still miss it sometimes. That closeness and the goofy shit we got up to sometimes. Also just the hanging out on those lazy evenings. Good times ❤️

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Also they don’t even lock their doors. Same shit with ”Big Bang Theory”. I know, knocking the door or ringing the bell and walking to open the door takes too much time.

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