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Originally it was going to be "over the last twenty years" but I decided to be more flexible.

A lot of discussions about how society has changed or how the world is different always circle around to smartphones, social media, "no one talks to each other in person, they're on their phones always" and the like.

Outside of those topics, what else has changed, by your perception?

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

We used to take for granted that everybody agreed Nazis and Russians were bad.

Nothing against Russians suffering under Putin's boot. We have a whole new sympathy for you now.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago (4 children)

More aggressive driving. Statistics even support it so it's not just an anecdotal thing.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 week ago (5 children)

The death of appointment television.

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[–] [email protected] 90 points 1 week ago (22 children)

From an American perspective, flying on an airplane sucks. 9/11/01 resulted in a whole bunch of security theatre at the airport and airlines have slowly whittled away whatever comfort or convience remained.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Remember being able to walk people to their gate, hug them goodbye, and watch the plane leave? Now you can only do this if you’re taking an unaccompanied minor to their gate.

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've noticed an increase in noticing other people being not well, but a decrease in the depth that people care. It used to feel that you might have one or two friends who cared about you deeply. They'd drop everything to help and wouldn't ask for anything in return. Now it seems like everyone cares about everyone but not enough to actually do anything.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago

Yeah.

We had twins nearly 2 years ago.

I never really expected "help" but when we were pregnant there were people coming over every day telling us how much they were going to help. My wife has a huge social group, it was kinda overwhelming.

Since they were born, there's been 1 person who has just been amazing. She's here for a few hours several times a week and just plays with the kids. She's been really consistent.

No one else really knows how to help I think. Or maybe they think everyone else is helping. Or maybe just doing their own thing (which is fine ofc).

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's more like everyone is literally at their limit for taking care of themselves and literally has no energy leftover for others.

I think this is purposeful to socially divide us.

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[–] [email protected] 98 points 1 week ago (2 children)

It is now no longer social suicide to not drink.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sometimes I forget that smoking is a thing, and then (after sometimes a whole year) I see someone doing it, and I’m like, “woah, people still smoke.” It was everywhere when I was a kid—even inside restaurants.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago (2 children)

“Nonsmoking section” that wasn’t even a separate room, just a half wall divider 🫠

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