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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Noise canceling headphones and white/background noise or music. Rather than true "white noise" I prefer deeper stuff like cosmic or other low wavelength noise.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Being accountable to someone. Also my least favorite ADHD lifehack.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Look at your life. Sit there and think about the things that bother you. Now, think about just how many of those things that you actually have the power to change. Do those things, and don’t worry about the others. Life goes on.

It’s much easier said than done, I know, but I’ve found just not worrying about big things helps me focus on what matters to my life. Lexapro helps.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

If you really like doing something such as watching a new episode of your series on YouTube, but hate something else like exercising, combine the two. Only watch that series, while exercising. Then you'll start looking forward to the exercise because you get to watch your series.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Don't punish yourself for not succeding in something, punish yourself for not putting the effort

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What if I'm not successful in putting in the effort?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter, try as hard as you can even if you are procrastinating, try to stop and do something, it's hard for normal people and even harder for us

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

For me, it's also putting something into my calendar (specific time) or to-do list (no specific deadline -- this is mostly for shopping and a second one for ideas). After that, if I think of something I try to do it right then if I can complete it or make measurable progress against it to avoid procrastination. Finally, physically putting things in places I can't ignore so I don't forget them (or a post-it in place, but that's more risky).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I will set things I need to bring with me right in front of the door so I cannot leave without picking them up

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep. It only becomes a post-it if it's dangerous or needs to stay in the freezer until leaving or something

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

So true. There’s a post-it on my car key right now because I need to remember something in the fridge when I leave for work

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Set an alarm for an hour and a half before you wake up. Pop the Vyvanse then go back to sleep. Makes it so much easier to get out of bed once the meds start hitting.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Hour for me with adderall. It's especially great if you need to wake up super early for some reason.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

go back to sleep

I don't understand. What is this magical ability you are referencing?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

For me, it is earplugs. It's uncanny how much they help me go to sleep.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Everything goes in the calendar. Especially regular but infrequent things like birthdays. I set reminders a few days to a week before so I have time to adjust plans / buy presents or whatever.

If I'm having trouble motivating myself to do something, I commit to doing a bare minimum amount. For example going to the gym if I'm feeling unmotivated I might commit to just doing one exercise. Dishes maybe I'll just wash one plate / pan. Once I've used that to get over the initial hurdle I'll usually be able to ride the wave and complete everything.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

regular but infrequent things like birthdays

And for friends’ kids’ birthdays I put the year they were born because I definitely won’t remember how old they are

[–] [email protected] 70 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)
  • Alarms and timers for everything.

  • Custom sounds for phone to be 10dB higher than normal, to ensure I hear them and don't just block it out as noise.

  • Putting things that need taking care of later somewhere visible, like my laundry directly in front of my bedroom door so I have to do something with it just to open the door.

  • Having autism, too, so the ADHD problems just naturally balance out.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Putting things that need taking care of later somewhere visible

That can work but also can lead to tons of clutter.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

not too many alarms, though, otherwise they become noise

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Where exactly does this 'balance out' part supposed to work? Cause that sure would be nice

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

For example My autism wants me yo keep doing the same things and stick to a routine, my adhd wants me to keep trying new things. Not everyone's ND is the same ofc.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago

Different alarm sounds for different activities. E.g. shower alarm sounds like a shower running.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

I was like "somebody likes lists more than me!" and in the last point, "ah, yes, just like me :)"

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 weeks ago

If you feel like you're struggling to accomplish a task, take a moment to think about your stimulation level. Are you understimulated or overstimulated? Sometimes just acknowledging it is enough, everyone has their own techniques.

For example, if I'm trying to work and I'm understimulated, I might throw on some metal music or something like that. If I'm overstimulated, probably means I should sit in a dark room for 5 or 10 minutes until I feel better before trying to do anything.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

If you're trying to do thing A but your brain can't stop thinking about thing B, take out a notebook and write down all your current thoughts on thing B. Trust yourself that when you get back to it, you will be right where you left off. Then do thing A.

For example, trying to work on a paper but you can't stop thinking about the season finale of your favorite show you just watched.

Doesn't always work but helps a lot.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Then do thing A.

Hahaha, thanks that's so easy!

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

Hahaha thing A who?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Lists. My notes app puts in work. I make lists for everything. I set alarms for everything. I write things down while I'm thinking about them because I will forget. I ask for things in writing because I will misremember what was said. I have a white board stuck to my fridge so that I can write down when we're out of something or running low. Oh. And basketball nets over the hamper.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Myself, my wife and all 3 kids have adhd. Shared Google calendars are mandatory.

Does methylphenidate count as a life hack?

If I think of something I need, I usually just order it on Amazon prime right then, that way I don't forget latter and accidentally run out of garbage bags or something.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Careful with that. You might get put on a list.

I remember in the 90s I had a system. You know those yellow sticky notes? Well I kept some in my bookbag for school. If I needed something, I wrote them down, and then on the weekend I'd put the sticky note on my door so I'd remember what I needed to grab from walmart.

Each of these items had COMPLETELY unrelated reasons that I was buying them. I wrote them down on unrelated days. At completely different times. With zero thought connecting them. However, I realized as I stepped in line what I had just done. I abandoned my cart entirely, and just LEFT.

I didn't go back to that walmart for 3 years.

As I stood in line, with items in my cart, I realized I was about to buy:

1 box of 36 gallon trash bags

1 pack of sharpie markers

1 pair of scissors

1 container of draino

2 gallons of bleach

1 gardening shovel (the little ones that are 6 inches and a handle)

1 coloring book aimed at preschool children

1 jar of glitter

3 bottles of elmers glue

1 jug of orange juice

36 hersheys cookies & cream candy bars

1 pack of 3 pairs of dishwashing gloves

1 box of 10 condoms

1 box of cheerios

I saw that, and thought "holy shit! This looks like I'm about to have some kind of cult ritual sex, kill them, clean up the scene, bury the body, and then have breakfast!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

So empty….

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