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Be safe, get tests, and get that tail 🫡

Use protection, but otherwise, enjoy yourself

As long as you are getting tested, go off king. When you are the clinic, maybe ask about Prep

met a different guy the day after, and 2 days later met another different guy.

I have ADHD

Such a banger way to start a post. Could've just stopped there tbh 10/10

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You both are absolutely right. I’ll force myself to cool down and postpone today’s arrangement.

I do try to keep things grounded but the past month has been a bit much.

Stay safe out there comrades.

Yes you should absolutely worry. You should test regularly and you should ask for proof that any new partner is testing. Even the little baby STIs that aren't any big deal suck. Herpes gives you a big pus rash for weeks and can't be cured. Gonorrhoea is treated by a big nasty shot applied directly to your ass. And you definitely want to avoid getting more long term problems like hpv, hepatitis, or hiv.

If you're doing the sex you must absolutely test between new partners and ask for proof that new partners are testing. Make them show you their results. You show them yours.

This will mean you're doing less sex. It also means you're protecting not only yourself but all current and future partners as well.

Also if you're a penis haver doing mostly sex with other penis havers get on prep. Also probably use protection it's good for your health.

Take your sexual health seriously it's worth it in the long run. I know I'm just a random internet stranger but it's serious stuff so please please please take care of yourself and others

i would say maybe settle down on the hookups until you get used to being on your meds because it really sucks to have amphetamine induced mania and hypersexuality and then go on to make a bunch of very questionable decisions with your genitals

you love it because it turns out it feels very good actually

People, here's somethin' that you should be considerin'

Things could turn bitter when, you don't use discipline

You might wake up the next day, upset and in fear

Buggin' out, yappin' bout, "How the fuck did I get here?

Who the hell is this stranger, starin' all in my face?"

Now you wishin' you hadn't positioned yourself, in that place

Think just in case you shoulda took more precaution

A good time can become a nightmare so often

-gang starr

In addition to other stay-safe recommendations, try to meet somewhere busy and public before taking anyone home or going to their place for the first time.

Have fun!

My brother in Grindr use condoms

get on prep

if you're the bottom look up info about douching or other ways to ensure you are clean down there

Stay safe theres some shady as fuck people on that app

If the vibes are off gtfo

Just use protection and take prep.

Ideally get proof of recent STI checks from whoever you are playing with, and don't be afraid to ask how recently people have been tested and what their recent history is like. It feels awkward at first but is one of the most important steps towards claiming your sexuality in a healthy way. If someone else gets turned off by that, it is the only red flag you need to find someone else.

Enjoy yourself but trust your gut, some people are legit weird, even if they are hot, and better to find someone else than put yourself in an unsafe situation.

Also be careful with drugs, particularly meth, coke, opioids and benzos. A fun hook up could offer you something that ruins your life. You are describing yourself in a way that makes it sound like uppers could injure your heart and downers could be extra addictive.

But yeah have fun, if you want the best of both worlds maybe you'll find a few people you can build trust with to become regular things and rely less on total strangers. That is fun and exciting too but just opens up way more potential for very bad outcomes.