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[–] uhmbah@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 month ago

Lack of respect. For self or others.

[–] LaoisheFu@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Being a prick

[–] ghewl@lemmy.world 34 points 1 month ago

Echoing Fox News propaganda

[–] OutlierBlue@lemmy.ca 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)
  • Racist
  • Religious
  • Egotistical/full of themselves
  • Too much makeup/hair/clothing maintenance
  • Unempathetic
  • Not curious about the world
  • Focus on celebrity news over real news
[–] LaoisheFu@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] hydrashok@sh.itjust.works 50 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Not having empathy for others.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I cannot stand fashion stuff in general but especially things that get in the way of using your body or just doing shit like the rest of us.

Nails so long you can't pick up a credit card off the hardwood floor or type on any regular keyboards? Pass.

Fake eyelashes. Pass

Big fake boobs. Pass

Same goes for clothing that inhibits movement or jewelry that gets in the way of basic ass tasks.

I am a function over form man through and through.

I respect peoples choices to wear whatever they want but I will not associate with those people if I can help it.

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[–] CptHacke@lemm.ee 35 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Treating waitstaff or any other retail/restaurant worker poorly.

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[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 25 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Being vacuous

Ie. celebrity worship, a disregard for politics etc.

It's not a snobbery thing, but I can't find someone attractive unless I'm into their mind

Compatibility leads to attraction for me

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

If they won't share the nice warm donut I just pulled out of my pocket.

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[–] Paul_1958@lemmy.ca 40 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 80 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] wide_eyed_stupid@lemmy.world 54 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm very intolerant of behavior that tells me type of people they are. For example throwing garbage on the floor, or being unkind to serving staff, or something like that. Red flags for sure.

And of course there's the obvious stuff that is an instant deal breaker, like bigotry, being anti-vax, hating cats (or animals in general), right-wing politics, etc.

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[–] Libb@jlai.lu 9 points 1 month ago

Not wanting to put down their phone would rank high for me those days, even higher than smoking (which stinks and I know that for a fact, I was a smoker some 20 years ago ;)

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

Intentional poor spelling.

[–] wide_eyed_stupid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Seems to me this person might be German (considering the username as well) and used the German word by accident.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

I didnt even notice it. But yes i am german and dislexic

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Mistakes are OK! (I added the word "intentional" as an afterthought to cover this contingency as the statement still remains true.)

[–] vk6flab@lemmy.radio 4 points 1 month ago

So "international poor spelling" ?

[–] wide_eyed_stupid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Yeah, don't worry, I get it. Just thought I'd give a possible explanation. ;)

[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I get the joke, but seems more like German auto correction

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

True. It does match the profile, but I am usually not in the habit of profile diving unless I smell a troll.

[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago
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