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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I’m not banned, just tired of reading the brigading reds spamming every thread

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Not banned, just no high quality free apps and I got tired of paying for Narwhal. Hydra is okay but kind of laggy for some reason. Mlem is a joy to use so it makes me want to be here more.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I have no idea how many times I was permabanned. But what turned me to Lemmy was that cuntrag Spez taking away my Apollo.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Banned outta nowhere. I submitted an appeal asking what rule I broke and it was denied with no explanation. 2 accounts. Several 100 thousand post and comment karma on one of them. I had been banned from individual communities for pissing off random mods but never a site admin.

Fuck em. I hope it crashes and burns.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Fuck Reddit. Does that answer help?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I just like lemmy more, I deleted my 13 year old reddit account

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Just like what lemmy stands for. I still visit reddit from time to time, mostly to use it to search for real product feedback (the window for which it will be useful is limited) and for a few niche communities that lemmy just isn't big enough to get any traction with. I post very occasionally in said communities.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Not banned. I'm being the change I want to see.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I haven't been on Reddit much since they banned 3rd party apps.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Reddit didn’t permanently ban me, I permanently banned it. It started with Reddit killing third-party apps, but nowadays Reddit is a Nazi bar, so there’s no going back.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No and not really. Reddit is just past its expiration date. I believe Lemmy suffers from a lot of the same systemic issues and that will prevent it from becoming an actual long term solution. It's just the alpha version. It's better than the prototype, but it's still built on the same fundamentals and will likely suffer a similar type of failure.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Can you develop that idea?

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

One word - Apollo. Reddit killed it, and I left and came to Lemmy. Much happier here with more authentic engagement, and Voyager gets the job done.

I can’t say I never go back over there, but it’s almost always for live sports threads. Those just haven’t caught on yet here, though it slowly seems to be happening.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Never have been.

[–] [email protected] 120 points 1 month ago (6 children)

I came voluntarily after the third party app debacle. I never even used a third party app, it had just gotten so ridiculous that when moderators were putting together a blackout in protest, I made the decision that's when I was leaving and never returning, so that's what I did.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Same, I didn't have a 3rd party app either. When it was super apparent that it was mostly bots, I used the exit of so many people to add to it. It was the best move I could have made.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Well, disruption can create growth or stagnation. I guess it's up to us to decide which path we'll walk. I'm glad to share this one with good people such as yourself, for as long as it lasts. We may not always agree, we may accidentally trigger each other, but as long as it's accidental (and I guess that's where we walk by faith, not being in each others ' heads to know for sure), and we choose to examine and heal the wound that was poked, then we're each others ' students, teachers, and wounded healers. It takes comraderie to learn and grow together, and I'm so *glad we are doing just that!

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Both, I'm sure I could make a new account if I wanted but I don't want to contribute to their dumpster fire of a website anymore anyway

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Got really close to getting permabanned, Then switched to using this. Then I started seeing people getting banned for upvoting certain content. Glad I left.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Neither, deleted my 13+ year account.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I like lemmy. Fuck Spez

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Both. I was banned for using a slur. I was quoting a movie in a post about that movie (Glengarry Glenross). It was in quotation marks and everything.

I made a new account and was banned a month later for being racist. It was on a video of a train and I said something like 'why did I feel when that started like some Indian guy was going to die foolishly?'

Racist, apparently.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not explicitly answering ops q; what brought me here was a friend who introduced the Lemmy/fediverse. And this is (imo) a better alt to Reddit. It is filled with company accounts, spammers, banned or discontinued sub-reddits..

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

wish it wasnt so empty though, but i guess that means making a community here is way easier since people are starving for content

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I'm sure you know this and have heard it, but for the newbies you have to change your order to get more content. Switch between hot, top 6 hours, top 12 hours, subscribed new and overall new. In that order for me. I rarely get to overall new because it's not addictive.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I agree it can feel like rolling tumbleweeds, but that’s the more reason to invite real humans!

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I just joined Lemmy today. I found out about it through a piracy site of all things. If it were viable I would replace everything in my life with open-source alternatives. I'm tired of companies getting greedy and ruining the things I love.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

Welcome to Lemmy! Just by being here you’re about to find out (whether you like it or not!) just how viable it is to replace (almost) everything in your life with open source alternatives, it’s just seems to be part of the (awesome) culture around here. Enjoy!

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago

I’m permanently IP banned from Reddit. During the time when they forced everyone off of third party apps, I posted multiple times in relevant discussions about Lemmy and other Fediverse alternatives. One morning when I logged in my account had a message from Reddit admins that my account and IP address was banned and that any future accounts created would be circumventing the ban and would also be banned.

More reason to leave that site anyway.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I got admin banned for saying riot police should quit en masse after RvW. The thread was full of right wingers so the topmost comments were sexist as shit. Half the thread got banned.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Just like lemmy more

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Lemmy is catching up on Reddit. The technical forums/c/r are not as useful yet, and not enough of the hardware suppliers monitor the/their Lemmy communities.

Once that changes over I don't need Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'LL START MY OWN REDDIT!
WITH HOOKERS AND BLACKJACK!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Lemmynsfw has a few sex workers, some of whom might not mind being called hookers I suppose. I'm not sure what community has blackjack.

Edit: Yes, I'm aware that it's a Futurama quote.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

A blackjack bot wouldn’t be too hard to write.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nope, not banned, chose to leave. Realized most of my anxiety and fear were due to Reddit's algorithm amping up my issues.

Was banned from a couple of subs for promoting Lemmy though.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

it doesnt get talked about enough how bad reddit is for your mental health, glad you got out πŸ™

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Banning people from the internet isn't a thing, despite the drama around it.

[–] [email protected] 144 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I just like Lemmy more. No NFTs, or Karma meaning anything. It feels like it was plucked from an older time.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For someone saying karma doesn't mean anything you're sure farming lots of it! Making good comments and shit worthy of upvotes! You're quite a terrible hypocrite!

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