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I mean, there are two side of the argument.

Pragmatically, fleeing would save your life.

But ethically, it feels cowardly. (I'm not calling anyone a "coward", its just how I internally feel about such an act, if I were the one doing it)

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

It's a paradox – for the individual it's better to leave, but migration en masse would be unsustainable both for the source country and for the recipient country. You simply cannot fit the whole of a country like Somalia into a country like Denmark. This is why I personally am an advocate of foreign aid, and that includes political.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Eventually you’ll run out of places to run to.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

Whether you decide to fight or flee, I won't judge you. Do what makes sense for you and your loved ones. This is a difficult decision. Don't let Lemmy guilt trip you over it.

I have a family and kids that need me. I'll support the resistance where I can, but I can't fight on the front lines. I'm lucky I'm not a target of this administration yet, but if we go out and protest, we may become targets.

In recent years, my family has been getting our passports together and fulfilling requirements to get jobs in another country. If things get violent in my hometown, we can flee across the border. I'll do whatever it takes to keep my family safe.

If I was alone and no one depended on me, I'd disappear into the resistance. Somewhere, there's a cache of vintage World War II weapons that would love to fight Nazis again. But, I'm honestly not the gun nut type.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I've spent my whole life fighting for progressivism and my right to exist as a trans immigrant. My partner and I have been preparing to leave for a year. We're personally done, see y'all on the other side

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

I hope you thrive on the other side!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

I made a similar post and I feel no answers here on lemmy are satisfactory. They’re either you should have left 8 years ago or fight for (what?) it. At the beginning of this term people yelled fascism and I thought that was silly. Now it feels closer to reality but it’s unclear what is just news making it worse than it is or reality.

Leaving certainly is an option but not an easy one, especially depending on your family situation. I’ve considered both and honestly idk. The people who just yell we should have left a while ago are too ready to jump the gun and probably are keyboard activists who are in fact still here.

Idk, just some thoughts. Idk what to do either but it’s scary.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 days ago

I'm just so grateful that so many great scientists fled nazi germany. Also that those who stayed behind (this is controversial and not known for sure) hindered and delayed Germany's nuclear weapons program.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

I mean, there are examples of people who defected from Nazi Germany to the Soviet Union (and other places too) before and during the war. Good general rule is that the earlier they did the easier a time they had of it overall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Don't run away unless it makes you stronger because of it. Once something has been gained, never yield it without a purpose or a strategy - even if that ends up being a bad decision it was at least yours to make.

It is a difficult endeavor to gain new ground; it is nigh impossible to fully recover that which has been lost.

After you have ceded all your land and yielded every advantage, where will you seek shelter and from what will you find strength?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

Generally, I feel like it depends on how viable it seems to fix. Is this the same issue that people marched about 50+ years ago?

Specific elephant in the room, what possible fix within 2-4 decades is there when the right has most of the keys including a stacked supreme court?

Personally, I can't really fight or leave. I am nowhere close to anything politically relevant... I have no transportation, income, or ID/passport etc. I am a shut-in with untreated health issues. I'm just letting the days go by.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 6 days ago

Now you understand what it means to flee your country. It's never an easy decision.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

America will bring down the entire western world. There is no option but to fight.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 6 days ago

Is the "Western world" even worth fighting for? Who is included in it? More importantly, who is excluded?

[–] [email protected] 34 points 6 days ago

If you're trans: Start making plans to flee. You don't have to carry them out right now. But do get a passport, even if it has to have your deadname. Canada or Mexico probably wouldn't accept a US refugee just for being trans right now, but that will change in the future.

If you're an immigrant, or even a permanent resident: It's unsafe in the US right now. I wouldn't fault you if you left today. However, everyone's circumstances are different. Maybe you want to stay and support your spouse and kids who are citizens, and you're willing to risk your life to do it. It depends on the circumstances.

Anyone else: Stay and fight.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

I don't think there's any easy answer here.

If you stay, are you able and willing to fight and to what degree under which circumstances? What do you have to offer? Will you be more of a liability than an asset? How do you weigh your personal safety and wellbeing or those of your family and friends against the country or world? What do your prospects look like in whatever country you choose to flee to?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This depends on a lot of factors. If you're part of a targeted demographic due to race, gender, religion, etc., then it might be safer to flee before you draw attention to yourself.

If you're not a targeted demographic, then it might be best to stick around and stand up for your fellow citizens. But this could also lump you in with the targeted demographic and might eventually lead to your own persecution, so it's a risky choice.

Either way, I still advocate for standing up to any oppression or persecution going on in your home country. No one should ever lose their home to dictators and/or fascists.

This is actually how a lot of states get divided politically. People see a place as a "red state" or a "blue state" and decide to either avoid them or move away if their political ideology doesn't line up. But that just further entrenches the area into a political leaning. By sticking around and advocating for human rights and better community and respect, you can help prevent the splitting of communities and stop divisive concepts like fascism from forming.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm autistic and trying to figure out if autism is an at-risk minority group. It doesn't help that I was extremely vocal on Reddit about how much I hate Trump and Musk. I deleted my account, but Reddit is now a fascist platform and would likely turn over my posts and email address to this administration without a second thought.

I'm not sure what to do. I'm not sure if I could even leave at all, with my debilitating anxiety and trauma.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

White. Male. Able bodied. Neurotypical. Christian (Catholics need not apply). Straight. Republican.

If you or someone you know doesn't fit each one of those, then they are at risk of persecution in the US.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Imagine someone keeps breaking into your house and shitting on your pillow. Do you move out and find a new house, or do you grab a baseball bat and beat the shit bandits ass?

Both are valid options with positive and negative consequences. Which path we choose is largely determined by the value we personally place on our things and spaces. We tend to value our homes and families more, so it's easier to choose the bat. But, it's the exact same choice when your country goes sideways (or any difficult decision, really).

Ask yourself; How valuable is the country, to you? How valuable is your role in its society, to you? How valuable is it that you stand up for your beliefs, to you? If you place no value on your country, then move on and feel good about taking care of yourself. If you value your country a lot, then stand and fight to the end. No one on the internet can answer these questions for you, and there is no right or wrong choice unless you decide there is.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

In good news: there's going to be lots of fed jobs available in 3 years.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

Needed the optimism and the chuckle, so thanks lol

[–] [email protected] 35 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

The US is a massive place. Yes the federal govt can suck but state and local governments are where you see the real day to day effects like roads, local businesses, utilities and parks.

Sit in on a meeting (a lot of stuff is streamed thanks to covid). Get to know the people in office in your area and what they stand for. If you want make your voice heard however you choose and give them some perspective on how an upcoming decision effects you. You can vote wisely and build a community with them from the bottom up.

You can have a surprising level of influence just by reminding people that voters exist and care enough to give input now and then.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

The answer depends on the responsibilities you have.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This question has nothing to do with the country and everything to do with the person. It's entirely up to the individual how to approach this.

For an external observer, the choice made by someone else is not for you to judge. You can never know what is inside the other person's mind and whilst you might disagree, it's their choice.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

for you to judge

I mean, I don't judge others for leaving. It is the most logical choice with survival in mind. I just want to ask the question to see other opinions.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

It's a very valid question and I think it comes down to an individual's situation and circumstances. Not many can afford to actually leave or have family, friends, other ties to their home that they cannot emotionally afford to leave. Others struggle in how they can support efforts to fight for their rights or simply don't have the physical or emotional reserves to make such a fight. I think the only truly ethically irresponsible answer would be to do the opposite that you are able and willing to do. I could never judge someone for leaving or for staying; it's not really a mark of their character.

[–] [email protected] 87 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I think one has to decide if their country is worth fighting for or not.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (5 children)

I think it is. Not in a nationalistic sense - we've done a lot of harms in the world. Maybe more harm than good, even. But there's still a lot worth saving here. (USA)

If you just walk around and talk to people on the street, we're still one of the most progressive people around, despite everything. The US is a melting pot, a country of immigrants, and therefore a fierce battleground for ideas and ideologies. Right now the fascists are in power, but that doesn't make them the majority.

I really do think that if we get past this, we've got the "bones" to create something really great.

And that doesn't even include American culture. Sure, there's things I don't like, but there are some really good parts, too.

We're loud. Gregarious. We'll strike up conversations with complete strangers. Most Americans are culturally curious, too - we like to try foods from other places, we're fond of foreign movies and media, and we have a weird fascination with people who speak other languages (even though most of us only speak English).

Many of us see ourselves as citizens of the world, not just our own country. We like the idea of the US being a "global superhero" standing up for democracy and human rights. I know that's mostly propaganda, and the real history of US intervention is more about maintaining global capitalism. But it doesn't have to be that way. We could actually help the UN, defend Ukraine, defend Palestine, push for peace. The cultural groundwork is already there, we just need a more democratic system so that the will of the people is actually followed.

If you look at US history, you'll see a lot of bad. That's the nature of the two party system. But we have had some really good times, too. We have had leaders like John Quincy Adams, Abraham Lincoln, Teddy Roosevelt, FDR, and Jimmy Carter who have done a lot of good. And that's just presidents, we've also had activists and leaders fighting for what's right throughout our whole history.

They didn't spring up from nowhere. Those people have always been here, and they're just as "American" as the bad ones. In a sense there are two "America"s. There always have been. And, as in every generation, it's worth fighting for.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

a place worth dying for would he nice

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Stay and fight for it. Because what happens if and when shit goes south wherever your new home is? Just keep running?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Well, apparantly, Lemmy is telling people to immediately flee the US.

So like, I'm just wondering. What happens when every person left-of-center leaves? Do we just leave a bunch of nazis with the entire nuclear arsenal of the US?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

Lemmy is telling people to flee the US? What did I miss?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

me fleeing the US with money I don't have

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

One of the methods of getting a foreign visa (EU countries in particular) requires you to have the equivalent of $500,000 USD to invest in the country. I'm like... bruh, in this economy? 💀

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

I think you'll find that most countries worth emigrating to are expensive and hard to get into, much moreso than the US.

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I would need more to defend than just a Flag or Land area. I'm not killing myself or others for some line on a map. I.e. would it cause massive suffering for people if the war is lost?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

Slava Ukrajini

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (2 children)

If the United States goes down, you'll have a corporate oligarchy with the most powerful military in world history.

Just saying.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

If the United States goes down it'll also trigger a global economic disaster as well.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Yes, I don't see a calm transition in the cards.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Oh yea, this time, there wouldn't be a powerful country to liberate us. 😖

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I've read a lot of modern fiction set in the 1930s. The authors almost always have a character who can't leave Europe because they are caring for an elderly parent.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That's me this time around!

Speak to the author about allowing folks and their parents to immigrate, please

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