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[–] [email protected] 1 points 58 minutes ago

Too late. They all already came, minus the centralization issue.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

Constant reposts and lack of any critical thinking or engagement. It is insane to think that every post I have put on here so far, I am new, has had more interaction that the gigantic 'active' user base of Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

US defaultism, eurocentrism, assuming everyone is male. But I think they are already here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

What you on about, brother? Isn't this a place on the internet, here thanks to god's favourite country ? Clearly everyone can relate to the quintessential USA-ian experience!

And what's that about Eurocentrism, look at a map, Europe is dead center! Asia is to the east and Americas to the west... Relative to Europe!

Oh and here's a massive /S, just in case...

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago

I was today years old when i was reminded again of this godawful expression.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Dubious and disagree downvotes. But that's always been here already. That became pretty clear to me pretty fast.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

disagree downvotes

What do you expect people use downvotes for then?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (2 children)

Content curation.

I upvote or leave neutral opinions and arguments I disagree with if they're well argued or otherwise contribute to discussion and strengthen respectful discourse.

I don't know how you feel when your posts get sum-negative scores, but it makes me feel rejected and makes me not want to participate. I receive it as a social indicator. I see it as something that leads us towards echo chambers.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Yeah, I try to do this as well. I may not agree, but if they’re making an attempt at good faith argument and are holding a position that is not objectively wrong I’ll upvote or at least not downvote. I’ll always upvote someone who appears to accept that they might not have the higher ground. People still voteshame when someone tries to admit reconsidering a position, it sucks because that’a a disincentive to learning. It’s far too easy to emotionally knee-jerk downvote someone just because you don’t like what they said.

Of course, this is pretty subjective…someone can be right and a complete ass and get a downvote or you might disagree for reasons other than the presented info, but so far Lemmy users seem far more inclined to moderate downvotes or at least tolerate some opinions and dish back with rebuttals rather than just mashing downvotes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

I cared on reddit because of the karma system and needing karma to participate in some communities. Here I literally do not see it unless I get a reply from someone and I need to look at the context.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 12 hours ago

complaining about a hivemind

[–] [email protected] 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Random persons(bots) writing their story of their life in comments. Karma farming, which leads to nothing but trying to show off or push propaganda.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago

I've noticed a lack of "thathappened" type of stories. Either people here value their privacy or don't feel the need to lie to farm nonexistent karma.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago

Suppression of discussion through mega/weekly/monthly threads.

Post requirements that result in posting anything nearly impossible.

Fucking stupid rules for mods to abuse with their dork ass internet powarz.

Clear corporate astroturfing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

The constant chasing of low hanging fruit. Doesn’t matter if it’s seeking the upvotes for a cheap quip on a serious subject or reposting the same old shit trying to get upvotes.

Reposts. We don’t need a constant churn of popularity seekers.

The hive mind. Really bad in big subs on reddit. Probably inevitable in any large online group, but reddit can be unreasonably bad.

Bots.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Mod impunity, brigading, bots, reposts, repost bots, banning of 3rd-party apps, abuse of suicide prevention system by bad actors. Aside from the forum-specific culture, the site's frequent failure to upload/post comments, which sometimes resulted in 100% loss of more detailed responses, was incredibly disappointing (I'm still Ctr-C'ing all comments everywhere as a force of habit to guarantee it won't happen 5+ times/day).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 16 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

Outrageous and inflammatory comments just to karma farm if that's even a thing here.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 17 hours ago

“My dad spent 10 years molesting me, my mom said to invite him to my wedding, AITA for saying no?”

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Any kind of automated moderation. If you can't do the job you volunteered to do, don't volunteer. If you need more hands and eyes, recruit more mods.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 18 hours ago

Karma and comment requirements to participate in communities. Plus how hard it is for your submission to actually be approved.

This one is inevitable but people going through your whole comment history when arguing with you.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

Just one. JUST. ONE.

Communities almost wholly moderated by an automod bot, that is extremely strict about nonsense, and where 99% of posts are strictly forbidden.

"ALL QUESTIONS SHOULD BE IN THE MEGATHREAD!!!!!!!!1111111111one" and then you peep the megathread, it's months-full of unanswered questions because no actual community member READS the fucking megathread, and then the excuse is "BECAUZ WE WANT QUALITY CONTENT!!!!!!" and you check the sub itself and the "quality content" is one post every 3 months by the powermod that has the power to override the bot.

This was the most annoying thing about Reddit and made getting conversations going nearly impossible. PLEASE do not bring that over.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago

I found one subreddit that had no active mods, and a bot that admittedly did a pretty good job, but the subreddit was totally dead as a result.

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