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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I love vidyagames but have unexceptional skill in them. I did once finish the Ice Cold Beer arcade machine by Taito, I LOVE that game. And It only took me 2500 tries ✨

πŸ˜…πŸ€£

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I let you be the judge of that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

That's some really good cosplaying you're performing there.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Undisputed UK champion of pyro cricket.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I am an IT guy and a hobby photographer, judge for yourself:

@[email protected]

https://metapixl.com/Stoy

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

These are gorgeous! If it's okay with you, may I use this as my wallpaper?

https://metapixl.com/p/Stoy/797940603119447726

If yes, is there a high res image? Thanks!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Blam, here is the full size version!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thanks loads! It's pretty sick and now is my lock screen wallpaper ;D

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Yes you absolutely may use it in anyway you want, apart from commercial work (without asking).

I'll see if I have a larger version of that photo when I get home!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I won't lie, some of your work I'd give five stars.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago

I used to be really good at video games, but now I just don't have the time. I remember being able to jump in any CS lobby and jump to the top of the server. I got kicked for supposedly cheating all the time. That was always a good feeling. Knowing that I'm kicking so much ass that people assume I must be cheating.

My crowning achievement is beating Super Ghouls and Ghosts - both times through (second time with the farie bracelet). This was using an original SNES, no save states or anything. Dedicated an entire summer of my teenage life to it. Game is hard, man.

Computers used to be a hobby but I turned that into a career. I'm a principal systems engineer and I like to think I'm good at what I do.

I got really into cooking, and it was maybe a hobby at some point, but now with a family it's more of a necessity. A lot of the things I learned while cooking as a hobby turned into skills though. I'm not sure how to explain it, but like having cooking intuition. Knowing when to add more or less of something just by knowing. Also just being able to freestyle meals out of what is laying around or knowing what can be substituted with what or how to make ingredients out of other ingredients.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Best part of having hobbies is that you don't need to be good!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This!!

I suck at most of my hobbies, but half the fun is learning and improving

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I've recently started to blindly learn instruments without any tutorials just basic overview and it's so much more fun! It's like playing video games without wikis and guides - great if youre not in a rush anywhere

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

Why do you have to bring up my shortcomings like that?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

I barely start them and then I jump to something else. I have a big problem

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Type 2 fun and overthinking. I am good at enjoying both.

Bouldering: I enjoy it, even though I’m not great at it. My short wingspan doesn’t help, and neither does my fear of heights. Every climb is a mix of determination and second-guessing my life choices and I'm excellent at the latest.

Gardening: It sounds relaxing, but in reality, it’s a cycle of overthinking. First, I stress about planting. Then I wait. And once/if it grows, there’s a whole lineup of threats: slugs, cats, deer, boars, hail… basically, everything conspiring against success. Not sure what I enjoy about it but I'd say I am moderately successful and can eat a self planted potato every year

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I really just play video games, and the game I was best at was Rocket League. When I played, I was in the top rank and would regularly end up in matches with actual pros. I wanted to try going to RLCS, but I could never find teammates to sign up with.

But I also have 100% achievements in all 3 dark souls and elden ring, while currently going for Bloodborne's. Sekiro I haven't even beaten yet... Gonna have to cheese Owl.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Awful! But the fun is having something i don't need to be good at. Though i now have a lot of things i'm at least mediocre at, those are just old hobbies.

I usually learn my hobbies at small fraction of the rate i would have learned something in school. Years instead of weeks/months. I learn them deeper this way and don't develop burnout.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Depends on the hobby. I tend to collect hobbies and then grow bored of them, then return to them a while later.

I'll become absolutely obsessed with learning about "hobby x", and spend two months basically getting as close to an expert on it as I can with self-teaching. (Video Editing, filmmaking, screenwriting, 3D modelling for flight simulators, Graphic Design, etc...)

Then I'll grow bored and move onto a new obsession from the above list, focus on that long enough that at least 25% of my knowledge of the previous obsession vanishes and I have to relearn a bunch the next time that obsession rolls around.

I've been told that's possibly ADHD, but since I suffer from depression I'll take my bursts of obsessiveness over lack of any motivation any day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is me!!!!!! Especially the relearning part πŸ˜† Side bonus is I'm really good at reading docs(programming) now!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Reading (good) programming documentation is half the battle, or maybe 3/4ths, hahaha! I also remember when someone took the time to go in depth with the debugger and increased my programming efficiency by about 75%, good times, wow! Now I can only write code at 225% efficiency 🀣.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago

Jack of all trades; master of none.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Well I turned one of my major hobbies into a job so I'm pretty good at it. But now that I do it for work I don't do it for fun anymore.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Hobbies are about enjoyment, not skill. You should never measure your accomplishments with hobbies based on how good you are at them.

That said... when I was younger, I only indulged in hobbies that I had any skill in. If I sucked at something, I typically gave it up quickly and looked for something else to do.

Video games were an exception. I enjoyed the gameplay so much, it didn't matter that I was awful at them. I'd grind the same levels over and over, hoping to finally beat it this time.

Interestingly enough, I'm actually really good at video games now. Not professionally so, but I have a lot more skill than most of my friends. I'm usually appointed team leader in any co-op games I play with my friends because I'm really good at tracking the mission objective and keeping everyone together. And now that I'm retired young, I spend a lot of time gaming throughout the days, which only makes me better.

I don't play games for the challenge or skill, though. I mostly play to enjoy an interactive story. So I usually turn the difficulty down to the easiest option so I don't get stuck from progression at any point. I can handle really difficult games, but I just don't want to. Unless my friends want a challenge, then I'll crank it up and then be constantly bailing them out from the nightmare they chose to play.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I am an aggressively mediocre singer but the 2 hour rehearsal on Monday is the highlight of my week. It's so fucking fun man!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Not good at all, but I'm just happy to be there.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (2 children)
  • Creating games: Good enough that my IT teacher was impressed enough that he recommended that I go into the game industry

  • Drawing: Good enough that I've got hundreds of followers and a lot of people like my art

  • Games: I can beat the original Pikmin in 7 in-game days and I also beat Mushihimesama Futari's final boss on Ultra Mode.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is some dope ass shit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Thank you so much!! πŸ˜ƒ

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Lovely drawing style. My compliments.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Aw thank you so much! ❀️

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