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[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago

Not enough grimdank to keep them

[–] [email protected] 16 points 20 hours ago

No, I'd be extremely suspicious of such person.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't know anyone besides myself that even uses social media IRL.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 21 hours ago

Yes, myself. That's it though

[–] [email protected] 9 points 22 hours ago

Guy from work posted a Lemmy meme link.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

No. I recommended Lemmy to my friends, and they were all driven away by bad moderation, tankies, or transphobia within a day. They think I'm mad for using this site and surrounding myself with the people here.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I recommend it two the two friends I know that use reddit. The one didn't even join because there's no active sport communities. And the other left after about 3 months a little less.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yea I recommended it to a friend and the reason they didn't stay was the lack of niche communities. And I get that. You have to have very specific requirements to thrive here

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

As long as it's small there is no interest in meddling and control by the regime.
Afte witnessing the evolution of so-called 'moderation' and the inherent bias it entails I can say I prefer free speech with all the insults and whatever comes with it over the shithole that Reddit has become.
Deleted commments, banned or ghostbanned for the slightest and bots bots bots.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 23 hours ago

Other way around, I know people in rl through lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I do. But despite my best efforts at explaining and advertising this platform, none of my friends seem to care 🥲.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago

That's crazy. How are they keeping up with news about Trump and Musk then?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

God, I hope not.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It took 10 years to meet anyone that used Reddit. I assume it's gonna take another 10 to meet anyone on this platform.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 22 hours ago

We don't talk about Bruno no no

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

No. I happened across somebody on Lemmy from the same sub 100k city as me though.

I haven’t talked about it with my social circles but I would be surprised if nobody I know is on here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I know for certain I am the only Lemmy user within a 300km radius

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

I don't even know anyone who uses BlueSky and that's considerably more trendy lately. Granted, most of my contacts are 20 something college girls so it's pretty much TikTok as far as the eye can see.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Yep couple people.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

no and i don't think anyone here is real. every account is a russian psyop bot trying to make leftists appear insane and stupid

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You were programmed to say that because I’m the only one that’s real.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nice try bot, I’M the only real one here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’m not real, but in a figment of your imagination type of way.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Why would we? Even Reddit had a secret salute when it was starting, because it was growing slowly. Something social exploding is not the norm, but the result of aggressive marketing, which Lemmy instances can’t afford, and have no need to pay for.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I actually know one person IRL that uses Lemmy. We both found it independently of one another.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

No. Thank God.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

My own spouse, but...as the statisticians would say, that is not really two independent samples.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Really, this amounts to a question of who has recommended lemmy to others. Which is an interesting question.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've recommended it to others, but none are interested, which is extra surprising considering how many of them work in tech or tech adjacent.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

I mentioned it, but didn’t try to recommend it to my forty something sisters who mostly use Facebook, because I figured it was a lost cause (and we’re small enough that I’d be very identifiable from my comments), but try were both very interested in it. Unfortunately, I lost them trying to explain it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is more its memes than its technocommunist roots. It’s not a very sticky experience if you don’t like the memes. (I like the memes)

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