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I love interacting with you all very much, and I know there's a lot of important political issues in the world going on right now. I love my Linux Mint setup, I support Palestine and trans people, and I've blazed through all of OG Star Trek, TNG, Voyager, and am now on DS9.

But I also want to discuss Luka to the Lakers and Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile and getting 5 Grammy's, a tour, and a Superbowl halftime show out of it, you know? I wanna talk about your country's Eurovision entries. Am I just not in the right communities?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Personally I'm longing for more discussion about ideas and less about events and definitely less about people.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Not really. I find that most "pop culture" still gets talked about, it just doesn't get pushed into everyone's face by an algorithm.

If I drift away from my subscribed feed and look at the all feed, it doesn't take long for something or another about pop culture to pop up. And then if I'm interested, I go to the particular community that's talking about it and subscribe. The more I do that, the more interests start to show up in my subscribed feed.

For the most part, these communities all exist, there's just no algorithm saying "hey...you'll probably like this". And so you have to find them yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I would probably subscribe, as I love collecting and discussing all kinds of random events.

Youtube has been my main source for this stuff since I left reddit for good. I really went deep into Kanye/Drake since it was still considered a rap battle.

I watched hours of the Sean Combs development.

Mr Beast drama has been a big part of my entertainment as well.

And while my Youtube feed is usually sports free, I couldnt escape the Donçic transfer.

I dont watch TV or streaming services, so this is my entertainment before going to bed. Giving me world-politics that late just keeps me awake.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Anything black/“urban” generally gets heavily downvoted on Lemmy. Haven’t figured out why. With all the other heavy virtue signaling you’d think it would also be pushed.

It’s one of the many things that aggravates me about my experience here. I went back to Reddit after over a year of only spending it here.

It has gotten better though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If you block a person or instance, does it also remove their votes from the totals you see? If not, is there any way to do that?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Ooooh, we do need a Eurovision community if we don't have one already.

Edit: there's one at [email protected]. I'll see you there!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Feel free to post about the idea on [email protected] !

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (4 children)

We did have a Luka to the Lakers over on [email protected]

Just saying.

I’m exclusively on the fediverse, I don’t feel disconnected from pop culture at all. There is a lot of politics and meta discussion, I’ll give you that

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[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I support Palestine and trans people

This feels like some kind of religious catechism, uttered to allay the suspicions of those who might question your standing as a member of a virtuous tribe.

Personally, I support Palestine and Israel, trans people and feminists. The world is complicated, history even more so, and individual moral situations must be judged on their merits.

I like to think that one difference between mainstream social media and this place is that here people might choose to think a bit more.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

How exactly do you support a genocidal state and the people it's genociding at the same time?

You don't think that's a massive contradiction?

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 days ago

Genocide is a big powerful word that gets your blood pumping, that's why you use it twice in the same sentence. But what exactly was October 7th, for you?

There are no massive contradictions here, only a lot of ignorant keyboard warriors who look at a complex world and see black and white.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

BOTH SIDES EVERYTHING

So enlightened.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Your phrasing makes it appear as if trans people and feminists are on opposite sides of an issue, which they aren't. Only a small subset of feminism-appropriating weirdoes call themselves anti-trans feminists.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

And your inflammatory vocab choices suggest that you're not interested in calm discussion over issues where people's individual rights do, indeed, sometimes come into conflict.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

inflammatory vocab choices?

Lol what? How was that comment not calm? What a fucking lame way to duck an argument.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Other than weirdo, can you specify? I don't think saying feminists and trans people are on the same team is a very controversial statement, at least for non-TERFs.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

non-TERFs

There you go again. You know very well that this is a derogatory term that is used to shut down debate. And you must also know there are a handful of situations (females in sports, children's medicine) where legitimate rights come into conflict. You have your views and values about these situations, I'm sure, but it's silly (I will refrain from any worse judgements) to pretend that debate on these subjects is morally illegitimate.

Personally I find this whole subject incredibly boring so that's all I have to say here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I've followed "gender critical feminists" for a while, and in the early 2010s they did claim "TERF". It's only when it became better known to the outgroup and that they, accurately, overly focused on trans women to explain how evil they were, that they tried to rebrand and used "TERF is a slur".

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (4 children)

I hear you. I could go on about how pop culture is lame etc and not really answer your question but I think, the more the merrier. If I'm not interested in the Lakers, I can ignore it and scroll past it. Easy. It would be nice for people who want to discuss the Lakers to have a place to discuss the Lakers, though.

Honestly this place is starting to piss me off a little bit sometimes. Because it's like the users here actually want 'All' to just be politics all the time and for there to be no variety to anything. You can talk about missing features from Reddit and think of ideas to make this place a little better and you'll get responses like "No. Why would anyone want more features? I know that I don't have to personally use them if I don't like them but I prefer pretending it's 1998, so no one can have them. And why would we want more users? I like empty communities with no activity. And then complaining about empty communities with no activity."

So I dunno. It's gonna be interesting to see if this place actually grows or if it just stagnates. I'm right there with you though. I'd be more than happy to see pop and sports and things I'm not really interested in because then there's a bigger chance of things that I am actually interested in taking off here.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Politics flood All because that is what most people post and upvote here.

Building a new community requires yelling into the void for a few months and heavy cross promoting to get any traction.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Honestly this place is starting to piss me off a little bit sometimes.

What you describe is a vocal minority. It's pretty obvious that most of the users wouldn't wind getting the place getting at least twice as active.

Not sure if I mentioned it to you, but you are aware of [email protected] ? I'm going to start daily threads there to promote non-political communities

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You are a shining light in this place when it comes to promoting growth. So just so we're clear, because I've discussed features and stuff with you a couple of times now, I was not picturing you when I made my comment here. You're more or less carrying this place on your back as far as guiding and encouraging new users goes. So also thank you, you rock.

And yup. I've seen you promoting this community lol and I'm already subscribed!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Thank you for your nice comment!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I haven't followed pop culture since about 1985. I've never heard of Kendrick or Drake (apart from Sir Francis Drake and Nick Drake, and of course you can't mean either of them, given they died in 1596 and 1974 respectively).

I like it here, not least because I understand a lot more of the things people talk about than I ever did on Reddit. Perhaps the users here tend to be older on average, I don't know. There are certainly fewer people than over there, and that must account for some of the differences in content scope.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

I’ve never wanted to be in it.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I feel it, but to me it's kind of positive.

Like, I can belong to a social group without being bombarded with nonsense that is just noise meant to distract.

It's the same kind of liberation and control I felt when switching to Linux (since you mentioned it) - one decision, and the entirety of Windows drama is no longer relevant to me. I'm part of a much smaller, much more concentrated group of real people, in a sort of blissful silence to which I only admit the information and people I find worth my attention.

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[–] [email protected] -3 points 3 days ago

You want to be on a bigger instance, like Lemmy.World. Always room to grow, but closer to what you're wanting these days

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

It's not like Reddit stopped existing. Lemmy will (hopefully) never be Reddit. That means that some itches Reddit will still have to scratch.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I made a community for survival horror games because I like them and like talking about it. Build it and they will come. Make a community to talk about things you like and those with similar interests will join.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 28 points 3 days ago

I’ve been way out of pop culture loop even before I started using Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Kendrick calling Drake a pedophile

OH SHIT! That's right! I forgot! Kendrick was doing the half time show! 😂

Thank you for posting this! I gotta watch the half time show now!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Watch for the enormous shit eating grin behind the microphone when he says "Hey Drake" on stage.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 3 days ago

Yes and I love it

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