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I find the """man up""" school of thought generally works for me when faced w a tough situation but 97% of the time it's presented as an obnoxious show of bravado. What are better ways to phrase this? (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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like, if i'm feeling bad but force myself to do something, i usually feel better. how to maintain the usefulness of this advice without presenting it as 'fuck your feelings', in that usual arrogant right wing sort of way

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I usually tell myself to "suck it up". Especially if it's something I know I will benefit from.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Makes me think of penis in mouth

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

Really weird way to phrase that if talking about a penis....unless you're talking about a flaccid one which is even more weirdly specific.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

If that is what one frequently sucks, one probably would think that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I don't suck enough of it these days

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Well suck it up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

It does beg the question of where did that phrase come from and what exactly are we sucking up. Maybe it is a penis, I don't judge. But also, what if it's a delicious cake?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

If you have to suck your cake up then it doesn't sound delicious to me, it sounds raw

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

So you're saying I can lick the mixer clean?