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[–] [email protected] 1 points 15 hours ago

i liked videogames and wrestling

 

like, that's such a cis girl think to think your parents were hiding from you the fact that you were secretly a dude, right?!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

thank you so much!! I’ll see how it goes :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

they're very conservative and transphobic too so they see me as a woman, and they think all amab people will do sexual things to afab people even IN PUBLIC

[–] [email protected] 1 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

he thinks "oh, this is the way i am" and won't do anything. he's said he wanted to break up many times but then he doesn't because then he won't have a partner (obviously)

 

here is the community, the list of words is on the first post as it's a minimalist language

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

the claymation? clay of course! :)

the community, on lemmy

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

it's a character they made, like for a story, not an imaginary friend

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

thanks so much! hopefully he can learn to fully love me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

my friend's mom is the same way afaik. i was barely even allowed to hang out with guys at age like 8 for that reason. thank you so much :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (8 children)

thank you! this helps, we could try couples therapy but i can't go with my family because they have an intense fear of me being SA'd so i can't even be around amab people in their presence

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

thank you so much :) idk why he's like this

 

my bf insinuates we break up or saying he can't show affection for me, bringing up breakups, etc. he also seems kinda out of it a lot.

he'll say he's uncomfortable in the relationship (uncomfortable dating, not because of me, i don't think) or wants to make sure he'll be good for me but then says he doesn't wanna talk about it or just brushes it off and says he'll continue to date me and just deal with it because he likes me and without me, he'll have no one.

 

i'm an osdd system. i always struggled with identity and never knew what i liked, who i was, etc. even now, i struggle sometimes, though it's a lot better. is anyone else the same?

 

when i was around 7 or 8, i was convinced i was actually born a boy and my family was lying to me. i wanted short hair too. i didn’t like to wear dresses or stereotypically girly stuff and i wanted to wear men’s clothes. i wanted to hang out with the other boys and it always seemed like the “boy world” was more my thing at that age than the girl world i was expected to enter.

 

[email protected], since i'm starting to become a fan of shows like wallace and gromit.

 

i really want to talk about claymation as i really like wallace and gromit all of a sudden but i need to know if there's any such community for aardman or claymation

 

i heard it's pretty common for trans people to feel like the opposite gender, so i did as a very young kid. starting at ages 7-8.

 

random question. i'm ftm and i go by jay. i'm fine with going by jay but i use a different name irl.

 

content warning: transphobia

i don't get why there will be some people will be like "i don't care what trans people do, it doesn't hurt me" but then constantly make fun of them, bully them, make memes about them, and talk about how trans women are men (since i see it with trans women especially). seriously, as a transmasc enby, you don't have to accept ME specifically but i won't talk to you. even though you should accept people, if you don't, at least try to be nice and don't make memes about them and bully them and call them delusional. i feel like i can feel their hateful personalities through the screen, ugh. be polite and show respect.

if i'm expressing myself, for example, why do you have to bring me down? i'm NOT hurting you. and why does it matter their assigned gender at birth? all that matters is how they identify now. respect should not have to be earned (though i believe it can be lost through people who intentionally hurt others, etc.). all people have irreplaceable value and deserve respect.

 

ni á úkhin núe uá-íu ón khí khúu

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hi guys, can't sleep (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

idk if this belongs here, but it's a general discussion so...

it's 2:30 am where i live, i can't sleep at all, hello :D i'm very sleepy but i can't sleep, if i don't respond to you guys in 30 min-1 hour, i'm trying to sleep, and in like 6-8 hours, i fell asleep finally

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