classybattery

first off, i feel like i would be letting my emotions get the better of me if i said she wasn't a nice person.

back in 2022, i dated this girl alicja from poland. alicja has a childhood best friend, agnieszka. our relationship started off fine, alicja was very flirty, helped me whenever she could. she struggled a lot with mental health and i helped her.

here's the thing: if i wasn't immediately there at the moment, she would threaten to kill or harm herself. she also heard voices that weren't there some of the time.

if i didn't do exactly what she wanted, she would block me. at first, after our breakup, we were friends. then, she ghosted me and blocked me.

she happened to be friends with a friend of mine.

she then said she wanted to be friends with me, and ghosted and blocked me again. and she told me it was because she was autistic. whether that's true, i don't know, but yeah. agnieszka blocked me, too, unfriended me and all my friends, left all our group chats, etc.

what could be the reason for this behavior?

hei, jeg vil lage norske grupper men jeg ser ikke instanser som snakker på norsk. kanskje jeg kunne gå til danske instansene men jeg snakker bare litt norsk.

i (m, gay) have been with my bf (m, bi) for about three months. we are in a long-distance relationship, and we've been friends for a year or two now, maybe like october 2023. lately, he's been really depressed. when he's not depressed, he's just tired and overall low energy. he never really has a lot of energy to talk to me or anything like that, and even if he wants to, he doesn't feel like it from his depression.

he has had a bad childhood and has trauma and i feel really bad for him. i get really sad/depressed when he's depressed and he says i do help, but only a little because he's so empty. he also doesn't know what he wants, so i'm there to support him. he doesn't know whether or not he wants to talk to me sometimes either, so sometimes we take mental health breaks and come back once we're happier.

i don't really know what to do, it's also not like he lost feelings for me.

he comes from a fairly poor family with an abusive family member.

my bf of almost three months (we've been friends for about a year or two) is always feeling stressed, depressed, or empty. i want to help him, so im just there with him and remind him that i'm there even when he doesn't feel like talking or we don't have much to say.

due to his feelings, he also doesn't know what he wants, and while he loves me, he doesn't know if he wants to talk to me and be around me or not. it makes me really sad, he's also had a bad childhood. i wanna be there for him but he also doesn't know what he wants and i feel sad thinking about and worrying about how sad he is.

he's been reading my messages and not replying or being offline more than usual.

jeg heter jay. jeg er en trans og homofil fyr, mine pronomen er han/hen (men dere kan bare bruke "han" hvis dere vil)

jeg er norskamerikansk og jeg lærer norsk. jeg elsker å se på flere nordmenn :D

i was straight for a long time until i dated a masc-presenting enby (masc + neutral terms) and realized i was ok with having boyfriends and dating guys and masc people. now i don’t even know if i like girls so i’ve come full circle or whatever…

sometimes i feel like my mannerisms are too girly/unpassable even though im a guy (a trans one or under the umbrella like the community im posting in), like i know it doesn't mean anything, but someone told someone they wouldn't pass as male if they used emojis like 😭 or ☺️ even though my bf uses them all the time. idk, i know im a guy and there's nothing wrong with femininity, but still, this is a lil rant i guess

you can request some in the replies too and i can find some!! please also let me know if there is more that you know of to add!!

from what i can find and only some:

mandarin - fasheng.ing

portuguese - lemmy.eco.br

lemmy.teuto.icu

forum.ayom.media

lemmy.pt

lemmy.plaureano.nohost.me

spanish - mujico.org

feddit.cl

chachara.club

russian - rekabu.ru

shibanu.app

japanese - lm.korako.me

philosophy.cafe

fenmou.cyou

lem.ph3j.com

polish - szmer.info

fedit.pl

tech.pr0n.pl

lemmy.sieprawski.pl

german -

stammtisch.hallertau.social

rollenspiel.forum

lemmy.fedifriends.social

feddit.org

lemmy.klein.ruhr

zonenranslite.de

lemmy.hogru.ch

linz.city

french - social.ggbox.fr

jlai.lu

links.gayfr.online

kourjetez.bzh?

lemmy.coupou.fr

danish - feddit.dk

slangenettet.pyjam.as

swedish - aggregatet.org

feddit.nu

lemmy.ahall.se

italian - feddit.it

l.posterdati.it

diggita.com

lemmy.casasnow.noho.st

i'm currently using tesseract to view and post things, i've also heard of photon. are there any else?

that’s definitely me right now, sadly.